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Bhagavad Gita Verse 4.5
 26 October 2019  

Memories - In Gita Verse 4.5 The Personality of Godhead said: Many, many births both you and I have passed. I can remember all of them, but you cannot, O subduer of the enemy!Krishna tells Arjuna that I can remember not only my past lives but also yours and our relationship, also. But you cannot remember yours.As Memories of our past lives have been prevented by nature. There is a reason for it. It is necessary that in the overall system of one’s life, one forgets most of the things that happen to him every day. Similarly, we don’t remember all the memories that we create during our lifetime. However, that which you don’t remember is not erased from your mind. Only the connection between your consciousness and that memory is severed.For example, if a person lives for fifty years, billions of memories will be formed in his mind. If he were to remember them all he would go mad. So he remembers whatever is meaningful: whatever is worthless he slowly forgets. But your forgetting does not mean the memory is completely wiped out. It merely slips out of your center of consciousness and is stored in some corner of your mind.Buddha has given a very significant name to this storehouse. He calls it the storehouse of consciousness. It is just like having an attic or a basement where all the unwanted things are stored. Even though the objects are out of your sight, they still remain in the house. Similarly, your memories go out of sight, but remain accumulated in some corners of your mind.It would become difficult to live if you were to recall all the memories of even this life. In order that the mind stays free to handle the events of the future, the past has to be forgotten. Since you forget what happened yesterday, you become capable of living tomorrow. This way the mind goes on emptying and it is able to look ahead. In order to look ahead, you must forget the past. Without forgetting what has already occurred, you won’t be able to see what is ahead of you.Every day a part of your mind must become blank so that it can receive new impressions, otherwise how can it work? As the future arrives, the past disappears every day. And as soon as this future becomes the past, it disappears too so that we are free to receive what lies ahead. This is how the mind functions.We cannot carry the full memory of even one life. You won’t be able to recall anything if I ask you what you did on the first of January ten years ago. You did exist on January 1, 2009, and you must have done something from dawn till dusk, yet you will be unable to remember anything. A small technique of hypnosis can revive the memory of that day. If you are hypnotized and a part of your consciousness is put to sleep, and then you are asked to describe what you did on that day, you will recount everything.Another thing regarding memories need to be understood - How we can recall our memories from storehouse of consciousness.To keep the memories in the storehouse does not mean that you will not be able to remember it. It does not mean that all your memories will be dissolved or destroyed. It only means that now you do not live in those memories, you are not identified with those memories. You are freed from them. They will remain but now they will be just a part of your brain, not part of your consciousness.The brain is a mechanism, just like a tape-recording machine. The brain goes on recording everything. The brain is the physical part. It will go on recording, and your memories cannot be destroyed unless the brain is destroyed. But that is not the problem. The problem is that your consciousness is filled with memories. Your consciousness goes on identifying itself with the brain and the brain is always stirred by your consciousness – and memories go on flooding you.The memory remains. It is not being destroyed. Through meditation the mind is not destroyed. You simply start transcending it. It remains a storehouse; you need not live in it. If you live in it then you are mad. You need not live in a storehouse. When you need something, you go into the storehouse, bring that something out and use it. But a storehouse is not a living-room.But you have made it one. Your storehouse of memory has become your living room; you live there. Do not live there, that is the whole meaning. Be in the present and whenever the past is needed use it. But do not allow it to go on continuously overflooding you. That overflooding by the past makes your consciousness dim and dull. Then you cannot see with clear eyes, you cannot feel with a clear heart. Then nothing is clear, everything becomes confused.Right now Arjuna is flooded with his immediate past memories. So he cannot watch his any past memories. As all the past memories are stored in your consciouness. On the other hand Krishna is not flood with his past memories but he take out the require data which is relevant to the present moment and respond in the present moment.What is difference between Krishna and us is only one thing we are identified with our memories and he is not. So he can use his memories as resource to act and respond in the present moment.

Greet Your Elder Brother with Some Beautiful Rakhi Gifts
 23 May 2019  

Raksha Bandhan is marked as a special day to recognize the pious relationship of brothers and sisters. They are the best companions who spend most of the time playing and doing fun activities at home. There are also different memorable incidents in siblings life, which helps to strengthen their bond of love forever. All the sisters start shopping before one week of Raksha Bandhan. They also purchase some fantastic gifts and colorful rakhis online for their loving brothers. On the day of Raksha Bandhan, a sister ties the pious thread of talisman on the wrist of her brother. She also prays for his good health and prosperity. There are also different traditions to commemorate the Rakhi festival. The primary purpose of celebrating Raksha Bandhan is to spend some memorable moments with your siblings. It also allows you to refresh some precious memories with them at home.Following are some unusual rakhi gift ideas to greet your elder brother on Raksha Bandhan.Personalized Candle Holders:Rakhi festival gives you a chance to delight your brothers with some unique gifts or presents. If you want to make your elder brother feel special, then you should make an artistic candle holder for him. You can even find the customized gifts at online rakhistore to express your deep feelings to your brother. Try to personalize the candle holder with a lovely quote or caption that matches his personality. It will be a perfect room decor item to make him smile on Raksha Bandhan. He will surely admire such a meaningful gift from your side.A Customized Bottle or Mug:The gift selection for your elder brother may be a difficult task for you. Here is another cool gift idea to delight him on this memorable occasion. You can personalize a glass bottle or coffee mug, including a meaningful message to show regard for him. If you want to make an attractive display, then print a beautiful photo of him with you on the gift. It will be the best option to give him time to relive some golden memories of life. He would feel fantastic to receive a token of sister’s love on this religious occasion.Basket of Food Gifts:All the sisters want to dedicate some useful gifts to their loving brothers on their special events. When it is Rakhi Festival, then you should also plan some essential food gifts for your dear brother. You can make a basket adding his favorite food items to delight on Raksha Bandhan. There are different food items like dry fruits, cookies, chocolates, and cake, etc. which you can put in a beautiful hamper. Try to add all the nutritious food items to wish a long, active, and healthy life for your brother. He will enjoy eating such delicious desserts and snacks in his free time.Essential Accessories for Him:When it comes to make your brother feel special, then you should try some unusual gifts that suit his personality. You can also select some accessories which he likes to carry most of the time. It can be a bracelet, pendant, sunglasses, and smartwatch, etc. to give him a new style statement. You can even purchase branded accessories from online gift delivery store to show your affection for him. Purchase something that he can regularly carry for office. It will be the best option to make him feel special.A Designer Photo Frame:Siblings have a beautiful collection of their special memories of past events. They also want to preserve them in the form of frames and photo albums. On this Rakhi festival, you can make a designer photo frame to enchant your brother. Select a memorable photo of your childhood memories to put on the frame. You can also highlight it adding a thoughtful caption or quote on it. Make sure to choose a big photo frame to give him a perfect room decor on Raksha Bandhan. He will always remember you while seeing the big photo frame in his living room.So, you can go with all of these beautiful gift ideas to delight your elder brother on Raksha Bandhan.

5 Places You Must Add In Your Shimla Holiday Package
 23 July 2019  
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Shimla is such type of place where you can have a delightful retreat in the mountains and create some unforgettable lifetime memories. You apart from monsoon season you can choose anytime of the year to visit there. Summer, autumn, spring and especially winter will surprise you with its serenity. You can go there from any place from India by flight or by train or by road. But you need proper plan to go there and enjoy at it fullest. That’s why you can avail a proper Shimla Holiday Package of a professional travel company. You can go there along with entire family or friends. If you are newlywed couple then you can plan for Honeymoon too. Shimla is always ready to meet the quench of serenity of everyone.Best time to visit-Shimla is known as ‘’Queens of hills’’. Though you can go there anytime but in winter season you will experience a complete different look of Shimla. From October to January you will experience snowy filled mountain which will invite you for ice skating, toy train ride etc. But you can go in February, March too. Whenever you contact tour operator they will make a proper Shimla Holiday Package according to your holidays.Best places to visit in ShimlaJakhu Temple-It is one of famous temples in Shimla. This temple is dedicated to lord Hanuman. This place is covered with dense Deodar tress from both sides.Kali Temple-You can have hill top view from this temple .This temple was build in 1845 and it is dedicated to lord Kali. ‘’Shyamala’’ is another name of Goddess Kali. The name ‘’Shimla’’ derives from ‘’Shyamala’’. Don’t forget to add this temple in your Shimla Holiday Package.Christ Church-This church is quite popular in these days as it becomes one of the popular places to shoot for Bollywood movies. This church is on the eastern end of the Ridge. This is one of the oldest churches in North India. This Church is a fine example of neo-Gothic architecture of Victorian era. You will see            stained glass windows, a pipe organ, a huge clock tower and a rich collection of old scriptures.Naldehra-If you are getting bored by visiting church and temples then you can enjoy horse riding in Naldehra. During horse riding you will see golf club, Cedar trees and panoramic view of Shimla.Kufri fun world, Kufri zoo-If you plan your Shimla Holiday Package in winter season, then Kufri never disappoint you. This place become fully covered with snow in winter and becomes paradise of ice skating and creating some cherish able memories. If you are on your honeymoon then you must not forget to add this place in your package (in winter time).This place will give you ample opportunity to create some romantic memories by clicking.How to commute?You can take flight from your place to Chandigarh or Shimla. Then you can take hire car or board into Volvo bus.Or you can go by toy train from Kalka to Shimla.Feel free to contact your tour operator and say what you are thinking about your Shimla tour. Don’t forget to check out that they have added these must visit places in Shimla or not, details of accommodations so that you won’t bear any extra cost. Tell them to make budget friendly Shimla Holiday Package for you.

Rakshabandan – Renewal of Memories
 18 July 2019  

Rakshabandan is nearing. I usually don’t celebrate but have tied few Rakhis to guys during School and College days. But now I don’t feel like tying Rakhi to anyone, after certain age I would not like to explicitly celebrate but would experience.Every year when Rakshabandan arrives, one person always run on my mind, my colleague. She is in different project. We started talking to each other during lunch and then started having lunch together, going for walk, or having coffee at evening. One day I was outside my office premise, ready to take bus, saw her coming from the opposite side of the road. Seeing me, she said, “I had gone to check the charge to courier Rakhi for my brother but they are charging too high, I will check some other Courier in my area”. Then we said bye and parted to our routes.Knowing her for few years, I got to know, every Rakshabandan, her sister in law would come with family to her place. My colleague, would be the most busiest person on that day, she will be preparing meals – starters, main course, dessert. They all celebrate together. She is used to this routine for years now. Once I asked her, “Don’t you wish to go to your home during Rakshabandan?”. She replied, “I would love to but being here is also important”. May be deep down, she wants to go to her home once during Rakshabandan but she has accepted and celebrate the day with her family.I always hope to hear a different story about Rakshabandan from her. Till then, every year, Rakshabandan will always remind me of my colleague who make this celebration a memorable one for her family!!

The current prestigious District 5 birthday cake shop
 12 August 2019  
Art

Birthdays not only create happy moments and countless memorable memories, but also sacred because celebrating the presence of each person on this life. Therefore, the birthday cake is not only a cake, but it also has a much deeper meaning than that. Because birthday cake is considered a highlight of the party, where we connect all of us together during the birthday party. And the most wonderful memories that every time we remember are present this creamy cake.Now together with the rise of economic life, consumers are also demanding more. Birthday festival is one of the important holidays, so we also set very high requirements. For each customer's liking and personality, each product requires a different flavor and form. Along with that, the method of placing cakes must be very simple to meet the requirements of busy life.Banhngot.vn is a banh kem quan 5 shop that meets all of the above criteria. Located in a convenient location, it is easy to make cakes and deliveries everywhere in District 5 and many neighborhoods in the fastest time. Thanks to the combination of the quintessence of national traditions and Western techniques, Banhngot.vn always processes delicious and beautiful banh kem sinh nhat with thousands of designs and on demand.Notably, at Banhngot.vn you can conveniently order cakes online. And after 2 hours, the shop will ship to you, the transportation is done by professional Shipper and completely free. This is considered the most sincere thanks for our familiar customers.Parallel to that, Banhngot.vn offers free accessories such as knife and fork. The payment method is very diverse, you can transfer via bank or pay directly. The birth of Banhngot.vn is to serve and bring maximum benefits to users, and we are always committed to continuous innovation in order to bring you the best quality of service.If you still have questions about something, contact the hotline right away, the expert and enthusiastic advisory team of the store will answer any problems. The motto "Customer is God" is always taken care of by Banhngot.vn members and transformed into practical jobs.

What Should you Consider in Wedding and Pre-Wedding Photographers in Lucknow
 5 June 2019  

Traditional rituals, happiness all around and chirpiness in the atmosphere together make wedding ceremonies memorable. When it comes to capture these elements in a subtle way, one has to look for the best wedding photographyservices. In Lucknow, wedding photography becomes grand due to the location, ambiance and modern preferences of the family. A wedding photographer in Lucknow should be chosen after checking his expertise and talent. Besides, innovation should also be watched out for along with photo-finishing offered in the services of wedding photographer. All it takes to find the team of best wedding photographers is to get a brief insight about their work.In the past few years, cameras being used for shooting weddings and clicking the candid pictures of wedding ceremonies have undergone a huge change. Not only the cameras, but, the photography techniques and accessories which wedding photographers rely on are instilled with high-end technology. On the other hand, when it comes to execute the projects of pre-wedding photography in Lucknow, photographers ensure that theme, location, lens, lighting system and all the aspects are aligned together. This proper co-ordination between various aspects enables wedding and pre-wedding photographers in Lucknow to offer the best services to the clients.In case, you are planning to avail the pre-wedding and wedding photography services in Lucknow, then, here’s what you should know:Digital and print photos of wedding must have similar quality: You should make sure that the wedding photographers whom you are about to rely on offer transparent services. They should assure you finesse, grace and perfection in not just digital photography, but, print wedding photography services should also be of high resolution. For example, the photos which you watch on laptop, mobile or on the link provided by the photographer may be of high quality. Nevertheless, you should not neglect the perfection of photos in the wedding album as it is the major source of handy memories of wedding and other rituals. Wedding album might sound an old-fashioned source to preserve wedding photos, but, it is easily accessible thing to be flipped over and step back into memories. Hence, you should refer to the past wedding photography projects of the chosen wedding photographer.Request pre-wedding photographer to show his creative side: Every pre-wedding photographer may claim to offer unique pre-wedding photography in Lucknow. However, you must always be prepared with a checklist when you are approaching the photographer for pre-wedding photography services. You must ask for a few examples of his creative instincts added in the previous wedding or pre-wedding projects accomplished by him. On the basis of his work, it will become easier for you to take decision.Types of services offered should be checked: It is always beneficial to check the other services apart from wedding photography are being offered by the photographer. In Lucknow, there are many pre-wedding and wedding photographers who offer comprehensive services to their clients. This step will help you in finding the best wedding or pre-wedding photographer who will make your family wedding moments cherished.On a last note, Lucknow is a city of palatial elegance, you must choose the wedding photographer cautiously to experience the visually amazing work.

A glorious year to 'An introduction to birds'
 27 April 2019  
Art

This ebook was first published on 25th of February 2018 but after certain strong reviews by the publisher 'Lulu' it went into the revision process and ultimately by their phenomenal response of making it approve the Ebook got published on 11th of March, 2018 by great team support including Nick sir and Priya madam in it's prime settlement. As a common fact the ebook was 1st on education field by Mr. pant on such a great publishing platform like Lulu which publishes all genres and it was a great feeling once the Ebook came into existence back in march 2018 for the author and his team who celebrated it's arrival by great enthusiasm. Generally as a book on birds the ebook is a strong insight into certain birds with their lifestyle and thus with some popular reviews from across the world, the Ebook has gained popularity and momentum around this whole year since it's arrival as an official ebook on such a popular portal like Lulu first of all.By above mentioned factors it can be considered that 11th March is the official day of the Ebook with it's release and hence on 11th of March 2019 the prominent education ebook completed it's 1 year in progress of existence where it did attract many reders from across the world, gained nice support from certain library platforms to make it available and also inspired some great people from certain governments to encourage it's impact. The biggest achievement of this Ebook was to reach the japanese official government portal who's pic was also shared back in 2018 with the social media post informing the public and it was defining moment for the Ebook as an educational commitment for which Mr. pant was humbled. Besides countries like Australia, Singapore, Turkey and Slovenia also loved through official governmental portal and it was great sight for the author with extreme delight. All in all this ebook brought Mr. pant glory as an author with some fond memories along side his team and he is greatful to Lulu that it allowed publishing and impressive impact of this Ebook worldwide around this span of 1 year for which it shall remain a deep affection inside the whole team. He is also thankful to Nick sir (who is not available anymore due to certain personal reasons)and Priya madam who is always available to encourage by cartoons and photo credits and her support has helped in great success of this ebook also. Besides Mr. pant is gratified to his parents for freedom and support, his family for encouragement with zeal, and he is gratified to all the readers worldwide who has shared their love to this Ebook without which the Ebook wont have been great success by all accounts. What he wishes to express as an author that this book on education may be the first but this is not the last one and He is sure that the way love is presented to this work so wil be the same for the others books that may or will come in future whether it's environment or nature or in other fields. Besides he is also excited for some prominent works coming by around his birthday in 2019 in print and he is sure that they wil gain equal love and support by readers in print market and he is gratified already for the beginner craze for them. ultimately for now it's the time to cherish as the 1st education book on birds by him completes one year, so let's get together all readers and writers to celebrate and though it's 3 days gone by, the memories are on the high and thank you all for now for the great support at large... 

7 Unforgettable Things to Do in Singapore
 22 May 2019  
Art

Singapore always attract the million of visitors who visit here not only for the fun but they bring along them the culture of eminence when they plan for Singapore holiday packages and think of becoming part of the remarkable trip to the nation indeed.In the quest to come to this remarkable country, they do apply for the Holiday package online which are easily available and make sure first that there is no hurdle to pass through with all formalities done accordingly Once done with the quicker pace life to follow on, they are ready to plan out for the Flight ticket offers which are also easily available by the various air industries and by having them they make sure to land in Singapore and spend a great momentum by being here for a longer time that can do them great feeling of delight and makes their journey remarkable. Things not to be left while travelling Singapore However when people plan for the Holiday packages for Singapore they are not realising the ventures they can plan and they must be aware of the exploring places they would wish to go as there are places including seven best of them which should not be missed. In this way when they are looking for the Holiday packages online they must trace on those seven hot zones to follow up that can lead to the right channel and will do you lot of good by tracing them for your virtual advantage. All you have to do is first you make sure to get the momentum by the Flight ticket offers and land in Singapore and once you come to the country your mission to collect memorable experiences begin which should plan those seven places to visit and make it remarkable by all means. The seven places not to be missed out while travelling Singapore are as follows: A trip to Singapore zoo It is always a great venture to take the trip to the Singapore zoo and have best of wildlife experience to fresh the mood and make impact. Shopping joy at Little India Considered as the hub of the best market shopping product of Asian flair, it is another place you should not miss out. The Mac Ritchie nature trail Another of the naturalist adventure, it will delight your tour and shall give you best ventures into the hinterland and suburbs of Singapore. The thrills around Hort Park and Mount Faber Park Considered as the most unforgettable places to visit, you must add them to your visiting list or your venture to Singapore is always half done indeed. Fast food delight at W39 The place providing unique variety for Burgers and other fast food item is a joyous place to go into and you can munch along there having best of remarkable memories. Maple and Market Another of the food place to visit on with varieties of Cup cakes with Victorian, Cambridge and others is also a place not to be missed while you touring Singapore. The joy around Marina bay sands Finally if you are done with having hectic schedule of visiting, travel and having toasts of delicious food varieties, you can drop on this place, have some delightful moments and get best of memories which should do you great flair by all means. In this way if you are travelling to Singapore the above mentioned 7 places must not be missed in your plans and you mutt think along for them while visiting here which can make a great impact. Take on the journey, plan it along and make it memorable by great venture and by visiting them should finally do you lot of good by all means... 

THE LANGUAGE OF VIOLENCE
 7 April 2018  

Derrick Jensen, in his book “A language older than words” showcases a monologue of torturous life in the first chapter titled silencing. In a world of mixed ethnicities and cultures, jensen wishes to connect and hit homes of the readers with his nerve wrecking message about the existing mushrooming violence. Marveling environmental beauty and the reality of space, he traverses from his memories of the troubled past and guides us to his future and expeditions where he sought lying was the only route to mend his living. The implicit silence that lurks within the society now and since childhood then, is an act of living in a world distant from the truth. In our schooling years whence we all our free birds with no systemisation in our lives, we risk our hearts at the pleasures of being honest and innocent. The education we receive is a monopolistic game play to create disparity between what we are taught and what we experience and feel. The difference makes us stuck in a virtual world where there is a constant conflict between the residence of belief or sight.To survive from which, we must speak lies. With the passage of time, we get bound within the bountiful cultures of knowledge and monotony strikes our lives and we begin to settle. Settle for the way we work, the pattern in which we breathe, the space in which we travel. This life is ushered by physical, mental emotional oppression.However the contemporary era may be, we continue to deny the truth in reality and become mindless, deaf and mute to those in need. “the lies act as barriers to truth.”If one chose to speak, he would be silenced by the oppressing powers of culture, politics in the society. “Consider your own life, the ways you deny your own experience, the ways you have to deaden your own empathies to get through the day.” This subjugation of truth and self acceptance that has been hardwired in our lives sJensen snap shows flashes from his distraught childhood of extreme physical abuse, to which he was made accustomed to as they were ritualised by his father. Making him witness the rule of the powerful, he made jensen sit on the table,quietly,while he assaulted and victimised his family members. after this became a regime, jensen abandoned his belief system and gave up the fight for a change. His father, made him believe in a world which was made out of a figment of his imagination.To him, this ‘control’ over his thoughts and subsequently actions was ‘normal’. although The intensity of torture and pain inflicted over jensen was a customised service upon him done by his father;he was made to believe that this was the routine for him. Escaping from such incidences was a question of human dignity, more of all, his survival. How did he cater to this acute urge to survive? By lying.Jensen rightfully demonstrates how violence speaks the language of lies. “do not believe a word I write in this book, about my father, about the culture, about anything.” Jensen puts the reader in a state of epistemic ambivalence when he contradicts himself and his stories in an attempt to fabricate the truth. For even then, he wishes to make his ends meet. However unbelievable these covers may be, they must always serve as the barrier for truth to colour the horrid reality. He caged himself in a rock crystallized world where he chose silence over speech, calm over revolt and lies over truth. He quotes R.D Laing “ if our experience is destroyed we have lost our own selves” which is precisely jensen’s trial. By denying of it all being happened at the first place, he attempts on losing those memories. These fabrications are the only bread to the subjugated human, suffocating inside the uniform bars of falsehood.History reflects the human tendency to turn a blind eye and lie about the existence of the to existence of successive damaging events. The study from the Allport, Bruner and Jandorf , psychologists of the holocaust and the transformation of the oppressed,from victims to survivors, is hard hitting one. In that period of constant misery and turmoil, steadily victims adapted to their fate,they became tolerant. This tolerance came by the harvest of escapism in their sweet,small endeavors as a mechanism for survival. They found their abode in mozart, business trips and leisure at the countryside. This helped them carve out their world of facades and live in an unreal reality. Jensen attempts the same by reaching out to the naturally expressive yet unspeaking and unhearing stars and moons. “I did not die because they spoke to me.”Jensen snap shows flashes from his distraught childhood of extreme physical abuse, to which he was made accustomed to as they were ritualised by his father. Making him witness the rule of the powerful, he made jensen sit on the table ,quietly,while he assaulted and victimised his family members. By staining his head, instead of painting a fresh leaf, it became a regime, jensen abandoned his belief system and gave up the fight for a change. His father, made him believe in a world which was made out of a figment of his imagination.To him, this ‘control’ over his thoughts and subsequently actions was ‘normal’. although The intensity of torture and pain inflicted over jensen was a customised service upon him done by his father;he was made to believe that this was the routine for him. Escaping from such incidences was a question of human dignity, more of all, his survival. How did he cater to this acute urge to survive? By lying.Jensen rightfully demonstrates how violence speaks the language of lies. “do not believe a word I write in this book, about my father, about the culture, about anything.” Jensen puts the reader in a state of epistemic ambivalence when he contradicts himself and his stories in an attempt to fabricate the truth. For even then, he wishes to make his ends meet. However unbelievable these covers may be, they must always serve as the barrier for truth to colour the horrid reality. He caged himself in a rock crystallized world where he chose silence over speech, calm over revolt and lies over truth. He quotes R.D Laing “ if our experience is destroyed we have lost our own selves” which is precisely jensen’s trial. By denying of it all being happened at the first place, he attempts on losing those memories. These fabrications are the only bread to the subjugated human, suffocating inside the uniform bars of falsehood.The study from the Allport, Bruner and Jandorf , psychologists of the holocaust and the transformation of the oppressed,from victims to survivors, is hard hitting one. In that period of constant misery and turmoil, steadily victims adapted to their fate,they became tolerant. This tolerance came by the harvest of escapism in their sweet,small endeavors as a mechanism for survival. They found their abode in mozart, business trips and leisure at the countryside. This helped them carve out their world of facades and live in an unreal reality. By staunch He reaches out to the time when humans see but don’t acknowledge, hear but not listen and register quite what happens around them. He talks of a time when if a grenade were to roll across on the floor, it humans won’t realize it and turn a blind eye to them. Grease,oil and barrels all of which are uncommon to an average working class human, would be highly common. To the dockworkers and factory-men and thus, dangers in a mill would be shortly adjusted to their lifestyle. They too live in a little world of their own lies, ruled by terror but governed by their own escape.Humans are the tenants of the hyperbole of their deception and by each passing moment of progression or digression they save themselves by being stagnant in their own times. . There are atrocities, havocs, desirous activities, disasters and other moments of upheavels for an average human, imagining an illusionary universe can provide a necessary escape. Hence comes the dire need for adopting false mechanisms. False mechanism provides a fraudulent environment which is subjective to everyone, even if so in reality there is a mass in the common pit. In Jensen’s state of constant denial and neglect of reality, he dwells on his experience and faded memories, even while trying to let go of it. They are always arriving in a constant state of departure. We are silencing the reality which begs our interest and action. And even though we go on eons and eons, we are only here for the fraction of fraction of a second and so we stand in a pool of human built subdued untruths. A pool of veils on truth,  made by the subject hood of individuals ,granted to it by the society to facilitate existence. After all the romanticism of relativity theory lies in the passage of time which depends directly as to where we are standing. In past, present, future or just an unreal world decorated by lies of our own.

The Best Medicine
 20 September 2019  
Art

The Best MedicineTopics of discussions with friends hover around different issues at different ages. As teenagers, we discussed about our challenges in learning, adolescent problems, etc.  In our youth, we discussed about our dreams of our future, life-partners, career, etc.  A few lucky ones discussed about their love affairs, which had happy ending!  Then came our middle age, when we were busy managing our families and careers and very rarely got to meet our friends.  Whenever we met, the discussion was about how we did the balancing act, our children’s responses, concerns about their education, behaviour and so on.  Children grew up and entered teens and then we had the challenge of handling them.  God knows whether our parents thought about this challenge so much, because the exposure that we had as teenagers was so limited.  Time passed and our children left homes in search of greener pastures.  They found their life partners and the focus now is on their new families.  This is a natural cycle but we all started feeling the pain of empty nests.  We were left to tend to our aged parents and hence when we meet people, what we mostly discuss is ‘health’ or rather ‘ill-health’!  It is not that death is the trend now and it never occurred in the yesteryears but death did not haunt us as much as it does now.  We keep hearing about the demise of the elders in the family, our friends, our colleagues and that keeps reminding us that the time is ticking away.  What haunts us more than death is the age-related complications before we actually embrace death!  Thus all we discuss is about exercise, prevention of certain chronic diseases, management of chronic diseases, weight-loss, diet, medicines, labs, hospitals, doctors - Oh!Do we really get respite from such thoughts and discussions?  We do, if only we go back in time!  How do we do that?  Thanks to technology, we are able to connect to our old friends, friends who can make us feel young!  Recently, we connected through WhatsApp and fifteen of us, who schooled together met up in Secunderabad!  Wow!  I tell you!  Nothing can be as invigorating as attending a school reunion!  Many of my classmates live in Hyderabad/Secunderabad and they took the lead and organised the reunion painstakingly.  We were lucky to get in touch with eight of our teachers.   We invited the teachers to our school Keyes High School, Secunderabad, which was established in 1881.  We felicitated them and sought their blessings.  They were so touched and were genuinely happy that we had all done well in our lives and careers and our children have excelled in their fields.  In fact, one of our teachers said, ‘Seeing your vigour and enthusiasm and your fresh memories I feel like gathering you all in a classroom and conducting a lecture!”We then spent hours in a service apartment, sharing all those golden memories, reliving every incident.  Each of us had something to share.  One of us is a gynaecologist and she shared many of her professional experiences in a very witty manner.  All of us spoke about our marriages and some of us had juicy news about love affairs!  We spoke about the play ‘Panchali Sabadam’, which our classmates had staged on the annual day! We pulled each other’s legs, laughed heartily and even danced and sang!  All of us went back in time by 46 years, putting aside all our present worries, pains and sorrows!  Three days just flew by.  When the time came for us to depart, we were all sad but all of us decided that we had to organise such meets more often in future, getting some more of our friends into the loop.  A few more friends have joined the group since then and are now very eagerly waiting for the second reunion, which we are organising in our garden city in December.  This is the b medicine for all ailments in this age!  Do take this medicine in higher dosages!

Book Review: Twisted by Shravya Gunipudi
 4 July 2018  

Book Title: TwistedAuthor: Shravya GunipudiFormat: Paper BackTotal Number of Pages: 254Language: EnglishPublisher:Notion PressPublishing Date:  1 edition 2017ISBN-10: 1947349090ISBN-13: 978-1947349094It is weird that I still meet my mother almost every day.I am 35 years old. But that is not why it is weird.It is because nobody else has seen her since 18th September, 20 years ago.Because, that is the day she died.”Meet Ria, the charming woman with an edge. Her life is nearly perfect. Or so it seemed, until one fateful day an accident wipes out parts of her memory. Suddenly, she starts to experience strange visions involving repressed childhood memories which send shivers down her spine.A man called ‘Anuj’ whom she can’t remember.The sadness that led to her mother’s sudden death.Answers that her husband Jay refuses to share.Secrets begin to resurface and Ria is left with no option but to confront her own fears.Twisted is a tale of love, family and friendship, where bitter memories and shocking truths drive everyone to the point where they have to decide – Will the relationships crumble to dust or can love really conquer all?My TakeThe cover is attractive enough to catch attention. Tittle of the book Twisted gives the in that the plot will have lot’s of twist and turns. According to the plot its apt title.The plot is unique; the storyline is gripping as well as intriguing and the narrative takes the story forward flawlessly. The plot is strong and the author has been able to do full justice to it.This is the story of main protagonist Ria has a troubled childhood. After an accident, she lost her memory and not able to recognize any one from her family. Jay her husband supports Ria in her every good and bad time. To know more read the story to unfold the twist and turns in the book.The pace is perfect, neither slow nor too fast. It is steady and smooth. This novel is a perfect blend of love, friendship, emotion, hates, twist-n-turns revenge, psychological drama, and trust. Author has portrayed each and every character with utmost significance of their own and every one of them has done justice to their respective roles throughout the story. The book have been portrayed in such a way, that any reader will be able to connect with the story and live the journey with them.The language is simple to follow which make it easier for the reader to connect to the characters in the stories and resonate with them.The characters are well developed and one can easily relate to their actions, reactions, mental agony, outbursts, etc. My favorite character of this book was Jay. It’s hard to find a such a loving husband in these days after knowing all the truth between Ria and Anuj then also he is caring and supporting Ria. Something very magical can happen when you read a good book. I felt that magic in me after reading this book. It makes me realize what true love is, as it demands nothing but just to be expressed.Overall, An engrossing read that’s capable of keeping the reader on edge till the very end.Kudos to the author for penning down this book.Looking forward to read more books by the author.Overall Ratings- 5/5 Stars.About the AuthorShravya Gunipudi, a 23 year old CA and CS, has been writing ever since the tender age of nine. Now, more than a decade since her first journey with the pen, she has won numerous prizes for her Articles, Short Stories and Poetry. She was a part of 19 Anthologies with a total of 17 published stories and was recognised as ‘Best Writer of the Year, 2013’ by yourstoryclub.com. She is also the editor of the project ‘The Book of Dreams’, by Numerique Publications. Recently, she was awarded ‘Best Author of the Year, 2016’ by salisonline.Shravya wishes to explore her passion both in Finance and Writing. It is her dream to merge her creative side with her analytical one. Writing, she believes, is the best form of expression that calms the mind and frees the soul. Her favourite quote is ‘Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing about’.Her Debut Novel, ‘Turning Back Time’, is now available in stores! Grab the book here- Amazon.in Amazon.com

Book Review: You Are the best thing That Happened to Me by Sushil Kumar Rana
 13 September 2018  

Book Title:You Are the best thing That Happened to MeAuthor: Sushil Kumar RanaFormat: Paper BackTotal Number of Pages: 208Language: EnglishPublisher: Redgrab booksPublishing Date: Second edition (31 July 2018)ISBN-10: 9387390403ISBN-13: 978-9387390409Sushil: A successful writer and an engineer from a Middle-class family.Anjali: A gorgeous and smart girl. Anyone can fall in love at the first sight of her.Aashish: Sushil's Best friend, who loves Anjali one-sided.Anuradha: A journalism Student and doing research on Writer.Sushil Pandit is a mechanical engineer. He is also an author of two bestselling novels. Now, he has everything in life, except his love, Anjali. Love is a blissful and everyone has to experience it once in a lifetime. Love makes life lively and also give a reason to live. There was a time when these two lovebirds were an example of two bodies, one soul. But a turning point in their lives sets them apart, with their soul still united and strong. Experience a roller coaster of emotions in this story. Find out how Sushil changed into a successful person from an ordinary boy.My TakeStarting from the title of the book You Are the best thing That Happened to Me gives the hint’s to readers it’s going to be a love story. The title is apt according to the plot.  It’s been said that never judge a book cannot be judged by looking at its cover alone but I personally feel cover can be much better to catch attraction among readers.The story starts with an award function where our protagonist Sushil Pandit receives an award for best employee of the year 2016. Sushil Pandit is a mechanical engineer by profession and author of two bestselling novels. He has achieved everything in life except the love of his life. After the function on his way to home he happens to meets Anuradha a journalism student who doing some research on authors. Anuradha wants to know more about Sushi’s life after achieving everything in life he is incomplete.  Then the story enters into the flashback memories of when he was in school. Sushil joins a coaching center with his friends to improve grades in subject. There he meets Anjali for the first time and felt attracted towards her. Later Anjali and Sushil become best friends who can understand each other well. Sushil was confused with his feelings towards Anjali is it love or attraction? Ashish and Anjali are they both equally important to him he can’t even think of losing one for other. On the other hand Ashish had a crush on Anjali. To know more what happened next to Sushil read the book.The author had beautifully weaved the struggles of every middle class family, the family bonding, surprise birthday celebration of Anjali at tuition center, hang outs with friends, decision to choose between career and love, struggles after college, job hunt and many more incidents. I love how cunning crafted the mother and sons bonding.Language of the book is lucid and written in a simple way to comprehend for any kind of reader. A book which won’t require the use of a dictionary, a book which evens an amateur reader would love to get indulged in. The pace of the story is slow and kept dragging at some time. The characters are well developed and one can easily relate them.  Narration of the book is simple and engaging. A few typographical errors here and there need to be rectified. If the edit was done properly, the story would have sounded much better. If the Hindi dialogues were translated into English it was much better since everyone will not able to understand it.I recommend this book to the readers who are seeking for a quick read or a light-hearted romantic novel.Overall 3/5 StarsGrab the copy here- Amazon |FlipkartAbout the AuthorSushil Kumar Rana is a Mechanical Engineer work in an MNC company in Odisha. He belongs to a middle class family, was born and brought up in Bolangir District, Odisha. He always tried to inhabit the life in his way and his parents always support him. He is an aspiring author, contributed in an anthology is published by Purlit (Rainbow of Womanhood). A second anthology is “ Twisted Tales” published by the Authors ink publication. He is the author of “In Search Of Happiness” Anthology. He was in the habit of writing a diary which consisted of his college experiences and memories. Currently working on his second novel based on crime thriller. Apart from writing, reading and book reviewing, he is a music and movie geek. His motto in life “never give up your dreams for others, be happy and spread happiness”. Currently he resides in Sambalpur District.You can reach at him @ Twitter |Instagram |Facebook |Website

The lightboom band's performance on Independence day 2019
 23 September 2019  
Art

This band is core formation of 12 members with 10 being officially on band as performers and 2 including Mr. Pant handeling it's digital, social and cultural publicity as wel as digital and corporate marketting and this band was usually formed to celebrate Indian Quiz team victories across the world in past but in present also performs in various cultural ocasions across India making it's own name for the pleasure of it.Thus this band gathered on 15th of August 2019 at the core inner stadium closer to Mr. pant's office building and there after permitted to practice for 4 hours in the early morning the band was all set to give salute to a memorable day like Independence day with it's value clear to all of them and gathered it's energy to put up a great show. The show did comprise of several activities, some prominent guest of the musical industry, some great vegetarian snacks and a memorable one for the band itself and hence the group in leadership of Mr. Pant  to go on was ready to crack the evening in their own grand way at large. As usual the show in the same stadium began around 7 in the evening and the host from Mr. pant's official team welcomed the band, introduced the whole team, welcomed the honourable big names in his own style and now the stage was setting for a great colaboration to happen which is to say the songs written by the band members themselves on which they were going to perform was on cards very soon. In the procession to come with practice from since last 1 month, the entire team had been able to bring something new and hence 10 songs were prepared with each member contributing some lines or stanzas in the each song and hence it was up for the cracker as the evening was progressing and band was tuned on the stage to go for. While the preparation to perform was on it's last core, the dignitories who had come spoke few lines about the band, applauded on their presence, and it was only going to increase the energy of the team who was all set and not taking much time of the whole crowd they started to speak out and with last 'Boom go bang' it had begun and the show was off itself. One by one the team members changed their position as their written songs unfolded with change of musical instrument in which 1 was also written by Mani the drum player so when he sang Mr. pant changed hands with hand drum 'Congo' being played on his side and drum base was handled by Prithvi with guitar on Nirmala's hand, And the rest were shifted the same with in one Chakrawarti taking guitar with Shrivastava switching to cashio, and in another Vashnavi, Shravya and both Negi ji going for harmonium and bongo, And in mostly all of the song Nagraj kept himself with the flute which was great. Mostly the song were written rightly, Mr. Pant had them analysed with the whole editting team in past, and hence it was a great evening with people filled in huge numbers, stalled outside the stadium in vast vegetarian variety and it was a pleasant evening. It is always delightful for Mr. Pant to be part of such memories and on this great ocasion it was special and he was happy enjoying with the band, having great response and laughing on the entire team jokes along side enjoying coffee served on regular interval and staying happy for such great moment around. Yet at the end of it the energy was not over yet and the mike has been changed by female voice from the same official team, but the moments were of more delight bringing the dream of the lightboom band come true and it happened with the album launch of the same 10 songs planned together for which they all were responsible, Mr. Pant's team of the musical industry had worked hard, and by the entire hard work 'Bharat ka kal' album was launched on stage with applauses from all big names and the entire crowd which was phenomenal. Further BBC Music's members were there who requested the album to be on their portal, the multiple web and audio platform releases were done to promote it further, and with some strong payments by such certain groups available back stage the night was almost coming to the close and was a great experience. For such moment to make it through, Mr. Pant is gratified to his parents and family, the entire Pant Office team, The lightboom band, the dignitories present, the huge crowd in the stadium, all the arrangers from the all departments, and thence with such a happy note the experience of the Lightboom band's performance on the independence day was coming to close in hope that some more such memories shall come and we keep you entertained and refreshed, till then it's cheers from charlie... 

Glorious The Moon
 14 February 2019  

Glorious the moon . . .therefore our thanksdark cloudsCome to rest our necks.When our focus shift from thoughts to self, we are grateful to everything around us. Our mind becomes silent and at rest.Life is a story we weave together from the thoughts, feelings, and emotions we experience each moment. Yet we live the majority of our life in the memories of our past and the expectations of the future. Rarely do we live in the purity of the present.In meditation we disrupt the unconscious progression of thoughts and emotions by focusing on a new object of attention, whether that is our breath or empty screen on third eye.Meditation is one of the best ways to loosen the grip of sticky emotions and connect to our true self, which isn’t limited, angry, or fearful, but is infinite, pure consciousness. Meditation brings us home to the peace of present-moment awareness and gives us an experience of profound relaxation that dissolves fatigue and long-standing stresses and – as countless studies have shown – promotes both physical and emotional healing. The benefits of meditation include:• lowered blood pressure and hypertension• slower heart rate• decreases cholesterol levels• reduced production of “stress hormones,” including cortisol and adrenaline• more efficient oxygen use by the body• increased production of the anti-aging hormone DHEA• improved immune functionBeyond these significant health benefits, the greatest gift of meditation is the sense of calm and inner peace it brings into our daily life. When we meditate, we go beyond the mind’s noisy chatter into an entirely different place: the silence of a mind that is not imprisoned by the past or the future.

A Child-star to a Superstar
 25 February 2018  

The first female superstar of the Indian Cinema, Sridevi (bornShree Amma Yanger Ayyapan), passed away last night. As soon as the news came, it was mandatory to check if it was some kind of rumor. But, to our utter grief, it was true. And true to such extent that we are still taken aback to witness the ‘Hawaa-Hawai’ star, go too soon at the age of 54. She broke our hearts for the first time when she played an autistic child-woman in Kamal Haasan-starrer ‘Sadma’ (the Sadma lullaby is still one of the most cherished memories from my childhood) and yet again she has left us in tears. The only difference is that this time she has left us heartbroken forever. It’s just so unfair that the versatile actress had a cardiac arrest and left us. We all watched her with awe, in ‘Himmatwala’ doing ‘Naino me Sapna’, in Yash Chopra directed ‘Lamhe’, in ‘Roop Ki Rani, Choro Ka Raja’, in ‘Nagina’ and ‘Nigahein’ as the snake-lady, and in the iconic roles she played in five Indian languages. ‘Judaai’, ‘Khuda Gawaah’, ‘ChaalBaaz’, ‘Mr. India’ and ‘Chandni’ are some movies that would not have had the fame they have if Sridevi was not a part of them.A special mention for her last but not the least, ‘Mom’ where she showed that she was still the same Sridevi that we then fell in love with when she proved herself yet again. It’s been heard that she has played a guest appearance in Shahrukh Khan’s ‘Zero’ which is up for release in December this year.Sridevi in her entire career displayed that simple yet the heart-warming, beautiful smile that could melt a man of any age.Here’s to a stunning superstar, a mother, an icon, an inspiration, and an artist - may you find peace wherever you now are. And you’ll be missed. Always.

Depression In Life
 9 March 2018  

" Rukh Zindagi ne mor lia kesa , humne socha nhi tha kbhi esa. Ata nhi yakeen kya se kya ho gya , kis tarah mei tujhse yuh bewafa ho gya. Insaf kar do ,mujhe maaf kardo." It's 2:45 am, the silence around me is bliss, no noise, the lyrics are taking me to a different world and I started fighting my internal demons. We often tend to neglect our mental health. One of the most common illness that is overlooked is depression. People think depression is sadness. People think depression is crying. People think depression is dressing in black. But people are wrong. You toss and turn in your bed so that sinking feeling in your stomach goes away, but it doesn't. You wish your mind could just stop thinking, just for a moment, so you can trick your mind into falling asleep but it doesn't. It hasn't for 3 months now. You remind yourself of happy memories, but there don't seem to be any. The more you try to remember, the more miserable it feels. The worst part is, you don't know what caused this storm. Could it be the recent heartbreak? Or the fact that you've lost all your friends? Is it that you've lost all confidence in life. And that's what keeps you up all night. There's a sense of permanence in turmoil. It doesn't seem like it's ever going to be okay. Days aren't really days; they are just annoying obstacles that need to be faced. And how do you face them? Through drinking, through smoking, through drugs, through cutting. When you're depressed, you grasp on to anything that can get you through the day. Everything's going wrong all at once. With every step you take, your world collapses a little more. Nobody knows what you're going through, no matter how much they pretend to. They can't see what's hiding behind your smile. How can they not? You know what depression really feels like? Nothingness. It feels empty - zilch. There's nothing inside you, nothing around, nothing to look forward to. Nothing to fall back on. Nothing that you can see.

Start Reading...Now
 31 August 2018  
Art

What you read in the morning..Newspaper which cost not more than Rs.5. Why purchase newspaper ? because it have multiple usage and it having low cost. Most of the people read only headlines. They are not reader. Atleast who read editorial, sports news, films reviews, social-political news are the readers. But who will spent so much of time on reading. No visible benefit will derive from it.If we go to flashback ... in the  memories of childhood. We are very much fed up  by reading textbooks. Then how anyone can move to school library. The 'Read'-ing is only word to write essay. No one also forced us or explained us the importance of reading. Of course, there is exception to everything. Although digital media is the necessity of  today's world, print media secured its position in the market and so in the heart of reader. Why to read ? when to read and what to read ?Start reading, you will able to find solution of anything. I think its an investment for future benefit. The value of this share never decreases. When we read entire one book (any kind) , the knowledge derived  and experience gain  from it will be uncomparable. We can not experience everything in the short span of life. So the books!  Books are 'Best friend' without any condition. With you always if you never forgot to carry with you.  If you read- you will survive. In the age of digital world online books,blogs are available  at free of cost. We can enjoy reading offline also by downloading e-books. Books take you any where. You reach everywhere. In regional and in many languages you will find reading material. The ancient knowledge/culture  lies in 'Ved , Upanishadas. This literature is valuable for us.  Definitely reader got respect in the society. As you got knowledge  you can be speaker, writer. thinker.  Acquiring the knowledge through reading and get empower also give us satisfaction.Reading is reward, remedy, respect for us. So start reading now. 

Should we fear Examinations?
 26 February 2019  
Art

It is wrong to believe that examinations are a burden or a fear on part of all the communities involved in  the entire set up of our examination system, be it teachers, students or the parents. It is very important to understand that Examinations are an important tool to evaluate our understanding about the subjects being taught, or being learned.Generally we relate the examinations with the grades or the percentage of marks scored. If understood deeply, the grades or the marks scored don’t hold much importance in comparison to what has been learned or taught  and how the same has affected or been  related to  our day to day life.  When we prepare ourselves for the examinations, we get an opportunity to widen our understanding, to check the facts properly  and to learn and memories more deeply the information that a particular content offers. They also help to absorb the knowledge unconsciously. Hence, Examinations also provide us with an opportunity to work hard, develop mental discipline,patience, creativeness, leadership,  improving writing caliber, learn the content by heart, by understanding it, not by mugging it up. Once the content is mugged up, it looses its importance unless the information that it carries is stored deeply in our mind. So understanding the content is the most important factor in terms of gaining knowledge and applying it in our next level.In current scenario when the syllabus is quite huge, it is important for all to prepare a healthy schedule to address one content at a time, understand it, check the loop holes, focus on the logical part and  write the content a multiple times to grasp the knowledge, as writing improves comprehension and critical thinking. Writing is basically the frame work of our communication.It is important to understand that without conducting examinations, students do not concentrate in their studies, hence the mental discipline is lost. Hence, my advice here to all the communities involved in the process of examinations, is not to fear the system but to address it logically. Take it in the healthy spirit, don’t load the children with the burden but find ways and means by making it more playful,more enjoyable, and more practical by focusing on cross learning,making mind maps, designating time hours, multiple patterns of a single question, relating the content with day today activities the child is into, etc. Don’t forget to given leap hour to a child on daily basis during examination to rejuvenate his interest in examinations. Boredom should be avoided to keep their interest alive.All the best!Ratna Kaul Bhardwaj