In last few years, I have had the opportunity to work as a coach with many women leaders and women coaches. Many of them are ambitious and want to grow in their careers, but feel that they don’t have role models to look at. This point has also been raised quite a few times during the gender diversity discussions.I agree, and I think the whole world would acknowledge the lack of enough woman leaders. There is a lot of diversity buzz going on with a target to solve this problem, it will happen one day, but you do not have the luxury to wait. Come on. Don’t wait to look for the role model. Be the role model instead, fill in this vacuum and resolve the problem for others like you!Don’t know where to begin? Let me outline a few quick steps that can help you climb up the Career Ladder:1. Take charge - Tell yourself you are going to be the role model.2. Decide on your career goals – Ask yourself –a. What do you want to achieve in next 3 years?b. What do you achieve in next 1 year?c. What are the 3 things you need to this this quarter?d. What are the 3 things you need to do this month and next month?3. Decide on your other priorities (non-career) for short term specially – 6 months to 1 year.a. What are the other priorities/goals (from other spheres of life)?b. Prioritizing these goal/priorities, pick top 3.c. Make an action plan of what needs to be done for these.d. What can come in the way? Is there a conflict with your career goals? Just look at 1-year career goals.e. If yes, how well prepared you are to handle conflict of goals?f. List down if you need any external support?g. Enlist people who help you on your challenges! Remember, you have a support system that you can lean on!4. Create a list career enablersa. Get a Mentor at work (if possible multiple Mentors!) i. Seek people who can support you to achieve your goals.b. Create a Learning path i. Look for enabling assignments.c. Invest in yourself i. Take a training program. ii. Sign up a coach. iii. Hire a house help if that helps.Note down everything else that may help you to achieve your goals (Career and Non-Career) and then invest in every support system that will help you. 5. Create list of the relationships you need to createWhat relationships you would need to create to reach your goals? It may include creating a business connect with other head of departments, Industry body etc. You may need to create a stronger relationship with another friend/relative who can help you for a few hours on those child-sick days. You are the one who knows what goes here. 6. Create your elevator pitch!Always have a 60 second elevator pitch of what you do and what difference are you making in your current role. 7. Go and Act: Make an action plan for sure but don’t just plan and re-plan, Act! Else all will fail! Do some actionable every single day, even small progress is good progress. 8. Acknowledge yourselfa. Reward yourself for every small win.b. Be ready with a list of rewards for yourself if you completed what you need to do!c. You are your own motivation!You bet it is not easy, but know that every journey begins with the first step. Go ahead, take that first step and be the change you want to see.
An extraction from my reading experience, which converted me a writer. I cannot spend a single day without writing, even though I had to get up in the midnight to do it. Though,there is not much progress in my professional career now, but I feel writing converted me to an absolutely different personality. “Ordinary people seek entertainment. Extraordinary people seek education and learning.” -Benjamin Hardy Most people are distracted right now.They’re distracted while they’re at work. They’re distracted when they’re with family and friends.They’re distracted at the gym, on their commute, and even in the shower.The mediocre majority will continue going through life this way, never experiencing the fullness of a life filled with deep focus and purpose.Most people don’t prioritize learning and creating. They don’t care enough about any efforts to invest in their personal development and growth.Entertainment is more important. Most people have replaced achieving their life dreams and goals with TV, partying, and social media.Their life is characterized by entertainment and distraction, not learning and creating.As a result, they don’t have close relationships. They’re stuck in jobs they hate. Their life is on the fast-track to disappointment, and they don’t know what to do.Benjamin Hardy once said, “Entertainment and distraction is the enemy of creation and learning. They will keep you in mediocrity.”If you don’t want to end up living a life of mediocrity, focus on learning and education. It’s the fastest way to become extraordinary, wealthy, and successful.The Quality of Your Learning Determines the Quality of Your Success“Your level of success will rarely exceed your level of personal development, because success is something you attract by the person you become.” -Hal ElrodYour income, relationships, and success are determined by your learning.Most people spend more money on entertainment and gadgets than self-education. This is why they remain poor and broke with superficial relationships.The quality of your learning and how much you invest in yourself directly determines the extent of your growth.In the words of Ryan Holiday:“The extent of the struggle determines the extent of the growth.”You are defined by what you’re willing to struggle for. Most people aren’t willing to really struggle for anything. They blindly accept what they’re given, and spend their free time disengaging from reality.Renowned motivational speaker Jim Rohn once said the most successful people in the world are always lifelong learners. They fully understand that their level of education directly determines their quality of life.“Formal education makes a living, but self-education makes a fortune,” Rohn explained.It’s not just about a college degree. Most of what you learn in college isn’t applicable to real-world success. It’s your self-education, the kind of learning that helps you develop into the next evolution of yourself.Most people will continue to go through life “in quiet desperation, with their songs left unsung.” Others dictate their income, their happiness, and their fulfillment.If you don’t want to end up with regret on your death-bed, choose self-education over entertainment.“You’ve got to wake up every morning with determination if you’re going to go to bed with satisfaction.” George LarimerWe Attract the Things That Reflect Who We AreDarren Hardy, author of The Compound Effect, once told a story about how he ended up with his wife.When he was in his 20’s, he began compiling an enormous list of every attribute he wanted his future wife to have. He eventually filled 40 pages detailing the most exquisite and perfect match he could think of.At the end of his writing, he realized something very important:Any woman like that wouldn’t want to have anything to do with someone like him!Hardy realized he needed to become a far better version of himself to attract a woman like that.You must become a far better version of yourself to achieve the enormous success you want.Benjamin Hardy put it this way: “We attract into our lives what we are.” Ask yourself — if you want a million dollars, do you have the mindset of a millionaire? Do you have the financial knowledge and self-discipline to own that kind of money?Most people don’t, yet they continue complaining about being poor. You’ll never become a millionaire if you don’t become someone who could be a millionaire!Every day, millions of people attract mediocre opportunities into their lives — jobs, time investments, dating partners, etc. — not realizing they are attracting exactly who they are!Extremely successful people are magnets of extraordinary opportunities. They are individuals who gravitate towards success, because they are successful themselves.If you constantly engage in mediocre, subpar activities with toxic individuals, you’ll only receive similar opportunities. You’ll never experience the type of success of the world’s most extraordinary people, because success is something you attract by the person you become.“Every next level of your life will demand a different you.” -Leonardo DiCaprioStep Forward Into Growth or Backwards Into Security“It’s absurd that we would prioritize the hottest new device, the cool car, or trendy toy over owning that which makes us feel the most engaged and most alive.” -Neil PatelC.S. Lewis once described humans this way: “We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad.”You do not have the luxury to “wait” to improve. Like an egg, you’ll either progress into a new version of yourself, or go rotten. There is no other way.Most people continue choosing security and safety over the choice to become the fullest version of themselves.Said Louis Sachar:“So, what’s it going to be — safety, or freedom? You can’t have both.”Right now, you have the choice — step forward into growth and development, or step backwards into safety and security.Most people step backward, slowly killing their chances to become extraordinary.Seth Godin once said, “The problem is that our culture has engaged in a Faustian bargain, in which we trade our genius and artistry for apparent stability.”The sad truth is: there’s no such thing as security. Money can be taken away (how many times have you heard of a multi-millionaire going bankrupt?). Our health could fail at any time. Millions of people are abruptly fired or laid off every year.Security isn’t real.We must choose to design our own life, and let go of our addiction to “apparent stability.” If you’ve traded your genius and creativity for “stability,” it’s time to get those back.“The goal of life is not to relax on the beach, sipping mojitos all day. The purpose is to find something you love that adds value to the world.” -Ben FoleyMost People Won’t Ever Experience True Success“The mediocre have a very narrow perception of reality, and in turn, their lives. They see things as they are, not how they can be.” -Ryan HolidayLearning and self-education aren’t popular. Most people don’t read books, attend seminars, or take even the most basic steps for self-improvement. They would rather choose distraction and entertainment.Most people will never be successful because they will spend their life this way.With just a few small changes to your life, you could enter into the top 5% — 10% of your field. The competition is extremely low! Amazing, extraordinary opportunities are abundant, because so few people ever take the steps to discover them.You can become one of the few truly successful people in the world by taking your self-education and learning seriously. In a world of mediocrity, you can become extraordinary with only a few simple tweaks.So how do you start?The more you keep evolving in better versions of yourself, the more you’ll need to be focused on the things that are most important.Your days must be characterized by high-quality activities and behaviors.Benjamin Hardy put it this way: “Success is continuously improving who you are, how you live, how you serve, and how you relate.”James Altucher once said, “Every day, check these 4 boxes: Have I improved 1% on physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health?”You can start small. Even the smallest improvement is more than most people will ever see. While most people change slowly and unconsciously over time, you can begin taking control of your success by choosing to make a few small improvements.That’s all it takes.If You Want to Live an Extraordinary Life, You Need to Give Up a Normal One“If you want to live an extraordinary life, you have to give up many of the things that are part of a normal one.” -Srinivas RaoExtraordinary people are very uncommon. Their lifestyle of learning and self-education aren’t popular, either. Odds are, once you begin investing in yourself, you’ll find it’s a lonely road.Todd Henry wisely said, “The more bold you are, the more rejection you’ll experience.” The mob of the majority doesn’t like deserters.If you want an extraordinary life, you’ll need to give up many parts of the “normal” life. That might mean giving up common toxic behaviors or hanging out with toxic people. If “everyone does it,” you’d do well to give it a long, hard look.Most people will never achieve an extraordinary life. That’s OK. The extraordinary life isn’t for everyone. Learning and self-education take time, energy, and focus that most people would rather spend on entertainment and distraction — “ordinary” things.“Great” opportunities cost “good” ones; you can’t have both.Said Benjamin Hardy:Before you evolve, you can reasonably spend time with just about anyone.You can reasonably eat anything placed in front of you.You can reasonably justify activities and behaviors that are, frankly, mediocre.But as your vision expands, you realize you need to make adjustments. You can’t spend your money on junk anymore. You need to manage your time much more diligently. You need to invest in yourself and your future.To avoid mediocrity, you can’t continue being with negative people.You can’t keep eating crappy foods that slow you down.You can’t do many of the things you used to do.This is what extraordinary requires. Most people see the price and simply say “no thanks.”But you can do anything if you pay the price.“Every skill you acquire doubles your odds of success.” -Scott AdamsIn Conclusion“Who you are is a result of who you were, but where you end up depends entirely on who you choose to be from this moment forward.” -Hal ElrodThere are probably dozens of things you do on a daily basis that aren’t helping you improve.Most people live their lives on other people’s terms. Their days are spent working on other people’s goals and following the rules of someone else.Entertainment and distraction rule society. There will never be a shortage of TV shows, Buzzfeed articles, or Bad Lip Reading videos to take up your time.If you want to avoid mediocrity and achieve enormous success, you must cut out distractions and prioritize learning instead.Most people will go their whole lives as a slave to entertainment. They prioritize entertainment over improving their life, their family’s well-being, and their hopes and dreams.This is how people can stay at jobs they hate for years. It’s how people stay in toxic relationships and remain perpetually broke. They don’t bother learning how to succeed.If your lifestyle does not add to your growth and improvement, it will bring you down.Prioritize learning. Invest in self-education.Choose success over mediocrity.
The first female superstar of the Indian Cinema, Sridevi (bornShree Amma Yanger Ayyapan), passed away last night. As soon as the news came, it was mandatory to check if it was some kind of rumor. But, to our utter grief, it was true. And true to such extent that we are still taken aback to witness the ‘Hawaa-Hawai’ star, go too soon at the age of 54. She broke our hearts for the first time when she played an autistic child-woman in Kamal Haasan-starrer ‘Sadma’ (the Sadma lullaby is still one of the most cherished memories from my childhood) and yet again she has left us in tears. The only difference is that this time she has left us heartbroken forever. It’s just so unfair that the versatile actress had a cardiac arrest and left us. We all watched her with awe, in ‘Himmatwala’ doing ‘Naino me Sapna’, in Yash Chopra directed ‘Lamhe’, in ‘Roop Ki Rani, Choro Ka Raja’, in ‘Nagina’ and ‘Nigahein’ as the snake-lady, and in the iconic roles she played in five Indian languages. ‘Judaai’, ‘Khuda Gawaah’, ‘ChaalBaaz’, ‘Mr. India’ and ‘Chandni’ are some movies that would not have had the fame they have if Sridevi was not a part of them.A special mention for her last but not the least, ‘Mom’ where she showed that she was still the same Sridevi that we then fell in love with when she proved herself yet again. It’s been heard that she has played a guest appearance in Shahrukh Khan’s ‘Zero’ which is up for release in December this year.Sridevi in her entire career displayed that simple yet the heart-warming, beautiful smile that could melt a man of any age.Here’s to a stunning superstar, a mother, an icon, an inspiration, and an artist - may you find peace wherever you now are. And you’ll be missed. Always.
Iwake up in the cashmere glow of my white sheet; the sun's shining bright and I go and get dressed in a lavender lilac dress. My unmade hair flies more than it should, as it flows away with the wind; it's raining now. The sun comes and goes; the rain never stops waiting. Their love is futile, but so is everything in love.The guy at the coffee shop smiles at me a little more today, more than he usually does everyday. I give a faint smile back. I sit down as I look at a stranger walk in, he wasn't one a summer ago. I can almost smell the daisies he got me, clutching them as he was nervous about our first date, I can remember our first date, the second, the third, and all of the others. I'm not great at remembering smells, but this smell is like a spell. And I do not know how to break a charm. It was love that I had in mind a summer ago, it is till now that he has a love for just himself.It's still raining even though the sun is still out, enough to drench my hair and my dress wet. I look at people running for cover; a woman goes running past me, after her hat. It is a complete mayhem though, but this is a feeling nothing can replace. I twirl my lilac dress and laugh, I laugh hard enough that I gather unwanted stern looks from strangers as the rain drops still dance with me, and I realise, I don't care about their opinions anymore.It's the funny feeling in my stomach that makes me laugh at nothing. I'm happy. I feel alive. Am I in love? Probably. And for the first time, with myself.#smblogcontest
Below is my script, which I had delivered in my club level contest of Toastmaster International speech contest. For the knowledge of the readers, I would like to say that Toastmasters International (TI) is a US headquartered nonprofit educational organization that operates clubs worldwide for the purpose of helping members improve their communication, public speaking, and leadership skills. Writing stories and writing scripts for speeches are two different things. In speeches, the speaker has to take the challenge to involve her audience throughout the speech and she has to communicate everything within 7 mins of her talk. Audience may lose interest if the opening is not good and if the script timing goes beyond 7 mins, then audience may feel bored. So, this script provides some guidelines to a speaker.... Hope the readers will enjoy it:Title: The phoenixOpening:4th Jan1986, Odisha, a girl was born with lots of dreams in her eyes. Dreams to be the best daughter to her parents …. Dreams to be the best Engineer the world has ever seen….dreams to bring a change in the nation …. Dreams to do the best of her life …. N Dreams to be a wonderful wife……………………Everything was going fine as planned until 2014 when this girl caught a disease ………….. her dreams started dying, her faith in love started dying, her trust for her parents started losing and worst of all , she even thought of ending it……Eventually After 2 years of struggle that sweet innocent girl ……died a suffocating death.Body:Good afternoon Honorable Contest Chair, fellow toastmasters and dear guests.In one of those chilly evening on November 2016, she was reborn as an independent woman with self-respect, one who takes her own decisions ……4 years back, life had put her at a turning point where one decision that she took made her disgrace for everyone……… worse even disgrace to her parents. What was that one wrong decision that changed her life………….? What was that disease that killed her happiness…??Her mistake was she decided to say no to domestic violence after marriageShe decided to not tolerate her drunkard husband’s beatings every night, she decided to not tolerate her father in law stopping her to talk to her family members, she decided not to ask her parents for more dowry, she decided not to tolerate her mother in law’s giving her high voltage electric shocks. She had lost her mental peace and freedom, which had huge negative impact on her professional career. How difficult to bear all those? How painful those moments were?? Losing individuality and living means a spiritless life with a moving physical body, that means you are living like a dead body!!!When she looked back to get the ANegative Situation Wisely Experiencing Reversal she could see that she had very little control over what happened. The seasons of her experience had to run their course – severe winter storms, cold and darkness, then the seeds hidden from within started beginning to sprout (very exciting!). The best she could do was ride the waves, which she did with varying degrees of success. She saved all her strength to swim with the tide and to flow with the grace that washed through her days, raising all her quills to defend against invaders. She took this on faith. All she used is a pair of eyes unblinkered by fear, apprehension and prejudice. Fighting with herself went on in each and every moment, hour and day, to come out from her demon created by herself since her birth. To come out from the attitude to care about ‘what will people say?’Transformation was not sweet and bright. It was dark, murky, painful and pushing. A practice in facing our own created demons. A complete uprooting, before becoming. She turned her demons into art, her fears into fuel, her mistakes into teachers and her weaknesses into reasons to keep us fighting. She did not waste her pain, instead recycled her heart!!!Situation in life might had defeated her, burnt her, insulted her, injured her and abandoned us. But, they will not, shall not and cannot destroy her, like a Phoenix she knows how to surrect. Lakshmi Agarwal, JK Rowling, Muniba Mazari and many more are the phoenixes who emerges from the ashes….Now, after 4 yrs, she can see herself as an independent woman who spreads her messages on how to fight with themselves among those women who try to commit suicide due to various reasons whether she is a rape survivor or has become physically disabled and lost her confidence to live her life. She says them “We do not need magic to transform our world. We carry all of the power we need inside ourselves already. The world is full of wonderful things you havenot seen yet. Don’t ever give the chance of seeing them. You are not a victim, you are a survivor. The man who attacked you will cover his face. You wont. While we women get busy in playing our predefined roles, we forget to love ourselves, we forget our worth and we don’t realize that there is so much more we can do for ourselves and for the people around us.”Conclusion:Ladies and Gentlemen,As said by Lao Tzu “New beginnings are disguised as painful endings.”What’s perceived as painful and undesirable, often paves the way for something better – and if not better, at least different. In difference, lies life’s momentum and progress. Traumatic occurrences always have a disguised positive side to them. Hidden opportunities make us more determined and fills us with life-preserving energy. Until we’re jolted out of our peaceful slumber, no epoch event can be expected to happen.Desire changes Nothing, Decision changes Something. But Determination changes Everything.Desire changes Nothing, Decision changes Something. But Determination changes Everything.Over to Emcee…
How physical appearance helps you to boost your confidence.
District 92, Division D Toastmaster Humorous Speech Contest, Second Runner up: My Humorous speechTitle: Dear, I hate you!!!Opening:I’m lazy and I know itAt this rate I’ll never get fitPeople are afraid of heightsI am afraid of widthsOh my soul, be thou quietThis is not ‘another diet’Just a program of exchangeThough some things do seem strangeRaw vegetables and ‘brock-o-lee’Does not sound too good to meLots of tofu and bean sproutsWhile my empty stomach shoutsThe meaning here is quite plain;This program is designed for painMy hands are sweating, my soul is dreadingI must keep this thing from spreadingBody: Good Afternoon obese guests, overweight toastmasters and frustrated corpulent Judges…“Sorry, I am in relationship with food” this was my answer whenever any guy was approaching me till that fine one romantic rainy evening!!!I was waiting in front of the doctor’s room. As usual, the doctor approached with the report after a looooong hour wait.Giving a wicked look, he said “I have a bad news & a good news. What should come first?”I thought for a while & questioned him “Mr. Doctor. Is the bad news too bad? Or is the good news too good”.He answered, “Dear Suchi, the bad news is going to be tragic & the good news will bring a ray of hope in your life”. After gathering some courage, I told the doctor “Sir. Bad news first”.“This is not to dishearten you, but according to your reports your weight is going out of control now. Your body is blowing like a balloon. You are overweight by 25 kg!” Hearing this, first tear broke free from my eyes, the rest followed in an unbroken stream.Trying to console me, the doctor said “Darling. There is a good news too. This disease of obesity which is haunting you now is totally curable. You are very lucky to be diagnosed well on time. It would have been very difficult if you showed during the final stage”. I was amazed at the doctor’s wonderful statement about my life-threatening disease!!! I collected my reports & walked back home. What is the reason of getting more and more of those tiny creatures, who live in my closet and sew my clothes a liitle bit tighter every night…calories?Then the coolest place of my house having food carrying capacity of 10 peoples…my refrigerator gave a smile at me!!! whenever i lose some weight, i used to get it back in my refrigerator!!!I wish losing weight would be as easier for me as losing my keys, watch, hair rubber band, temper & even mind.” Instead of blaming myself my heart said “Dear, You are not overweight, you are just under tall!!!”.Then, I decided to have a fight between food & me. Everything is fair in love & war & this was a war. I had to win. “A healthy diet for a healthy body”, “You are what you eat”, “Whatever your problem is, your answer is not in fridge” I collected all motivational quotes for dieting & started placing them on my cupboard, my room walls, even on my refrigerator door.Then I started googling “How to lose weight”. There were unbelievable suggestions. A kind lady in one of her articles claimed that she lost 20 pounds in a month by writing 3 pages daily.So, my dear dispirited plumpy audience, you can imagine who is the inspiring hero behind my becoming a blogger!!!I try to remove all things those make me fat…like scales, mirrors and photographs!!! Conclusion: Dear mirthless TMs, rejected Guests and long faced Judges!!!After a passionate, enthusiastic follow up of my diet plan, the day of test match came, when I had to attend a big fat wedding party. Sweets were looking mesmerized in many colorful, fancy dresses. A dark red cherry was smiling at me sitting on the top of triple story frosted cake.“New body is under construction. Please let me go.” I turned backwards only to see hot, delicious, mouthwatering chocolate sizzler on the table. The enemy was very strong & well equipped, while I was handling an unequipped one-woman army. I fall prey to my food desire. “Dear my favorite foods. Things are not going to work between us. It’s not me. It’s you. You are detrimental, disastrous and deleterious!!!” I lie on the floor completely dead for few minutes. I stood up & I rushed to the front table, where a range of fruits and vegetables, whole grains and unsalted seeds, nuts were kept!!! The toughest part of DIET is not watching what you eat. Its watching what other people eat!!! But! I had conquered all the toughest parts related to DIET. So dear friends, how many of you is having courage to hate all the enemies related to DIET and to say ”Good Bye Dear, I don’t want you in my life anymore!!!”
Many, many years ago, a sage was meditating on a Himalayan peak. Majestic dales and solitary vales sprawled around were all aglow with the divine streak.Though the birds chirped songs, and rain poured down in throngs, he was unmovable, lost in a deep trance.In winters, icy cold storms blew and the snow around and over him was all aglow with its chilling primitiveness. His soul but was safe somewhere in the cosy warmth of transcendental realisation.In autumn, wind-fallen leaves sailed down with slumberous tumble, and ripe fruits fell proudly, adventurously for a juicy, pleasant crumble. He still was somewhere else when the nature opened these marvellous jewels from her treasure trove.In spring, wild flowers fully unfurled their fragrance and smile, and honey-bees engaged in dawn to dusk toil. He but was unmoved and transported into a state where the ecstasies of natural bounties don’t mean anything anymore.Summer’s warm days sprayed desultory, eerie uneasiness around, and cool nights proudly embraced this son with his soul heaven-bound. Still it didn’t matter. He was undisturbed and was silently moving on his meditative path.Once it was a full moon autumn night. A fairy was flying amid milky delight. A perfect calmness pervaded the solitary vales. Everything was asleep, bathed in the softest fluffy shades of white. The fairy flew low over the peaks glowing under the moonlight. The seer was lost in his trance in front of his cave, the beauty of nature sprawled around meaningless to him.She saw him and hovered around the sanctimonious air of his sagehood. A small, harmless mischief rustled in her young, innocent heart. She circled in the air above him. Her laughter touched the milky sea around and created soft ripples. Her unbelievably soft dress rustled in the gentle breeze born of her circles. It but did not have any effect on him. He was engrossed too deep in the cosmic balance beyond the sensory contradictions and dualities. The more she looked, the more was the urge in her to bring him back to the beauty of this world, to fetch him from the deep ocean where his soul had dived.His exquisitely masculine physique and persona created tempted sparks on her magic stick. She tried all juicily leering feminine tricks. But her desire-lorn swirls in the air failed to move him even a bit. Helplessly she descended onto the earth. There were almost tears of helplessness in her beautiful eyes. She sat in front of him with those rose-red lips pursed in a heart-breaking frown.Her marvellous eyes were lost in his handsome, bearded, well sculpted face. It was mesmerizing. There was not a single worldly trace on his face. She herself was caught in a trance and lost the sense of time and the laws of the fairyland. The night sped away as if in a jiffy.The day rose. The sun arrived with full earthly delight. There was terror in her eyes. The hope to return to her realm died. She had broken the law of her land by not returning on the same night after the brief terrestrial sojourn. The realisation crashed against her soft self like a thunderbolt. Her utmost sensuous bare shoulders heaved under the tremors of this unpardonable fault. A cry involuntarily tore through her slender throat. And then it was a still bigger violation.His serenely flowing meditative phrase met this sinful, full-stopping dot. His communion with the divinity was broken. His long-closed eyes opened. The world of his penance lay scattered. His fiercely burning eyes stared at the flower in sobs and sighs. Her large, flooded eyes pleaded for mercy. But the fire in his unforgiving eyes was unrelenting and cursing.The fabric of his serenity was torn. The sage thundered, “You proud, vain woman of egoistic beauty, become an ugly bush of thorns!”Mowed down by the spell of his cursing energy, an ugly bush stood in place of that angelic beauty. All shaken and ravaged, he left the place. A thorny branch, meanwhile, got entangled in his loin cloth, as if for meek, pleading forgiveness and brace. He but scornfully jerked it apart and headed to some other place for a new start.Time then took to its heels on swift horses. The seasons changed. The spring’s colourful patterns were rearranged. The summer’s warm kisses melted the snows. The autumn’s harvest uncomplainingly fell to the air’s chiding blows. The winter’s snowy blanket covered the peaks. And rains lashed down in stormy freaks.This pleasant wavering of nature, however, couldn’t shake the sage from the meditative maze high there in the hills. Faraway down the hills, the accursed bush was shrouded in thorny haze. It struggled to sprout fruits and flowers. Even cursing has a testing time against soft, innocent glow of purity. How can something having a fairy core remain ugly and thorny for too long? Her pure soul entombed in that thorny shrine prayed for penance. And see, a flower of her fruits sprouts forth!A flower blossomed among the thorns. So beautiful! It lit up with life among the thorns and deadly pale dark brown branches. It appeared juxtaposed by a miracle, like it had dropped from the heaven and got stuck there. It was the day when the enlightened sage arrived from the north. Contented with his cosmic realisation, he came down the beautiful dale. As he passed the bush, his purified soul sensed the thorny shrub’s plaintive wail. His feet disobeyed him and he couldn’t move. The lone flower among the thorns fell at his feet in holy-most obeisance and greet. He picked it up and was lost in its fragrance.The thorn was ugly. The flower so beautiful and fragrant! What contradiction! Flowery heaven and thorny hell together! The latter born of his cursing condemnation; the flower born of the beauty behind the thorny bars. It was a jolting earthly realisation. Hadn’t he broken the beautifully set laws?Torrents of repentance cut through him. He bid penance at the altar for a long time. His repenting self set around a reformative shrine. His soul drenched in painful chime. He braced the thorns with the love and affection purest of the pure. It gave him bleeding fingers so many times. He caressed and cared for it like it was the beautiful most flowery shrub. He was practicing his penance now, of love, of surrender, of repentance. What else can be bigger than these?When his soul had been salvaged of the sin, nobody could bet against her for a win. There she blossomed in front of him. Beauty, charm and grace filled to the brim. Her smile was forgetting and forgiving. It was the beacon of her penance, of love, of beauty. Inside the stony walls of his heart, a new luminosity was now thriving. The sage embraced her. She, who had been separated from her loved ones, got the earthling she had fallen for. Happiness, bliss and calm opened a new door to the start of a fresh cycle of life, love and humanity.All but the sage had been extinguished by the cataclysm. The lone and forlorn survivor, he had been striking at the doors of heaven with his endless questions. Now there was no more pursuit. The endless had manifested itself in a small sip of love. Now they lived as a man and a woman. New hopes, aspirations and offspring began to thrive.Thus were sown the seeds of another spell and cycle of life, of creation. Their unchecked love in those flowery vales left countless exotic trails. Gurgling brooks gave company to her primordially sensuous laughter. His instinct’s procreating sprouts mingled with the mirthful waters of her receptiveness.
**Based on a true incident**If you have ever been to Dadar Station ( Mumbai ), you already know how crowded it gets at times and after a second of a train's arrival people start to board and deboard it like a flock of sheep.It was a pretty hostile day and in my misfortune, I couldn't get a place to stand properly, let alone a place to sit.As I settled down, I found myself standing behind a girl. She was a girl with a gloomy facial feature - winged eyeliner, a white fitted top and a grey bag and she seemed to have overused perfume.We were like two strangers heading towards different destinations like I and others were but then came a guy who was in his mid-twenties stood beside me.A havoc seemed to have created, first he unsettled us by searching something in his bag, then he almost pushed an old man just to take the cell out of his pocket.After a while he started to stare at me - he was staring at me in the way I stare at people if they criticize the food I like - the fire in my eyes can burn cities.It made me sheer uncomfortable being stared at with hatred and that too by a stranger can make anyone that way. I thought to initiate a conversation. I dropped the Idea.I should not have because in the other moment, he held me by my collar and said his first words to me, " Madarchod , tm iss larki ke sath kya kar rahe ho ?".I was dazzled. I had no clue what made him so angry that he didn't hesitate to curse my mother but that had made me no less angry.I shrugged his hand rapidly and that made him move backward in his place. The girl in front of me was dazed." Tumhe bilkul sharam nahi , tum iss larki ke sath train mei badtameezi kar rahe ho ,Aap daro mat ma'am , hum apke sath hai ".He said to the girl." Excuse me ? " Was the girl's reply." Main ne kuch nahi kia , mujhe piche se push kia ja raha tha." I blurted at him.The other two men and a woman popped in and straightaway asked the girl, " Kya isne kuch badtameezi ki tumhare sath" ? She looked at me exasperated and said," Inhe sirf piche se push kia ja raha tha , ulta yeh physical contact avoid kar rahe tah."I took a sigh of relief.She spoke further, " Woh insaan sirf hero banne ki kosis kar raha hai ".It was enough for them to trust her and they all told him to apologize.To my surprise, he had something else to say." Esi larkiya tight kapre pehen k aati hai , inhe insab cheezo se koi problem bhi nahi."Before I could punch his face, the train stopped and he disappeared into the crowd.If I will ever meet that girl again, I will thank her once again, more than I had thanked her for that time and more than thanking her, I would cajole her as she was upset with the man's words.I don't know if it was the incident or the girl, but I started to respect girls a little more after that.
Menstruation is a natural function of a woman's body - like respiration, or digestion or excretion, which is responsible for the creation of a new generation. Then how can a culture that values fertility, pays homage to Devi Ma, and glorifies a woman for her role as 'mother' look down upon the menstrual cycle?
I love, love, love watching crime shows and love more Nordic noir and the temperamental detective, where the moods are as erratic and dark as the plot. Here is a list of a few I watched over the last year which has strong female leads. A few of them are incredibly edge of the seat with a fantastic plot and cast to execute them. And thankfully, the women at the center are not seeking or falling in love with the nearest good-looking man as a respite from (and sometimes at the cost of) their detective duties. They are middle-aged with children or are single and unapologetic about it, much flawed and human, yet brilliant and unwavering in their goal. Check them out and let me know others. This genre, I wish, would grow in multitudes1.The Fall: Gillian Anderson returns to the small screen as Stella Gibson and how brilliant is she? We know both the hunted and the hunter in this slow, moody, psychological thriller and yet, the cat and mouse game is less than predictable. The plot: when a Belfast murder remains unsolved, Stella Gibson (Anderson) is brought in to catch the killer. DSI Gibson soon fears that a murder spree is underway in Belfast and a killer is on the loose. An equally brilliant Jamie Dornan plays serial killer Paul Spector whose identity is known within a few minutes of the first episode, but hey, watch it and tell me if that makes it any less exciting.2. The Killing: Who killed Rosie Larsen (and other questions answered). The Killing is based on the Danish television series Forbrydelsen (The Crime) and stars Detective Sarah Linden and her loyal love-to-hate-you-hate-to-love-you sidekick Stephen Holder (I admit, I fell a bit in love with the damaged piece that was him by the end of it). Each episode ends with a cliffhanger that points of a possible killer who doesn’t turn out to be the one in the next (but of course!). In essence, the show follows the investigation of the murder of local teenager Rosie Larsen but is intertwined with others: the police investigation into the murder, the Larsen family's attempts to deal with their grief, and the fluctuating electoral fortunes of a political campaign that becomes embroiled in the case.3. Happy Valley: Oh, how much do I LOVE BBC’s crime productions? There are five on this list (barring The Killing) and I say without hesitation they have mastered the art (or science or what have you). Happy Valley is set in the Calder Valley and Catherine Cawood (Sarah Lancashire) plays a strong-willed police sergeant, still coming to terms with the suicide of her daughter, Becky, eight years earlier. She is now bringing up Becky's young son, Ryan, the product of rape. Catherine hears that Tommy Lee Royce, the man responsible for the brutal rape that impregnated Becky and drove her to suicide shortly after Ryan was born, is out of prison after serving eight years for drug charges. Catherine becomes obsessed with finding Royce, unaware that he is involved in the kidnapping of a young girl—Ann Gallagher. Things get worse as the kidnappers try to hide their tracks and Catherine grows neurotically persistent.4. Vera: Based on the Vera Stanhope novels by bestselling author Ann Cleeves, Vera (starring Brenda Blethyn in the titular role) is an employee of the fictional Northumberland and City Police. She is obsessive about her work and driven by her own demons. She plods along in a constantly disheveled state but has a calculating mind, and despite her irascible personality, she cares deeply about her work and comrades (-- from Wikipedia). Everything about her screams motherly and cantankerous, yet she is a formidable force to watch. And you will grow very fond of her by the end of it.5. The Honourable Woman: Not a detective series this but I couldn’t help adding it to the list. THW is a political spy thriller which is so nail-bitingly good, you have to watch now. It features Maggie Gyllenhaal in the title role (isn’t that the new, happy trend: small screen revival projects for the out-of-work or fading big screen stars?). She won a Golden Globe for it. Totally deserved, may I add? Gyllenhaal plays Anglo-Jewish businesswoman Nessa Stein who eight years earlier became the new head of the Stein Group after her brother abruptly stepped down. As she continues her work to maintain the Middle East peace process, old secrets come to the fore and bodies pile up. The stakes are raised high when Kasim, the son of Atika, Nessa's friend as well as Ephram Stein's Palestinian housekeeper, is kidnapped.6. Top of the Lake: Okay, to be honest, this is not one of my favorites. I thought the plot fell a bit flat towards the end. But the characters and the settings are quirky and unique and the whimsical style of storytelling reasons enough to watch. The drama stars Elizabeth Moss (someone I admired in Mad Men and will, till the end of life, know as Peggy Olson). She plays Detective Robin Griffin, a Sydney police officer returning to her remote New Zealand hometown of Laketop, facing the crimes surrounding the pregnancy and disappearance of a local 12-year-old girl, Tui.7. Spiral (Engrenages): Another one to add to the list is the French BBC Drama - Spiral: Engrenages - broadcast on Canal+. It stars two powerful female characters: a quirky, obsessed, but brilliant female Police Captain Laure Berthaud, and a ruthless, corrupt and beautiful female lawyer Joséphine Karlsson, both caring less about the many feathers they ruffle. These female characters are primary to the plot and rarely was their gender invoked in relation to their job role or position of power. This feminist observation apart, the 12 part series is gripping: the characters etched out in great detail (I felt for each of them in their individual disasters and triumphs), their relationships and challenges realistic, and the three subplots cleverly executed and tied together. A minor quibble was the need to look at the subtitles constantly, but I swear by end of it I could speak a little bit of French myself.8. Marcella: Err... another British television crime noir detective series. Yeah, mea culpa, but I do like them so much! They are astonishingly atmospheric—a trait I look for in everything I read or watch—the cast and setting need to grow on me. The series stars Anna Friel as Marcella Backland, a former London detective who is asked to return to work to investigate an unsolved case from eleven years ago involving an unidentified serial killer who appears to have become active again. What I love best is she is un-coplike, almost vulnerable and thus, very relatable. Series 2 started airing in Feb, 2018 and I can’t wait for it to come to Netflix.Homeland and House of Cards are the other two wildly popular series with strong female leads. Might I also dare add Game of Thrones season 6? Finally, we have women sailing to conquer worlds and play both the hero and the villain. We have come a long way.But you know what else I wish for now? That the victims of these murders are not women! YES, let’s write a book or make a TV series where the victims of the serial killer is not a WOMAN? Yes, yes, please? I know, we make a pretty picture no matter what, but let’s not have any more cowering and whimpering. Just for a change.About the writer: Smita Bhattacharya is an author based out of Mumbai. She has a particular soft spot for psychological thriller novels and TV series. Her latest novel, Dead to Them, was released in January 2018 and is currently garnering rave reviews. Her other two books, He Knew a Firefly and Vengeful, have ranked among the top 100 Asian Literature & Fiction on Amazon. Several of her short stories have appeared in Indian and international publications over the years, making her a very happy person indeed. More about her at: www.smitabhattacharya.com
All over the world, countries celebrate their independence day with great pride and gusto showcasing their strength and progress to be admired and awed by people. However, I wonder at times are we; human beings really free or liberated? Do we enjoy freedom in true sense? I’ll keep my thought process limited to India without going to the other parts of the world.Every human being according to me is free only at the time of birth. A baby has no worries about projecting the “right public image” and is happy doing anything and everything he wants to. As we grow, we are caged, shackled in many chains by the society- Social, cultural, emotional and lately technological.It starts when the baby (I’ll use ‘She’ as a pronoun as it encompasses ‘he’ too J!) is hardly a toddler. Parents love to show off his/her talents without any consideration for his/her moods and fancies. She has to sing or dance and entertain the relatives who are often least interested. Then there is a marathon for the best school in the city. The kid is again forced to mug up the likely questions to be asked at the interview, learn to behave in a certain manner at the age when she just wants to be left on her/his own. Once at school the comparison starts with all the other children. Every parent wants the child to be the best - marvelling at studies, sports, debates and elocutions, arts, theatre, social etiquette and so on. In short she has to be a Superwoman, while the mothers sweat over every small detail like deciding what hobbies are “in”, what vitamin supplements to give the child for super-built body and extra-intelligent brain, what kind of clothes are in vogue for kids and so on. All advertisements put the pressure on parents to make a scientist/ doctor/ engineer or any professional (Please note that none off the advertisements think much of artists or farmersL! No wonders farmers have remained the most vulnerable lot in our “agrarian” economy for decades!). The harried parents, in turn pass on this frenzied madness on to their children. Every parent dreams of having a super successful child prodigy, irrespective of own talents that he has passed on in the child’s DNA at birth. We want our children to follow the career chart we have created for them taking in consideration the status, social acceptance, and money it will yield. What the child’s interests are is totally ignored.Once the school and college marathon is over and youth gets a plum job, then the other social pressures build up. A girl must learn to be graceful, super talented at juggling home and demanding career, must be having all the socially accepted attributes like – fair, tall, slim, social yet home-loving, educated yet sacrificing, modern yet with traditional values and the list is endless.This brings me to the fairness obsession in our country where most girls are bound to be wheat complexioned due to our geographic and climatic conditions. Having a dusky complexion is looked down upon and if you have a darker skin only God or fairness creams save you! I find the advertisements so ridiculous when a girl dreaming of a great career has to rely on fairness creams to prove her mettle! If she wants to remain single by choice then hell breaks loose. If she marries then her womanhood is not considered complete till she delivers a baby. Why I wonder, in a free country it becomes a privilege of all and sundry to barge into couple’s bedroom and discuss why are they not having kids and what could be wrong with them. Can we not let the parents decide when they want to bring in a life that is going to be their responsibility till they are alive?Men on the other hand are forced to bring home a handsome pay package and comparisons of how much comforts and luxury a neighbour can afford to give his wife vis- a -vis the poor husband becomes a main topic of contention. Once they become parents they too merrily join the same rat race that their parents had joined to ruin them.These are some of the socio-cultural shackles I strongly feel about. Emotional shackles too are somewhat intertwined in these as usually our Indian society loves to emotionally blackmail their loved ones to follow their commands. Log kya kahenge is the most dangerous epidemic that has been afflicted by Asian psyche. Social approval is a bug that has bitten all of us. Imagine the emotional state of a young girl when she is more than often rejected because she is NOT fair, slim or beautiful. She is most often an easy prey to depression. I wonder why we give so much importance to external attributes while totally ignoring the more important ones like nature, intelligence, compatibility etc. in a life partner. Are we shopping here for a curio to beautify home or wanting someone with whom we can share our lives! And same things go for men too - what with markets flooded with anti-balding treatments and all those fairness creams for men? He too is expected to earn well, be qualified with the most lucrative degree, have a macho figure etc. I often hear young girls asking for well sculpted men as their life partners. SO now the fire has reached even the other side of the society. At a young age he’s expected to offer all the comforts and luxuries when he’s still building his career!Added to all these cages, the worst shackle is the technology. We think human being created technology for comforts but today it has totally backfired on us impacting every aspect of the society. Just look around and see for yourself what have smart phones done to our lives! The downfall that started with the idiot box and further fuelled with the internet has been completed by the smart phones. Phones are getting smarter and humans are getting dumber. I’ve nothing against technology and if used sensibly it can be a great boon. We can now reach the entire world in a split second. Emails have become a passé with the advent of other more powerful and faster means of communication. Often Facebook and twitter has helped in reuniting people or in sending across a useful message. Today I too am saying what I feel thanks to this technology. We can surely not ignore the good things. However, we can’t turn a blind eye to the damage it does to our most profound institutions of marriage, family and society as a whole. Families are fast disintegrating today as each one is happy to be in his on anda cell created by his Laptop, smart phone, personal TV or a tablet, and is constantly in his world with his headsets on. Cheating in marriages has never been so rampant and easy with the right to privacy. Virtual affairs ruin many marriages as one doesn’t understand that virtual love is bound to appear “perfect” and it’s only when you actually start life together you need to adjust and understand. Recently, a study revealed how social skills are being affected in this generation that spends most of its time in the virtual world. Family time is unheard of with each one immersed in his on virtual world. We forget that though wired from all sides we are not robots but human beings who are bound to need emotions like warmth, love and touch to thrive. The older generation who is not very tech savvy feels the brunt the most. They are mostly treated like a piece of furniture. The youth has no connect with parents leave alone grandparents. In our desire to connect across miles we have been disconnected from our own family.Family outings, dinners and gatherings do happen surprisingly even today but the most time and attention is hogged by these smart phones. Family time has become a joke with each member immersed in one’s cell phone- exchanging messages. Checking face book updates, updating status and so on.The family vacations are more for clicking selfies and check-ins to let the whole world on social media know the exotic place one is heading to. There have been many stand up comedies, what’s app forwards and tongue in cheek cartoons aimed at this but I feel we are quick to ignore these warning bells and laugh it off merely as a humour. So many have lost lives clicking selfies at dangerous spots but we are too slow to understand the implications. Are we really a generation of dimwits and our cell phones smarter than us? Only God save us in such situation…!All pictures Courtesy- https://unsplash.com
The world we live in can get so hectic that we have less and less time to stop and smell the roses. Seriously, we could be completely happy, healthy and overall content and not even know it because we don’t take the time to sit down and just evaluate our lives. Well, it’s time to take a moment.Read more at 5 Signs you are a Happy and Healthy Woman
There will be times where relationships between humans take evil turns with or without their consent. In such situations every step an individual takes in life costs a lot either bad or good.The Plot:This short story is a superb thriller with so many unexpected twists and emotions. Kudos to the author for maintaining the mystery till the end and has let his readers think with a question unanswered!!!!The title of the book ‘ The Man Mum Loved ‘ is very mysterious.The book cover is an image of a beautiful modern young woman.Terrific characterisation of the story characters is observed.The narration is fast paced and interesting.Simple and effective language is used.This book reminds the readers somewhere the famous case that was in news in the year of 2015 in the country. The book is a nice quick read.
Porn as a word that has been making people go crazy, blush, even takes them to a world far from here. On one side, people are promoting high-quality porn, which is again a big deal in this world. And the rest argue as it has been promoting vulgarity and creating illusions of fake orgasms, fake beliefs, myths and everything.
Blurb:OVER A SPAN OF TEN YEARS, HE KILLED FORTY PREGNANT WOMEN AND THEN VANISHED WITHOUT A TRACE. AFTER FIVE YEARS OF SILENCE, HE IS BACK AGAIN, SEEKING HIS NEXT VICTIM. ONLY ONE MAN CAN STOP HIM – PROFESSOR BLACK.Maher was found unconscious in the middle of the highway and later, in the hospital, she revealed that she had escaped from a killer’s house. All the details and patterns matched the serial killer ‘Kansa,’ who had disappeared five years ago after murdering forty pregnant women. ACP Saargi Desai was assigned to the case. She appealed to her department to bring back Professor Black to help her catch the killer. The Professor, who had a haunting past that had kept him away from the world of crime and investigation for several years, was not willing to take on this case. But the ACP managed to convince him to get on board just for this one last time. Soon after agreeing to help, the Professor realized that for the first time in his life, he had met his match. As he dug deeper into the case, everything got dirtier, the stakes went higher, and nothing was what it seemed.Intrigue:‘Kansa’ is the First book of ‘The Killer trilogy’ series by Prassant Kevin. The book narration starts with a couple who are traveling back after marriage at Corbett, whose car met with an accident, which rans out on Meher who is an escaped victim from KaNsa. The story grips with “ACP Saargi Desai” who suspects the impression of serial killer Kansa, who seeks help of a alcoholic, drug addict, womanizer yet criminology expert “Professor Black” to break this killing mystery of forty pregnant women and their babies.Not to further be a spoiler, this book answers the questions:Who is kaNsa?Why is the motive of killing pregnant women and their babies?Did ACP and Professor could break this mystery ?How Meher escaped from killer clutches ?To know yourself, read this crime thriller kaNsa. My Review:To start off , the book cover is damn awesome specially the EMBOSED title, the background picture and fine quality paper with bigger font which is handy makes happy to carry. It was one of the most awaited crime thrillers, the pace of book is very good and you will not find yourself bored at any point and a perfect nail biter.Book starts with a hidden message, a second of driving negligence needs more pay off and in other way that paves a great start as clue to find the serial killer, “There is no one either good or bad, but circumstances make them so” , one of the best thing in kaNsa is the story is written and narrated in third person point of view. writing style is pretty clear, decent content and has minimal grammatical errors, can be ignored in interest of plot. The narration was so perfect, I can feel those come before my eyes when I am reading the book (may be due to midnight read)At few places due to suspect and mysterious nature, readers will literally experience chills in their spine (sweet warning), this book pulled me from love and romance to crime and suspense genre ( I stacked three already) ,title kaNsa and story progress makes the keen readers feels the mythological impression in the intrigue.Below few unanswered questions made me to go with a star less:1. Professor Black family ?2. Logical or medical reason to kill pregnant women3. The necklace4. Two pictures of of three by Meher5. Annu Kesharwani, white rabbit6. Exact male who torture and kill pregnant women7. Arjun involvement in crimeLooking forward for Book:2 in this trilogy series,overall kaNsa turns out to be a perfect crime thriller, with decent story-line,well narrated, fit to screen-played, minor grammatical errors, nail biting page turner. Even the last page has an amazing twist that paves a thought for the upcoming one. kaNsa serves as reference for “Criminology” enthusiastLink:KaNsaRegardsKiran K Adharpuram
ReviewSOLITUDE and other OBSESSIONS is a thoughts and imagination treasury of Uma, Binod, Trupti, Shruti and Saurin. All the five poets have done an amazing work, they have compiled 73 poems in totals that reflect the emotions and feelings.A human mind is always preoccupied with various and numerous thoughts. From man to woman, boy to girl, minor to stripling every humankind is indulged with obsession, some people refrain but some they cant and become obsessed.Poems in the garner have a high and rich vocabulary, themes of the poem are multifarious. Poetry is something that has a power to control the mind, I was enjoying reading these poems on various topics, the book is full of awestruck and awesome pieces of poems of poets. Some of my personal favorite from this pile is Binod Panda's collection every poem has a story behind even years are mentioned, Life: With A smile amazing, Two to Tango, Who Am I, Send Me, Flute, The Light Princess, and In A Lap Of Death are few titles touched my soul.Title and cover both didn't make a place in my heart, but yes poems have left the print in my heart!Highly recommended to all the poetry lovers.4/5 startsBlurbWe are a species fueled by obsessions. Every human achievement, and every infamy, is the result of an obsession that tormented, possessed and consumed. This is a selection of poetry about solitude and other obsessions that have distracted, driven, destroyed and / or defined us. Spanning genres, styles, emotions, time & place, these works by a collective of 5 poets are a glimpse into the obsessions that have become us.All about the five Authors"Uma Sudhindra grew up in an army environment. After a decade-and-half of corporate life, she became an entrepreneur and has remained one. She loves books, music, travel & the Armed Forces. Her entrepreneurial venture Go Magic Trails reflects her passion for travel and experiencing the new & unique.She's co-founded I'm Every Woman, an NGO for women empowerment. Their flagship initiative, DURGA India, has worked tirelessly with communities, corporates & government to create safer spaces for women & children.Binod Kumar Panda is the classic mix of left-brain, right-brain. Gregarious and charming, he's an engineer and MBA with a hugely successful corporate, entrepreneurial and consulting career.His school and college years though were spent in the company of solitude and like-minded friends that resulted in thought provoking poetry.Trupti Kalamdani is a mechanical engineer by profession who investigates stresses developed on an aircraft body at work; while at home, releases her stress by penning down a few lines.Her tryst with poetry started during her school days, when she expressed her undying love for cricket in the form of a poem. Over the years, her limericks have grown into full bodied verses. A closet poet for years, she is finally out and exploring different platforms to share her work.Her poems have been published in literary journals like efiction India, Taj Mahal Review and Coffee Shop Poems. She is also a regular performer at ""Let Poetry Be"" events at Atta Galatta.Dr. Shruti Arabatti comes with a mature head over drooping arms and a mind ticking faster than an exploding bomb. Like her namesake, she is an orchestrated person living in a discordant cadence. She manages to hit all the right notes amidst all the gobbledygook yelping by her adorable preschooler.Saurin Desai's first love led to a roaring affair that's ongoing now since nearly 30 years. At the innocent age of 8 he met a comic book that whacked him on the head (pun intended) and he fell heels-over-head, literally (pun not intended).But being commitment-phobic, he had a couple of dalliances: with engineering, jobs & businesses, before succumbing to the seduction of the writer's life and giving up everything to become lazier than he ever was.About BookPaperback: 128 pagesPublisher: Notion Press,Language: English.
Maps And Mother Goddesses in Modern India”,Imago Mundi, Vol 53 pp. 97-11by Sumathy Ramaswamy; “Death of a Kotwal”, The Caste Question pp.241-264 by Anupama RaoThe scales of shapes and skills remain balanced so long there is a constant urge to take action through acts and thoughts. Borrowing evidences from the texts from The Death of A Kotwal and Maps and Mother Goddesses of India, this paper argues how bodies produce knowledge. It lurks around the former where an innocent Kotwal is bludgeoned to death and the latter provides for a bodyscape which helped unite India. This paper reflects how irrespective of the existence of materials, constant interactions in the society can lead to formation of perceptions and abstractions. NON LIVING PARTICIPATION IN ACTIONBodies are known to be the hub for interactions and debates. Apart from their physical realities, in a rut to fight and provide evidence, humans intensify the meaning of the non-existential bodies to make them exist. Rao, in her paper explains the helplessness of the family and the Dalit community after Sawane’s virtual corpse is put under the eyes of the law. The case expedites when it is scrutinized deeply and Rao mentions, “The addition of the PCR Act’s Section 3(x)was mandatory and signaled that the case merited extra care as an atrocity”(243). The idea of the investigation of a dead body by another body in power(legislation) sensationalized the tiff in hand.This case was chalked out as an exception from all of the Anti-Dalit discriminations, because of its gruesome severity. Ramaswamy supporting this argument in her essasy argues reflects how soma (body) of a woman can be utilized for representing a map, to awaken the depressed patriots of India. She says, “These gendered bodyscapes also enable the viewing of the nation’s territory possessively, even pleasurably”(109). Considering maps of margins and boundaries incapable of provocation of any belongingness, she intensifies the need and power of embodiment. Such bodyscapes hence acted like moderators between different ideologies to brew a collective revolution.Man’s constant attempt to question and frame an individual to gain attention has made his instinct for differing between the real and unreal blind. The once real, body of the Kotwal and the virtual Mother India, both created by man are not hotplate for discussion and representations.STRUCTURES TO ABSTRACTIONSBodies are meant to provide a structure and materialize the abstractions. However their state of living existence may be, bodies never cease to engender knowledge and awareness. When put under a magnifying glass of human perceptions, one views different from the other. Rao expresses how the location of the village was harmless yet a catastrophe occurred. As the case progressed it was found out that apart from being Dalit and follower of Ambedkar, he was also the gate keeper for his area. Rao writes, “Living outside the village boundaries, the mahar veskar is the outsider figure who protects the integrity of the village social unit” (258). Sawane wasn’t only a material body, but upon his death,a lot of humanity and responsibilities failed which remained unnoticed.Sumathy Ramaswamy too expresses how blank cartographical representations of their progressing nation once looked at differently, livened up. The body of the mother goddess as a map now, calls for national urge to freedom. She writes “They invite the citizen subject who gazes upon them to relate the nation not as some abstract, dead geographical space but as a near and dear person, his personal goddess, his vulnerable mother, even a beloved lover “(110). One couldn’t have imagined the power of abstract images with bodies to shake the restlessness in the nation and make them aware about their surroundings. These perceptions help build studies of knowledge and emotion amongst people who are witnessing the action. Hence to attain the key of all the knowledge of interest from a body, one must seep through all the roots of the body and decipher all its actions and emotions it represent for others before making quick judgments. It is only then when our deductions will surpass the normal overview of bodies, that we will take a leap into the world of actual reality.KNOWLEDGE EXCHANGES ON THE BASIS OF PERCEPTIONSCo-existing with other humans in the universe leads to various perceptions and ideas to be built around the body. The way he moves, his actions, his speech, all comes into consideration when there is an observer or listener who symbolizes his being with respect to own life. On one hand, Rao reflects the importance of politics in the society, on the other,Ramaswamy talks about the status of the female community through her work. The latter writes on behalf of many and says “feminist geographers have suggested that the conception of the nation as cartographically female enables a ‘masculinist’ relationship to the place”(109).In their purview, such kind of bodyscaping was centralized so men could join arms and perform righteous duties towards the vulnerable mother nation. On a similar note, Rao reflects how ideas taken from the perception of Dalit communities and Ambedkar’s role as a political leader helped shape the judgment. She resounds the case progressions and says, “Kharkov distinguished two forms of phenomenal violence: new violent caste social displayed in conflict around Ambedkar statue and retaliatory counter violence that reinstated Dalits’ stigmatized status” (255). This knowledge became crucial in understanding and refining the position of the Dalit kotwal and his ambition of constructing a statue of Ambedkar. The distress of the Dalit community and their political representative from the past, would not have come under notice if there was no action amidst communities. The analysis that came in effect after continuous actions and perceptions made in societies would not have been produced without the continuous expulsion of knowledge from the bodies. It is due to such their status in the society and such symbolic representations, that we can extrapolate their relationships and achievements in the past.Humans, often involuntarily make decisions keeping in mind other people’s existence in their life and their effects. As goes their anatomy, knowledge can never be separated alone from the way they occupy space. This space however need not be tangible or visible, for what matters more is the influence created by it. By their own will, the bodies spout a river of emotions and actions in due course of their life. As they interact, the by products become adaptable and appreciable by the people over who he has the influence. Now this influence can be used to target a set of people or a notion, it can be used as a boon or a bay, or a tool or weapon. These assumptions about perceptions, extraction of reality from abstractions too are caused by an exchange in ideas and thoughts over time in space. Hence so I believe that bodies are more than occupants of the earth, they exceed their limits and become unique walls of creative knowledge.
An insight to what went down when a nation-wide Bharat Bandh was launched by a group of Dalits.
Daughter in law is said to be laxmi, but still they disrespect her, ill-treat her, does not give space to live or survive & wants her to be perfect in everything from the day one. Every hour its difficult for her to survive coz every hour ppl keep finding faults in her. Just look at yourself, you ppl must be in your 30’s, 40’s & 50’s are you perfect in all aspects. Don’t you make mistakes; don’t you see faults within yourself??? After all she is also a human; she has left her family and has come at in laws place. Make her feel homely & comfortable, make her feel that she is at right place, where she need not to worry. She would get more love & care that she used to get from her parents. If you don’t like that someone disrespect you, than do not misbehave with her. If you treat her with love & affection, you would get more love in returns. Relationship does not mean that daughter in law needs to change herself completely & you ppl still remain the same. Let her be herself. Togetherness brings more improvements instead of pointing her & finding mistakes in each & everything that she does. We are living in 21st century & still if you think woman are only here to do household chores than there is no illiterate person like you though being educated. There is an old saying “As you sow, so shall you reap”. If this is how you would behave with your daughter in law, than what lessons who would leave behind for your grandson, granddaughter & upcoming generation. She takes all the little initiative to make her husband & her family happy, she has not cooked before, but she is learning, she has not done house hold work, but still she is managing. Appreciate her little efforts & if you can’t appreciate than stop finding faults in her. Each one should take initiatie to improve relationship & make it healthier instead of complaining & arguing with each other, coz all needs the improvement, not only your Daughter in law. #smblogcontest
Girls should be Understood, Listen to them how they feel, Appreciate them the way they are, Be with them when they need you the most, Help them to overcome insecurity, In isolated place do take care if you find her trapped..But sad to it does not happen, coz we do not consider it as our moral responsibility to keep our girls safe.Society is male dominated, so we fail to see how girls actually suffer and go through pains in everyday of their life. Whether it’s standing alone for bus, at railway station, in school, colleges, at jobs, working in police or army, being a housewife or being a daughter in law.Girl goes through molestation & domestic violence, even by their near & dear ones whom they trust the most. Our society has created boundaries for a girl how to dress, how to go around, where to sit, when to talk, how much to study, when to get married & even her career path is decided by the parents or in laws if they allow her to work.Why can’t people be normal with girl’s behaviour? Everybody has their own brains & can distinguish between good or bad, between right & wrong, pro & cos of the action that they take. Why does our society teach girls all the times & not the guys to be decent with their acts?Even if we dressed up in jeans, suit or sari men still tend to see you from top to bottom like an x-ray machine, plz ask us how uncomfortable it feels to be there. Woman can’t even feed their babies in public coz it makes it awkward for her.In offices if you talk nicely with any guy, go for dinner or a cup of coffee, people start assuming that there is something fishy between the two & people start giggling, passing comment, rumours etc etc & makes hostile work environment for a girl to work. Educated people at good level entertain this sort of nonsense.If after office a girl miss the bus & a male colleague drop her at home, society people starts talking rubbish “raat ko late aatti hai, kitne ladko se chakkar hai” & try to spoil her image & name for no reason.Showing condolence with few incidents like rape, child abuse, teasing & molesting does not make sense, coz that is done to gain political vote, to be in limelight, or to increase your TRP & make money out of it.A coin has two side & society should learn to see both the side without being biased. #smblogcontest
Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Prabhat Ranjan is a Hindi novelist from Bihar. He entered the writing scene with his debutnovel With You; Without You in the winter of 2017 and since the launch of his debut novel,his popularity as an author has only reached new heights.A less talkative person, Prabhat Ranjan comes from a family with a political background andhis father is a senior politician. An engineer by profession, Prabhat has been writing shortstories and poems way before he finally decided to enter the field of writing formally with afull-length fiction. Nevertheless, as an engineer, Prabhat did not let himself be aloof ofliterature - he is a serious reader as well as a serious author and he wants to contributemore and more with his pen.Already finished his second novel, Prabhat Ranjan's writing style is very different from otherfiction writers out there. He has uniqueness! His writings are not only meant to create abestselling fiction; he has his purposes in every word he writes. Even with the first novel,which subsequently became a bestseller, he had a very good message to deliver to the reading audience. The novel is not only about love and friendship, it is also about the depths of relationships. With You; Without You shares a message with the readers that the need of family and the need of good company in life can never be substituted with anything!To put things in a better perspective, Prabhat is from that old school of writers with hisimagination not limited to a certain theme or story. He does write with the purpose but hedoes not limit himself to write only the moral stories which seem like a preacher's sermon;his stories do have the elements which make them contemporary and offer the youngreaders something to relate to.In developing characters, Prabhat does have a speciality! In his first novel, he has proved tothe readers as well as to critics that his characterisation is unique and he gives ampleopportunity to his characters to converse, indulge, move on and eventually change. In thevery first novel, his character Nishind has impressed the readers a lot. The character ofNishind is designed in such a way that readers know he might be doing something wrongbut instead of denouncing his acts, readers develop a kind of sympathy for him. This is thebeauty of his character. Another character that impresses the readers is of Rashmi Desai -an independent working woman who braves the bad relations of her parents and the wrongdeeds of her friends but still manages to fulfil her dreams and reach the heights that she hasimagined for herself in the very childhood.In the terms of plot construction, nonetheless, the readers can surely expect somethingbetter only. As the author has himself admitted in many of his interviews, With You;Without You was just a staircase that he has used for himself to write something bigger - hisupcoming story, Priyanka - A Pakistani Girl. Therefore, the plot in his first novel does notimpress as does his story or his characterisation. Still, his plot is there to certainly be calledgood and it helps the construct of the novel; it surely holds the story and the characterstogether but can certainly be improved to betterment.Putting Prabhat Ranjan's entry into Hindi literature in a larger perspective certainly gives thereaders something new as a concept of Hindi literature. More and more young and energetic writers are coming who are willing to write in Hindi and offer the readers the works which deal with the issues other authors, in the past, did not wish to write. Prabhat's dealing with the issues like sex, love, divorce, family issues in vivid perspective is certainly new and encouraging for the overall contemporary Hindi literature. One can certainly argue that there were the authors who wrote on all these issues, but one must remember that they did not write as freely as the modern authors are doing. And it is certainly very good because of the modern readers want to read everything!And to conclude the contribution of Prabhat to Hindi literature and his current one, WIthYou; Without You, it can safely be said that he has a long road to go. Only after two of threemore of his works, a person will be in better position to judge him as an author and evaluatehis skills at writing. Nonetheless, assumptions can certainly be made based on his novelwhich has already been published and has become a bestseller! The debutants who becomebestsellers certainly require a scrutiny and one similar attempt has been made here. Wehope that we will soon have another book by Prabhat Ranjan to read!
Standing outside the Women’s Correctional Home, I remembered all the jail scenes that I had watched in the numerous Bollywood and Hollywood movies ever. A massive lock was opened by an enormous key and we (members of the All Ladies League Kolkata) were led in. As we stepped inside I saw a few policemen waiting to check our ID’s.
Karaga is an iconic annual festival celebrated in Bengaluru, specially celebrated by Thigalas community
Karaga is an iconic annual festival celebrated in Bengaluru, specially by Thigalas community
No one can deny that a woman has to live with the same senseof freedom and happiness as we do, because social harmony and peace isinterrelated with each and every one’s happiness in life. I know that most ofyou have respect for woman, but the present situation in India demands moreopen discussions and a little more energy from your side. There are manycomplexities that we need to resolve, behind this cruel action called “RAPE”.Without resolving them, if we make stringent laws, we are acting only on theperipheral of the issue. However, the centre from which this action springs upstill remains the same. Laws are necessary, but they are not enough. In aphysical relationship, the man and woman both should have a mutual agreement.Any action without that agreement proves that one is no more a MAN. We need toinclude this small fact in our education system.A physical relationship is a sacred thingthrough which creation happens, looking at it in a vulgar sense is a sin.Having an affair seems to be a heroic action, but sex is just a part of life,not all of it. We must learn how to get energy out of it, and soon die to thatpleasure, instead of feeding it to our memory. If we don’t die to that memory,it is used by thought and turns your life into a mess. Few of the issues behindthis cruelty seem to be1) Female foeticide – Because of this, theratio of the girlsto boys is reducing,and more men are left with wild unfulfilled desires, turning them into wild animals.2) No sex education –When we don’t teach a child about sex as apart of nature and how to involve in it in a dignified manner, vulgaritycreeps intothe mind. Forget about the child, can you and I talk about sex in a dignifiedmanner, without anyvulgar thoughts or jokescreeping into our conversation?3) Entertainment – Inthe entertainment industry, women are mostly objectified. Within the industrywomen may get paid more and mayget good respect. But because of the way they portray women inpublic, thecommon man is looking at women as sex objects or glamour dolls. Indecent jokes about sexual organs have become a trend becauseof our movies today. 4) Not understanding thefact that thereis no problem with desire, but the problem is with either suppression or the craving for it.“I call himempty who has no love, and forhim sex becomes a problem, anissue, a thing to be avoided or to be indulged.”- Jiddu Krishnamurti
She hasn't let her simple past stand in the way of her success.
Book Title: The Wild CatAuthor: Taanya SarmaFormat: Paper BackTotal Number of Pages: 328Language: EnglishPublisher: Invincible PublishersPublishing Date: 21 December 2017ISBN-10: 9387328139ISBN-13: 978-9387328136Based on true events, this erotic thriller novel tells the tale of a young, naive woman named Tanya who enters the online dating and chat world. Her first foray into this digital realm initially proves to be bland and disappointing; however, sex, suspense, power struggles and attempted murder soon unfold. These unwelcome adventures interfere with her business and her sanity as she aspires to live up to her deceased parent’s standards.A conman named Sam ensnares Aaron, a handsome investment banker, into his ploy and uses him as a pawn to lure women into doing things they normally wouldn’t do. Sam then exposes their personal information as well as their images, sometimes in the act of cyber sex, and posts them on a very successful porn website that he owns. Tanya’s encounter with these two men evolves into a long, winding road, with each turn bringing irreparable changes in her life.Enraged by the deceit and the unconscionable behavior of these men, Tanya turns whistleblower and vows to assist the FBI in shutting down the dating app and porn site – and she won’t stop until the perverted perpetrators are behind bars. She never relents, but ultimately laments, “I never thought that I would have to give up my life to remain alive.”ReviewsA very interesting book, especially for young girls to understand the danger that exists in this society with online predators ~ Alma Guzman, Executive Producer Hollywood.Sex, suspense, power, struggle, murder attempt and well developed characters. This book has all the masala to be the next blockbuster Bollywood flick. A must read for sure. ~ RJ Khurki, Zabardast Hit 95 FM Truth is indeed stranger than fiction. This gripping story based on true events will keep you hooked till the very last page. ~ Antil, ScoopwhoopMY TAKEStarting from the book cover the first impression is the best impression the foremost thing which I liked in the book is the beautiful cover and its little unusual title “The Wild Cat” it indeed developed the curiosity within me to know what author meant by it. The lower half of a girl’s face and below it is the night view of a city with buildings in the middle of the cover title with sub title. The Wild Cat A deviant tale of a young woman, a banker and a conman who happen to meet on dating website. The Cover is beautiful and attractive. Title is also perfect for the plot.The story revolves around the line of protagonist Tanya aka Iron Angel, Dorothy, Adam, Mr. U W, Aaron aka Phantom or Alpha, Mrs. Martha, Sarah, Monica , Sam Baker aka call as Nick Baker or Cobra, Newguyintown,Notorious, Aunt Iris, Rookie, Venom, Rebel Queen, Rex, Mr. & Mrs. Baker, Stephanie Owens, Schmidt, Jeff Simpson, Dali, Frida.This is the story of female protagonist Tanya an art gallery owner inherited from her father. She lost her mother in her early age and her father had brought her up but later her father passed away in an accident. She was a alone and only have the support of her best friend Dorothy. Dorothy is dating online through an app which matches with a person of similar interest and lets them talk in a group or one -one.Tanya also downloads the app iVoice once she learns that she has been using it to date this person who is the owner of a sexy voice according to her. iVoice is a dating app but the twist is that it’s not like any other dating app. It’s a dating app based on voices of different people. One can only connect with another person she is interested in by hearing his voice. No real names, no identities. Just voice. The application has a option to lock in the phone number and also has a voice changer option if any user feels not to reveal their own voice. Tanya, aka Iron Angel on iVoice comes across another user called Adam who invites her to a private chat. Adam apparently is married and is a father to three kids. He shows signs of perversion and voyeurism and have cybered (cyber sex) quite a few times but his wife doesn’t mind even when she knows about his addiction. I don’t know why. Even his therapist knows about it but takes no step to stop him from his adventures. Tanya and Adam end up talking about the colours of underwear they wear, whether they wash hands after peeing, whether they sleep in PJs or sleep naked. I mean, girl you are talking to a virtual stranger and you haven’t even seen his face and you are already talking about penises, panties and thongs!! Like, seriously. I was exasperated at her common sense. He could have turned out to be an old pimp who doesn’t think twice before killing innocent girls. Anyways, coming to the second user Phantom; he is the lead male protagonist in this book. Aaron aka Phantom turns out to be an investment banker and is pretty civil when they first engage in conversation. He isn’t a creep like the two other users she had interacted previously. They almost talk everyday. As days pass, Tanya becomes more addicted to this app and starts to feel “soft” for Aaron. It’s trap. There’s always some people lurking in the background to pounce on when they are presented with opportunities. There’s one such person in this iVoice app too. He gains a large sum of money by selling of phone numbers and private images of the girls who uses this app. When Tanya comes to know about this and learns that Aaron is also linked with this whole ploy, she plots a revenge against them. The rest of the story follows Tanya in her revenge and whether she finds success in her plan. This book ends with a cliffhanger mode. The rest of the story will be in next trilogy set of the book.Language is simple crisp and lucid and has the ability to bring live the events narrated in the book. The characters are well developed and one can easily relate to their actions, reactions, mental agony, outbursts, etc. The only character that left me a bit confused was that of Tanya. The best part is that even the supporting characters are well- developed and merge smoothly into the story. You can easily relate to most of their actions, reactions and inner turmoil. However I would have loved to get to know what happen after BANG. BANG. who had shoot for that i have to wait for next book. While the first half is erotic thriller with cyber crime, the second half which is revenge. Narration is done well. The author’s strongest point is plot with unique theme and warn the women of online world. One of the most important things that I noticed is how with few words, the author could not only just portrayed the hazards of online world, the pain, joy and sorrows of the characters but she even manages to bring that out from the readers. Most victims of these crimes were teenage girls and women. There was a nefarious attempt to trap young girls to indulge in wrongdoing. The increase in number of mobile phones had also led to more number of cyber crimes. Crimes were also reported by misusing social networking websites on the internet. The writer’s words has the capacity to hold the reader till the last page. The book has been written well in accordance to real-life examples with realistic point of view.This is the debut novel of author but we don’t seriously feel as if we are reading a book written by a debut author. Overall a fantastic fantasy packed with action and tinged with suspicion and suspense. I personally would like recommend this book to every women out there and to all the book worms it’s a must read.Overall Ratings 4/5 StarsAbout the AuthorTaanya Sarma is an author, poet and an entrepreneur. An ambivert true to form, the depth and duality of Taanya’s personality are evident throughout her writing.The genesis of The Wildcat trilogy stems from her desire to warn naive young women about the pitfalls of the online dating world.Taanya’s goal is to see her series of novels published and available in multiple languages as far reaching as countries like India, China, UK, NZ, SA, Australia – and, of course, in her home country the United States.When she’s not writing, Taanya is most likely thinking about writing – or spending time with her adopted dog, playing the guitar and piano, sketching, biking, snorkeling or participating in some extreme sports like parasailing, skydiving, or bungee jumping.For a more in-depth look into the life and creative mind of Taanya Sarma, follow her at @taanya.sarma or check out her website at http://www.taanyasarma.com
Anuradha is working in the field of academics from past 18 years. She has worked in a variety of schools across India as an English Language teacher, along with an experience of working in Nalanda University. She is also an avid blogger and writes from her heart at www. anuradhastringsofmyheart.com Being alumni of Fergusson college, Pune and a post graduate in English Literature and then working as a teacher; writing poems, travelogues, articles and then a novel came naturally to her. As an army officer wife, she has experienced and explored India from North to South and East to West as India’s true citizen. Though a Punekar by birth, she loves every moment of her wandering life and calls herself as the new age gypsy. A mother of two boisterous boys and a charming lady wife of a serving officer, a teacher and a writer, she wears all these varied caps with élan.What inspires you to write the book?Social evil spread rampant made me restless and that restlessness made me write a story of triumph of good over evil that too a battle waged by a woman who had nothing extraordinary about her, just will to eradicate evil from society and save her brethren.How did publishing your debut novel “The Mysterious Widows of Mehboobpura” change your process of writing?I am even more motivated, more responsible and disciplined. Of course since I have gone through the process once now I know the do’s and don’t of the craft.What is the main thing you want readers to take away from this book?The central idea of the book that social evils like drugs and other things which can finish a complete generation, a healthy society should be curbed and finished at all costs, it is possible to fight against it at your level, individually as well and it should be done by each and everyone of us.What are your hobbies, passion other than writing?Other than writing I enjoy travelling, listening to music and of course I read a lot.If I have a good book in my hand then I forget everything else.Do you recall the first ever book/novel you read?Yes, I was very small then, mere 3 year old. My father got me an illustrated dictionary with amazing illustrations to describe the word, along with an interesting sentence. I kept that book with me for longest time. It was part of my childhood memories. I lost it somewhere when we changed our house.What does your writing/reading space look like?My writing place is very quiet, calming. I have made it in a corner of my bedroom. I write at the study table gifted by my hubby. I enjoy sitting there reading, thinking.What are your top three favorite books of all time?The top three books which I can again and again read are Gone with the Wind, The Hungry Tide and The Kite RunnerDo you pen down revelations and ideas as you get them, right then and there?Yes, I try my level best to jot down new ideas, phrases, sentences or revelations as soon as I get them, I usually write it in my mobile itself, or on a piece of paper whatever I can get at hand.What does literary success look like to you?Success is a very subjective feeling. It changes according to the perception of a person. For me, my book getting published, gives me a stupendous feeling for the main reason that words do not have death. Words change into knowledge and will always float in this worldly space.How did you feel when the publisher accepted your draft for the first time ?The idea of the novel was revolving in my head for quite sometime, it was crystal clear in my head. When it got accepted by the publisher though, i gave a contented sigh, as it was a first sign that now the book is on its way for publishing.Tell us something interesting that has occurred since you became a writer?It is overall a good feeling, when people read my book and come up to me or call me to tell that they enjoyed it thoroughly. This feeling that I can give a good story to people, and people can take something out of it , gives a high.One character from your books, that you like the most?Though the character of the main protagonist Ira is very impressive. I like the character Jagtar for his struggle, the ups and down that he goes through.What was your favorite chapter (or part) to write and why?The chapter where Ira visits the pind with Nimrat. I wanted to make it very interesting. I myself was on edge while writing it, as the words were tumbling off my fingers so fast, it was thrilling writing it down.What is that dream goal you want to achieve before you die?To write stories of varied genre, unique characters, thrilling plots, engaging narrative and reach widest number of readers.A message for aspiring writers?Write from your heart, tell a story which you must.It was really a privilege interviewing you. Hope you enjoyed the interview.Thank you!!Here are some of links via you can contact Anuradha-Facebook Twitter Instagramhttps://anuradhastringsofmyheart.com/Write to her at firstname.lastname@example.orgLinks to buy her books- Amazon.in Amazon.com Amazon.co.uk Flipkart Infibeam
Book Title: Emotions And ElationAuthor: Banani Das DharFormat: Paper BackTotal Number of Pages: 90Language: EnglishPublisher: HALF BAKED BEANS Publishing Date: 4 June 2018ASIN: B07DHB9521Each expectant mother goes through a different journey, each relationship with the unborn child special. This book is a piece of my soul. It does not aim to be a guidebook but is a detailed journal of my beautiful journey. Yes, my body went through a tremendous transformation and not every moment was as smooth as I thought it to be. What started out as a period of pampering and feasting was soon overshadowed by bouts of miserable times as well. A long separation from my husband and a gnawing loneliness marred my joy. I want to take you on an emotional ride, one that touched every nerve of my being. a joy that has to be experienced to be believed. welcome to my world !My TakeThe first impression is the best impression the foremost thing which i liked in the book is the simple and yet beautiful cover. The title of the book Emotions and Elation is apt according to the plot. They complement each other well and also is according to the story, so it’s a perfect combination.Motherhood is the greatest gift God gave to womankind, to know that we are instruments in God’s Creation, to know that we participated in God’s purpose and plan. The author has written her personal life experience of her 9 month of conceiving a baby and her anxieties and ambivalence that pregnant women experience. Baby moon was my favorite part of the book. Words flow smoothly and emotions find expression thus making the book a veritable treat.The language of the book is simple and crisp which will make it easy to read for the readers. The book is free from any grammatical errors and has been perfectly edited. The pace is perfect, neither slow nor too fast. It is steady and smooth. Narration is done well. Characterization is perfect. All the characters are well developed.I miss you the most at night.When everything is quiet and the silence reminds meThat I’m not sleeping next to you…An engaging read, I would like to recommend this book to all bibliophiles.Overall Ratings 5/5 StarGrab the book here- Amazon.in
Book Title: TwistedAuthor: Shravya GunipudiFormat: Paper BackTotal Number of Pages: 254Language: EnglishPublisher:Notion PressPublishing Date: 1 edition 2017ISBN-10: 1947349090ISBN-13: 978-1947349094It is weird that I still meet my mother almost every day.I am 35 years old. But that is not why it is weird.It is because nobody else has seen her since 18th September, 20 years ago.Because, that is the day she died.”Meet Ria, the charming woman with an edge. Her life is nearly perfect. Or so it seemed, until one fateful day an accident wipes out parts of her memory. Suddenly, she starts to experience strange visions involving repressed childhood memories which send shivers down her spine.A man called ‘Anuj’ whom she can’t remember.The sadness that led to her mother’s sudden death.Answers that her husband Jay refuses to share.Secrets begin to resurface and Ria is left with no option but to confront her own fears.Twisted is a tale of love, family and friendship, where bitter memories and shocking truths drive everyone to the point where they have to decide – Will the relationships crumble to dust or can love really conquer all?My TakeThe cover is attractive enough to catch attention. Tittle of the book Twisted gives the in that the plot will have lot’s of twist and turns. According to the plot its apt title.The plot is unique; the storyline is gripping as well as intriguing and the narrative takes the story forward flawlessly. The plot is strong and the author has been able to do full justice to it.This is the story of main protagonist Ria has a troubled childhood. After an accident, she lost her memory and not able to recognize any one from her family. Jay her husband supports Ria in her every good and bad time. To know more read the story to unfold the twist and turns in the book.The pace is perfect, neither slow nor too fast. It is steady and smooth. This novel is a perfect blend of love, friendship, emotion, hates, twist-n-turns revenge, psychological drama, and trust. Author has portrayed each and every character with utmost significance of their own and every one of them has done justice to their respective roles throughout the story. The book have been portrayed in such a way, that any reader will be able to connect with the story and live the journey with them.The language is simple to follow which make it easier for the reader to connect to the characters in the stories and resonate with them.The characters are well developed and one can easily relate to their actions, reactions, mental agony, outbursts, etc. My favorite character of this book was Jay. It’s hard to find a such a loving husband in these days after knowing all the truth between Ria and Anuj then also he is caring and supporting Ria. Something very magical can happen when you read a good book. I felt that magic in me after reading this book. It makes me realize what true love is, as it demands nothing but just to be expressed.Overall, An engrossing read that’s capable of keeping the reader on edge till the very end.Kudos to the author for penning down this book.Looking forward to read more books by the author.Overall Ratings- 5/5 Stars.About the AuthorShravya Gunipudi, a 23 year old CA and CS, has been writing ever since the tender age of nine. Now, more than a decade since her first journey with the pen, she has won numerous prizes for her Articles, Short Stories and Poetry. She was a part of 19 Anthologies with a total of 17 published stories and was recognised as ‘Best Writer of the Year, 2013’ by yourstoryclub.com. She is also the editor of the project ‘The Book of Dreams’, by Numerique Publications. Recently, she was awarded ‘Best Author of the Year, 2016’ by salisonline.Shravya wishes to explore her passion both in Finance and Writing. It is her dream to merge her creative side with her analytical one. Writing, she believes, is the best form of expression that calms the mind and frees the soul. Her favourite quote is ‘Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing about’.Her Debut Novel, ‘Turning Back Time’, is now available in stores! Grab the book here- Amazon.in Amazon.com
Feature Selection in Machine Learning
This dowry is like cancer to the society, with the patients who don’t even know about their disease.
Book Title: NAVARASAAuthor:Vinaya PatilFormat: Paper BackTotal Number of Pages: 100Language: EnglishPublisher: HALF BAKED BEANPublishing Date: 4 June 2018ASIN: B07DHB2256Know your Rasa while you enjoy reading a story about it. From the butterflies you feel in your stomach when you fall in love to the spine chilling horror, this book has it all. Denials, acceptance, adventure, anger, humor, you will experience the different flavors when you read the nine (nava) rasa stories. A love story on kindle, a girl who hates to fly, a boy full of wonder, an adventurous and brave brother, an iron cored girl with goals, a loving Grand Pa and a story around his tea estate, a haughty landlord, a taxi ride and a woman’s struggle make up for a wide variety of reading.MY TAKEStarting from the cover of the book is simple and yet beautiful with nine different rasa emoji in red color background. The title of the book “Navarasa” Nava – nine and Rasa – emotions means nine emotions.The book is a collection of short stories based on nine navarasa. The nine emotions included in Navarasa are:-Shringara (love, devotion, beauty)Hasya (Joy, humor, sarcasm)Adbutha (wonder, mystery, curiosity),Veera (courage, confidence, pride),Shanta (peace, relaxation, calmness)Karuna (sadness, compassion, pity),Raudra (anger, irritation, violence),Bhayanaka (Horror, anxiety, worry),Bhibathsa (disgust, depression, self-pity)These are the emotions that humans show according to the situations. My love for you, Take Off, In the eyes of wonder, A Knock at the door, the damned bridge, Nancy’s Haven, A wash away story, girl in the back seat, when I wake up are some short stories author had penned down based on these emotions. Every page is loaded with emotions and twists.Grandpa Henry from Nancy’s Heaven was my favorite character in the book. Take Off! It’s one of the funniest stories in the book. The protagonist Manasi dislikes kids and hate flying. Manasi colleague Arunima inivited her to celebrate New Year Eve Party at Chennai. Aravind (Arunima’s brother) is also coming from US to attend the party so Manasi decides to use the opportunity to meet him. She had a crush on him. Arunima requests Manasi to take her darling daughter Shaina with her in the plane. Shaina was very naughty. The plane and airport journey in the book was amusing.Language is simple and lucid to read and connect with the story and being engaged throughout the story. The style of narration and the pace are perfect. The author has portrayed each and every character with utmost significance of their own and every one of them has done justice to their respective roles throughout the story.Looking forward to read more works by the author.I’ll recommend this book to all readers.Overall Ratings 5/5 StarsGrab the book here Amazon.in | Amazon.com |About the AuthorVinaya Patil is a passionate IT professional who chose to write when she decided to take a break from her well established IT career. She resigned the much sought after Fortune 500 company to explore her creative side in writing and drafted her first book ‘One Life to Love’, a young adult fiction which was published by Rupa Publications in 2014.‘One Life to Love’ was very well received and been reviewed by various forums such as Bookgeeks, Asian Age, Aaj Tak and Women’s Era. She has been interviewed by newspapers such as Deccan Chronicle and The Hindu. She was also interviewed on Bangalore Radio Fever 104 on Mad mornings. Vinaya also has had a stint with Theatre and worked with Theatre Groups such as Evam and Red Pill before she moved to US where she lived for two years. More recently Vinaya has been helping a start-up company and is the Head of its Operations.Vinaya is also an avid reader, spiritual follower and a random scribbler.You can stalk her @Facebook | Instagram |Twitter
It had been raining since last two weekend consistantly.that night elecricity in chawl was went off.it had been two day since electricity went off.Chawl slept into darkness conundrum.it was a pitch dark night.only chirping sound and sound of wall clock tickling heard into room.Night kites was whistling and chirping also heard.frogs cloaking sound also mixed into it.perspiration rolled over body.dark cloud hovered over night.no signal of elctricity arrival was to be seen.on hope we moving our life.Two days before old aged person had dead into chalw.we attempted burnt to ashes his body.because he detected cancer afflicted since last two years and had been bed stricken.he had family of two daughter and wife.wife used to work as housemaid nearby tharwani building.due scarcity in money wife als o would work extra in night at same bulding.in meagre income she could afford his medical treatment.two daughter also had been reachedat marriagible age.When he died,he had been cremeted nearby village graveyard by chawl people.Since that night, light was went off,so all resident got feared of his ghost could haunted chawl anytime.unsatiated soul he was!...One night his ghost came at night,khowcked over door,and would create a sound of horror into chawl.but it was not ghost of his but .it were dogs waged tails and money lender were knocked over door.And disturbed chawl resident.Due to dark night and no electricity .it created horror of his ghost.money lender visit to his home at night.they demanded money from wife and threating her if she could not pay their money, they would ransack her life or kidnapped her daughter as guarantee amount or sell to whorehouse. dogs barking sound contined until morning sun broke out.She at early Morning before sun broke out,run away with daughter.resident of chawl even did not khow whereabuts.The fear of haunting chalw,added barking dongs, made suspension grew into realityOnly ghost of fear appeared into everyone mind. silhoutte attended into imagination.his soul not satisfied.he needed after life.He was resident of chawl since five yrs.as on rent basis.he hailed from ulhasnagar.he had a position in and recognised as mutaka king run by him.gambling and lottering his business.he also khown as area goon.people feared of him.he had lots up money to his purse.he sold out every thing in name of whorewoman.she flirted him. He fallen in her love.she clutched him into her love drama.he never rid of her clutch.one day mortagaged his wife mangalsutra for sake of love.
The rationale she gave for this atrocious wrongdoing will traumatise you!
I dear what I do, and every bra fixing is like a high for me
Book Title: Such Is Her LifeAuthor: Reecha AgarwalFormat: Paper Back Total Number of Pages: 184 pagesLanguage: EnglishPublisher: Fingerprint! PublishingPublishing Date: 1 April 2018ISBN-10: 938777953XISBN-13: 978-9387779532You know her as a mother, daughter, sister, wife, daughter-in-law.But seldom as a woman . . .And maybe never as a human.Get ready . . . it’s time to unlearn and learn.A collection of musings that will have you reeling in a wave of emotion long after you are done reading, this powerhouse of work will make you smile, cry, go red in anger, nod your head in agreement and grasp the finer nuances of what it means to be her in today’s world.A SMALL BOOK OF BIG LEARNINGS.My TakeStarting from the cover is alluring the birds flying from a woman’s head represents the feeling of freedom that a women seeks. The title “Such Is Her Life” is different and interesting. As the title suggest it’s a collection of musings on women’s life.The author has beautifully crafted all the life of a woman right from the time she is in her mothers womb till the time of her death. Musing are written day to day life of female goes through she is raped, rape, child abuse, sexually, mentally, physically, gender discrimination, acid attack, killing, and many others. The best part about these musings was that they were relatable, each and every girl can feel but never truly express herself to people and the things around us. You will feel the magic of words. How a bunch of few words will move you and you happen to close the book and think about rights of women.Words. That they give voice to your inner most feelings.The words were simple and the language is lucid which eased the reading. Perfectly portrayed the feelings and narration was intresting. The first thing I did was to check out if the pages were pink too and guess what yes few pages are pink and poetic verses. It’s simply adorable.4.50 a.m.: She was born.4.51 a.m.: She was handed over an invisible moral code of conduct! Forgetting easily was a gift.A gift she wasn’t blessed with. Until yesterday, she was scared of ghosts.Today she is terrified of people. Life kept changing and she kept accepting it. Until the day she started questing. And that changed the game. Changed her life. they found her strange and weird.She found herself unconventional and unique. While everyone else left, it was her dad who shielded her through all the earthquakes of her life.Her dad, her only hero! She was thrilled to bits on seeing her grandchildren play around her.It was the first day of the month.The day when they visited her-visited her at the old age home.Looking forward to read more books by the author.Overall Ratings 5/5 StarsGrab the copy here- Amazon.in |Amazon.com|Amazon.co.ukAbout the AuthorReecha Agarwal Goyal holds an MBA in marketing and finance from Loyola Institute of Business Administration, Chennai. She has worked as a Wealth Manager in one of the reputed MNCs for six months before getting married in Delhi. Literature has always fascinated her and she has an undying passion for words. She believes that it is her kids, Aanya and Ayansh, who have brought out the writer in her. They make her see this world in a whole new light. Pink Musings is her first book and she desires to spend her entire life reading, writing and travelling.
Book Title: Table For OneAuthor: Neha BindalFormat: Paper BackTotal Number of Pages: 180Language: EnglishPublisher: HALF BAKED BEANSPublishing Date: 20 July 2018ASIN: B07FQ7MWBCTaara Maheshwari, a single woman in her thirties and a successful lawyer, is tough from outside but a die heart fan of romantic movies from inside.She grew up seeking her “happily ever after’ but amid various heartbreaks and culture of modern age short term relationships,her believe in “true connections" got replaced by the comfort of being “emotionally disconnected.”After she turned 31, her parents persuaded her into meeting a guy for marriage who sounded just perfect for her. Acting on impulse,she told her parents that she would meet him only if they let her go on a trip to Europe.As Taara went on to explore the world, she experienced what actually happens when a single Indian girl travels to Europe all by herself. Is it only about dancing, singing or falling in love? What happens after you fall in love? Does love conquer all? Only her story would tell.My TakeThis is the story of protagonist Taara Maheshwari, a successful lawyer in her early thirties still unmarried. She is a confused women, who had encountered some heart breaks and doesn't know what to she wanted in her life. As her parents convinces for an arrange marriage. To which she agreed only if her parents would allow her for solo trip in Europe before marriage. She promised to meet the man once she returned back from the trip fortunately her parents agreed. She thinks it's an escape from marriage and quit her job to fulfill her dream to take a solo trip to Europe. Here her self-exploration starts with travelling diverse destinations, meets different kinds of peoples all around there, sang a song in public, danced crazily, went on trekking, and many more she explored the Europe. Taara in this trips founds new friends as well as she is attracted towards Fred and was in love with him. To know more what happen next read the book. The book is a bag of emotions of love, heartbreaks, travel, romance, adventure, external love, internal love, self realization, happiness, peace, friends, family, life, and many more.Language is simple crisp and lucid and has the ability to bring live the events narrated in the book. The story flows like a movie and takes the readers on a journey to Paris, Switzerland and Italy with Taara the every scene is so well written than you can actually get images of them in your mind. Characterization should be have been strong and done better and i don't like the sudden climax. The faced paced and engaging narration. The writer’s words has the capacity to hold the reader till the last page. The storytelling style was different and simply adorable. I loved Taara character through out the book. Characterization should be done better and i don't like the sudden climax. The cover and title is beautifully crafted.We are all taught that the most beautiful part of a fairy-tale is “happily ever after”. But we fail to notice that all fairy tales begin with “Once upon a time”. Once. It all happened. It was all real. Once. No matter who we are, what we do, or where we live, deep inside we all feel incomplete. It’s like we have lost something and need to get it back. Just what that something is, most of us never find out. And of those who do, even fewer manage to go out and look for it. Alone wasn’t just a closed dark room anymore but a whole wide world full of opportunities. I needed to explore and occupy the vastness of the world inside of me, which until now I hadn’t truly understood. Like the houses we build, the sky was also a shelter to few.I'll recommend this book to all the avid reader's.Overall 4/5 StarsGrab the copy here- AMAZON
Police often turns a blind eye to women's disobedience to traffic rules. Women take an undue advantage and never wear helmet and seat belt. In the end, who have to suffer? Ofcourse the one who has been given a privilege of being a women. Actually, the word privilege is inexpedient here, so I should rather say that police is afraid of women that if they charge her any fine or do negotiations, then she can also put n number of accusations on them & win the case by sophistry. So, police thinks better spare woman & apprehend man.Snollygosters are same like police in the above case. Oppressing general category & sympathizing SC/STs has become dime a dozen for gathering a mammoth amount of votes. In this case who will have to suffer? General category, government, economy or SC/STs? The answer is ALL! The devil is in the details. Inequality often sows the sead of hostility. Government is not at all narrowing the gap, it is bridging the gap wider day by day. First outrageous activity was committed in the history by sanctimonious people who used to ostracize dalits and second government is doing by offering malign practices. Earlier, dalits were deprived, now generals are. In 72 years a country can turn from rags to riches, and here we are talking about a group of people who are developing. So why to consider them different from others? Why to make different laws for them? Why to benefit them with different facilities? They are not at all SOCIALLY BACKWARD now because it is used for Below Poverty Liners. This thing only creates animosity for SC/STs. Benefits will always make them inferior to others. They won't be able to stand on their own feet. This is Catch 22, we can't hope for development with this dogma.
Book Title:You Are the best thing That Happened to MeAuthor: Sushil Kumar RanaFormat: Paper BackTotal Number of Pages: 208Language: EnglishPublisher: Redgrab booksPublishing Date: Second edition (31 July 2018)ISBN-10: 9387390403ISBN-13: 978-9387390409Sushil: A successful writer and an engineer from a Middle-class family.Anjali: A gorgeous and smart girl. Anyone can fall in love at the first sight of her.Aashish: Sushil's Best friend, who loves Anjali one-sided.Anuradha: A journalism Student and doing research on Writer.Sushil Pandit is a mechanical engineer. He is also an author of two bestselling novels. Now, he has everything in life, except his love, Anjali. Love is a blissful and everyone has to experience it once in a lifetime. Love makes life lively and also give a reason to live. There was a time when these two lovebirds were an example of two bodies, one soul. But a turning point in their lives sets them apart, with their soul still united and strong. Experience a roller coaster of emotions in this story. Find out how Sushil changed into a successful person from an ordinary boy.My TakeStarting from the title of the book You Are the best thing That Happened to Me gives the hint’s to readers it’s going to be a love story. The title is apt according to the plot. It’s been said that never judge a book cannot be judged by looking at its cover alone but I personally feel cover can be much better to catch attraction among readers.The story starts with an award function where our protagonist Sushil Pandit receives an award for best employee of the year 2016. Sushil Pandit is a mechanical engineer by profession and author of two bestselling novels. He has achieved everything in life except the love of his life. After the function on his way to home he happens to meets Anuradha a journalism student who doing some research on authors. Anuradha wants to know more about Sushi’s life after achieving everything in life he is incomplete. Then the story enters into the flashback memories of when he was in school. Sushil joins a coaching center with his friends to improve grades in subject. There he meets Anjali for the first time and felt attracted towards her. Later Anjali and Sushil become best friends who can understand each other well. Sushil was confused with his feelings towards Anjali is it love or attraction? Ashish and Anjali are they both equally important to him he can’t even think of losing one for other. On the other hand Ashish had a crush on Anjali. To know more what happened next to Sushil read the book.The author had beautifully weaved the struggles of every middle class family, the family bonding, surprise birthday celebration of Anjali at tuition center, hang outs with friends, decision to choose between career and love, struggles after college, job hunt and many more incidents. I love how cunning crafted the mother and sons bonding.Language of the book is lucid and written in a simple way to comprehend for any kind of reader. A book which won’t require the use of a dictionary, a book which evens an amateur reader would love to get indulged in. The pace of the story is slow and kept dragging at some time. The characters are well developed and one can easily relate them. Narration of the book is simple and engaging. A few typographical errors here and there need to be rectified. If the edit was done properly, the story would have sounded much better. If the Hindi dialogues were translated into English it was much better since everyone will not able to understand it.I recommend this book to the readers who are seeking for a quick read or a light-hearted romantic novel.Overall 3/5 StarsGrab the copy here- Amazon |FlipkartAbout the AuthorSushil Kumar Rana is a Mechanical Engineer work in an MNC company in Odisha. He belongs to a middle class family, was born and brought up in Bolangir District, Odisha. He always tried to inhabit the life in his way and his parents always support him. He is an aspiring author, contributed in an anthology is published by Purlit (Rainbow of Womanhood). A second anthology is “ Twisted Tales” published by the Authors ink publication. He is the author of “In Search Of Happiness” Anthology. He was in the habit of writing a diary which consisted of his college experiences and memories. Currently working on his second novel based on crime thriller. Apart from writing, reading and book reviewing, he is a music and movie geek. His motto in life “never give up your dreams for others, be happy and spread happiness”. Currently he resides in Sambalpur District.You can reach at him @ Twitter |Instagram |Facebook |Website
Hypocrisy is like a wolf in sheep's clothing, it runs in our blood. On one side, we reinforce a perception to brag infront of others that how benignant we are, but the authenticity lies in our mind. Recently launched "Adarsh bahu course" fits best here, founded by so called Barkatullah University. People's reaction to it is outrageously appalling. On one hand, people vocalize women empowerment and on the ther hand contrarily support such a deplorable course.The people who were possessive about women empowerment 2-3 days back, are mocking at this course, and simply making memes and tagging their female friends while, some are calling it a nice initiative.It's motive is to keep families intact. Is it only a woman's responsibility to keep a family intact? Is there no responsibility of the man or his folks? Separating a man from his aged parents is cruelty and for that crime a hindu man can divorce his spouse. But what would be the punishment for terminating her career & burying her dreams to look after the family? This sacrifice doesn't matter at all to some shameless people. They want to make their daughter-in-law a typical conservative Indian Housewife who to them is a perfect daughter-in-law, no matter how imperfect their prince charming is. And a huge round of applause to BU, for launching such a horrendous course. This shows the degree of hypocrisy in our education system and how conservative it is! On one hand, it teaches us the rights of women and on the other hand it teaches women how to treat her in-laws.I believe that education is the qcore department in any country. This department should be insightful in imagination, sagacious in making judgment & most significantly adaptive to changes. Education can turn a wild creature into a sophisticated one, so we've got to choose wisely!
True incidents how students help their teachers
I am no hard core feminist you people, but it is evident that our society is ready for many more Kathuas to encounter, so bear me for this one. I believe that the space we are living in is not a perfect and pragmatic Indian institution, rather a street that tastes damp and sticky sweet and is a disguised ideal society, if viewed from a distance. We are still residing in the streets of atrocity since for a major part of us, women are mere humans. Oh wait, do they even fall into the category of humans, who have so ecstatically accepted the standards of behaviour which are highly dependent on the gender one belongs to. Let's wake up and accept that women are not disposable glasses or puppets in the hands of demons always ready to control them. When my parents tell me not to stay out of place after it strikes 12, it is a big moment to ponder whether the modern India we get to hear in speeches is spreading like a wildfire, or is it just a manifestation of our so called developed minds disguised in the dust of prejudices. Our eyes never got weary awaiting for change, but we can expect women to cook on fire, yet reckless we are to sense the fire within them. What is the point of talking about equality or liberation in textbooks when our mind lies in orthodox principles. Our heart wants to be the frontier of change but is reluctant due to the fear of losing the tag of following the mainstream. Respect women, not because you have been imparted that knowledge, or because your mother is one. Respect women, for at the end of the day, they are humans. They face inequality which rises from your delusions. You may cut me with your words all you want. The fact remains, I am a woman.
Lyricist Songwriter Stories writer Haiku Poetry Writer
Section 497 of the Indian Penal Code was talked about adultery.
It doesn't matter if its legal or not , Homosexualiy will always be an issue to any culture.Yes,it took hundreds of years to be legal in some places, but its very uncertain that how long it will take people to understand their feelings and emotions ,and stop seeing them as a threat to any cultural values. People get scared if a homo stands in the vicinity, what if you get harrased somehow by him or her,or whould he or she destroy your social image.There are a lots of doubtful questions come into your mind but its not logical. Think you are heterosexual, do you like or love every opposite gender you see.if you do then you are mentaly retarded, if not then your taste of like or dislike depends on some criteria, which you might be aware of or might not.So A homo also find someone as per his criteria, it won't be everyone.But well there is a chance it could be you ,So if you deny then would that homo force you,can you force somebody to love you.You can't then why you can't befriend a homo?.We are actually insulting them giving a different category "Homo" but do they ever tease us calling Hetero.Why they can't do the same because we are more in numbers than them ,we are on the right path,maintaining the cycle of life,but they are an abomination breaking the cycle and a threat to the existence of human kind.Its true but think from perspective of your life,do you love a woman because you got a Nobel job to maintain life on earth or its just about your satisfaction and security. So just like us they also strive for their own and there is no wrong in it.This is how their body is made and if God is the creator and every creation is beautiful in its way then they are also beautiful and they are rare.There is no shame being a Homo or befriending a homo.They are different and less that doesnt mean we can dominate them.And if you have too much blind faith in scriptures then let me tell you what teaches us what is right and what is wrong,Its Life ,your experience on those actions you taken make you realize what's right in this world and you fight for it.They fought for their rights because its their truth which they protected from our kind.Even who gives you right to judge someone on basis of their sexual orientation. it's their personal matter.If sugar taste bitter for some people , you can't blame them being wrong .For you its sweet for them its bitter,no judgments should pass on personal experience. You can never prove it.So please treat them with equality.So many writers,poets and scientists were born a homo and they blessed us with their creativity.But they also experienced very hard time cause society can't accept them. May be there were more brigher minds but they are not part of history,they names are lost ,grounded in this grey soil.But its modern age,and things need to be changed.
The new year is all around and everyone is busy filling his or her journals and brainstorming with his or her goals and resolutions. There are infinite dimensions in which you can think about life and there are myriads of aspects in which you can define your goals and achievements. This 2019, I want to share a story that my grandmother has once read to me (a bit inclined to self-care goal). The story begins ...Once upon a time, there used to exist a village where people were not having access to the mirror. So, everyone can see other person but they don't exactly know how they themselves look?. Besides this, they were so much happy with their life that they never inquired about their appearance. There was a common assumption that we all are from the same species so we all are some versions of each other. There was a mutual understanding between self-ego and social ego.One dark night, a monk was crossing the village. Because of pitch dark night, he was not able to identify the hurdles in his path and after walking a while he felt some pricking pain in his foot. He understood that it might be some thorns, but to his bad omen, his foot started bleeding badly. Holding his foot with hands, he sat down under a tree as the pain was unbearable. After a while, he saw someone approaching him but as per the silhouette, it was a woman wearing all black robe from top to bottom. She had a first aid box in her hands. She sat down beside him and started dressing his wounds. The monk started observing her as if he wanted to know who is she? She had covered her whole body and face with black cloth except her eyes. He saw her eyes, it was magical full of positive energy and good vibes. But, the monk could see some scars in her eyes, some hidden scars. She did the dressing with full dedication and devotion, her work was full of compassion. The monk paid his gratitude for the service and blessed her with prosperity and happiness. Just out of curiosity he asked her-"Why have your covered yourself in a black robe from top to bottom?"She said - "Because I am ugly?"Monk - "How do you know? Who told you?"She - "Because I saw myself in the mirror."Monk - "But I have heard that people of this village don't have access to the mirror and that's the mystery which bridges their self-ego to the social ego. In fact, I have heard that the shadow of inferiority complex has not curbed anyone in this village."She - "Yes! that is true. We respect each other and we believe that all of us are equally beautiful. But one day when I went to another village, I couldn't resist myself from looking in the mirror. And then I discovered how ugly am I."After hearing this, the monk smiled and told her - " Please meet me tomorrow at the nearby sea bank. I have to give you some rewards for your help."The next day, she went to the sea bank, again in the same black robe. She could easily identify the monk sitting at the bank, facing towards the sea. As she walked near, the monk asked her to sit down beside him. Both of them sat for a moment in silence, just facing towards the sea and watching waves. When she couldn't suppress her inquisitiveness more, she asked him -"Why did you call me here?"Without answering her question, he asked her - "How do you define beauty?"She answered - "Something that soothes our eyes. Something that looks attractive and can grab our attention.""Okay! Could you see the waves in the sea?"She thought what rubbish is he talking, the waves are quite obvious in the sea.She answered - "Yes"Monk - "What all kinds of waves are there in the sea?"She - "Different kinds with different forms, some are small and some are big. some big waves are eating up the small waves to become bigger."Monk - "Aren't these beautiful waves soothing your eyes?"She - "Yes true! It is very calm and it looks beautiful. Even the sound of waves is soothing to my ears."Monk - "Yeah you are right. But what happens on the day of high tides?"She - "Waves become stronger and scary. Some time they flood the nearby area of our village."Monk - "Ohh! that is a bit scary and not good."She - "Not exactly bad. These waves carry good fertile soil which they leave for us."Monk -"Okays that's good! Now tell me what are these waves made up of?"She - "Water"Monk - "True. Waves are just patterns made up of water. These patterns keep on changing with time. Sometimes they are beautiful and sometimes they are scary. Change is the eternal law of nature, the law of impermanence. This law is applicable to our life too. Our body, our senses, everything keeps on changing with time. And this change in itself is their beauty. You cannot define something beautiful which keeps on changing or which is not permanent. I believe that the water is beautiful and hence its all formation or patterns including big and small waves are actually beautiful. You have to broaden your vision before classifying anything on the basis of their temporary appearance. Beauty is the quality that remains forever like the beauty of water. If you keep on looking yourself every single day then you will identify the change in your appearance and with time you will fall in love with this change. Appearance varies with time but there are certain qualities which remain with us forever and those are the qualities which define the beauty of each one of us. Observe yourself and you will find out how blessed and beautiful you are. Accept it, you are the most beautiful and unique person."The monk left and she sat there as it is. This huge revelation was hard to handle and she got completely numb.And the story ends...I believe its true! each one of us is equally beautiful and unique. And this year promise me, that you will celebrate your uniqueness and beauty.
In today’s era when we talk about equality and stability with the help of technology, system, same time many things still prevailing as it is.We don’t see much changes in society from certain angle. There are people who still want to be with old notions and beliefs. As far as it doesn’t harm anyone’s feelings is ok. But sometimes situations occurs where either or things one has to choose and at that time practical approach is needed.Indeed many things is changing and that shows positive signs in society. Many ways women’s are equal to men. They also do the same which men do. Woman shown their shining side in all fields of life. Many ways they become true achiever. When we look back in to history lady like Rani Laxmibai shown her strength for nation. Same way Kalpna Chavla, Sunita Williams also proven themselves.As a responsible person of society we have to be proud of them. But irony is remain still there. One side women is becoming more and more powerful in all sectors, at the same they face social taboo like woman have to be good looking and physical feet.In today’s time every woman is becoming fashion trended. There is nothing wrong in this, but when it becomes social pressure then it’s wrong.In our society when girl become 13 or 14 years mothers start to give tips on different topics. As far as own hygiene is concern yes every one should but that doesn’t mean to spend long time in parlour. At the age of 15/16 with the body changes if girls have hair on legs or arms, mummy or friends will not see her with respect. In some case classmates will gossip about this.Why girls have to go for facial, body Hari Removing on regular bases. Why can’t they choose to take liberty on that. Yes from the hygiene aspect it’s good but that should not be possessive. Along with this now woman/girls are becoming conscious about their look also. There is a taboo that woman should look good and sexy. Practically speaking what the need to look sexy. It’s a wrong notion that make up makes woman more glamorous. In accent time without these all products woman were having lust and beauty. Mostly importantly woman themselves don’t want to talk about this. They feel embarrassed if hair growth is there or face is not looking good.Recently during discussion one of the friend said to her friend that how can you openly talk about physicality and physical intimacy. Don’t you think it’s wrong ?What’s wrong in this. Why can’t anyone talk openly about this ? Land who gave knowledge about “Kamasutra”, on that land now people are hesitant to talk about this. Yes but this the same land where day by day rap cases are increasing.In school we need to have sex education not just to have it but with serious concerns.I think still there is time to come out from this all and work upon our social taboo. Who can able to do this they can change life.As a woman we need to come out from this taboo and work towards our betterment.#Hitakshi
Q: Please give details about your initial education and forming years of lifeA: I have done my schooling and Graduation (B. Com) from my hometown, i.e. Gwalior (M.P) . And later did my Post Grad (MBA) from Lakshmangarh Jaipur (Raj.)Q:How did you get interested in literature? What inspired you to write?A: From the childhood days i used to enjoy reading & writing poetry. Words and the emotions they generate and expressing myself by ideas and words have been my passion throughout. Writing has been a soul calling for me, words have been a source of healing to my emotions and zest to find myself through words. Q: What difficulties did you have to face with respect to literary work?A: Although my family has been always supporting me in my writing passion, but still the society limits us by such creative fields to be as a career option, specially being a woman. A qualified woman in most houses are the ones who have attained degrees to get married to high earning spouse to do the dishes at end of the day, freedom of expression has always been a highly neglected zone for women. though not that case with me but still being at the shore, that ripple effect tickles your feet in some or the other way.Q: What is your view about the present-day literary work?A: Literature needs to be honored in its true sense, education system in schools and colleges and the awareness for literature subject has to be rolled out. Without creativity and those floating ideas, being a human race is undefined. Roots of literature are needed to be strengthened.Q: Do you think that the emergence of digital and social media has given a new opportunity to creative writers?A: Yes, it has served a lot and a new hope has arisen to let the light shine. Young writers are gaining there worth through this a lot, were they can showcase their talent and be recognized. Q: Please tell us something about your literary work.A: Talking about my literary work, I have been always fascinated by poetry (English, Hindi, Urdu), i really wish to rekindle the magic of poetry to world again. I have published my Hindi/Urdu poetry compilation in my two books.Q: What was your first literary work and how was it published?A: My first literary work was my online book issue (DILSOZ ALFAAZ), that was a compilation of some of my poetry work. This is what the significance of social media that has enabled me to publish my work online, with no cost involved, where in I got a good response and later decided to compile another book (lamhon ki oot se) in print media.Q: How many ways literature can contribute to society in future?A: Literature can totally define the roots of us, it holds a great contribution percentage, era has to be brought back so that art n culture, traditions can be put into flow . Literary world must be enriched with creative young passion, literature is a science and art of healing in my perspective. With our wall bounded, numbers-oriented job world, we are turning into barren souls, literature can bring the showers of peace and harmony to create a world and life worth living.Q: There do you see yourself after 5 years in the literary world?A: After 5 years I see myself as a writer figure, nurturing my soul calling and purpose, sharing with society my ideas and work that can heal and inspire others. Q: What ways would you suggest building a community for poets?A: System has to be modified from ground level, schools & colleges need to be taking participation in same so that our youth can revive the vibe of creativity and build our literature stronger, society needs young writers as the successors of our literary world. It has to be a prominent career opportunity for people who wish to pursue it, due to lack of awareness and opportunities in literary world, youth is getting brain drained towards numb career zones ending up in stress and losing one self.Q: What message would you like to give to aspiring new writers? A: I would like to share this view to aspiring new writers, that let your words say it all, no matter what follow your heart, collective efforts of all of us will make us and this literary society of ours shine and we will establish a strong foundation, they are the crucial pillars of it.Q: How was your experience of writing on StoryMirror? A: Writing on story mirror was really an amazing experience, getting my work selected at it was really a pleasure. Q: Would you like to say something about Storymirror? A: Story Mirror is a wonderful platform, I really feel blessed to come across it, they people really make our worth being notified to world out there, Great to be writing on it and felicitated by it for letting my words find their true light. Read my content on https://storymirror.com/profile/wmz2b5q5/richa-dixit/poems
Synopsis:.story is about a scrap owner who get in luggage compartment and come across a child mother who struggle to have sit ..clutching handlebar for her safety ...into that a hour journey he go through his own love story when he get along a couple in train ...and scenes rolling over one by one in his memories Kabari 💘Platform was crowded.a woman brought with her a smallbaby cradled her into her womb cave.defending bad eye from public. She covered her child under her saree layer.She pushed her into luggagebox,hanging by shoulder a purse . hair sprawled over forehead partly. She wore saree and put on lipstick to her lips, applied on to baby a eyeliner.liptick smeared lips upper and lower part.Clutching and combing under her cave of breast and baby sucking milk while mother looking support to have sit comfortable.Train moved away fast and rapidly through platform one by one station received.Platform dashing and knocking movement made her uncomfortable before public eye.balanced herself over the toe and one hand clutching handlebar other made support to baby.it was difficult situation to handle baby with one hand , and clutching other to support to save from train movement.she was wobbled and tossed into crowd In Luggage-box...window side space was stuck with poster and ads filled with.It was scraped with finger notched and nailed or scribbling by blade a bunch of message in different language as momentum for mumtaj or mausoleumstuffed boxes filled compartment made it more cumbersome and nuisance..coolly pushed boxes into compartment as train stopped.it made traveller in compartment irritable...in compartment two type person travelling one is. With luggage and without luggage bearing things over head also in train it's called “FATIWALA:....Two party always fought like beast and indian neta ;but nothing was special happened in that cases.and last they gave in.and no more made fuss about ...only pelting of abusive words over each other nobody beaten each other.that was one of the quality of becoming mumbai-indian based people..they bolting abusive words but never knocked down person ,never made enemy last longMeanwhile , a couple got in luggage they seemed south-indian.they had both difference in age groupA girlfriend looked double in age than boyfriend.the gap between them was it could be 10 yrs difference into them.suddenly one scrap -shipowner also got into train luggage between the station.he looked at them with curious eye.he also looking handsome had grey haired made him more foreigner looks.he brought with him old -fashioned coloured tv, well stuffed into carton box wrapped.he was making space near door side adjust his baggage beside corner side. it was heavy material old fashioned coloured tv...he was by professional kabbadi_ owner .so in his nature bargaining is in his blood related business...in his eagle eyed eyesight made him bargain on anything ...even in love matter he never spare it!...if something profitable ..he would never spared it anyhow. he will capture and gulp in money bargain..in second.He adjusted his old tv near corner side but it has been occupied all space of passage so that passenger could not make move or fuss about it..he always used to bring in sugar on his mouth tongue and ice over head , he never get angry on anybody he will take side of cool and make people like that...he always peace-follower in his blood cell.All things shortly and slowly ebbing away and moving like film scenes shots upturned one by one suddenly.When he made himself comfortable he made criticize on a couple.he started narrate his love story about 10 years old when he always used to visit his friend shop near his shop. It was electronics showroom and he always visit his shop ..that shop owner was his school friend so that mostly he would spend his time with him on his cabin.he would talk like partner in company it was mistook by employees that he was actually partner in shop.but one lady employee took it seriously that he was really partner ...he had something belong to it.he daily visited him..in his office a woman employee looking smart and handsome and smart looking beautiful she caught him in her love ...she also love him they both got tough friendship .both got each other phone and discussing on mobile till night...they both spend time on night dinner.used to have lunch in five star restaurant and visited love beach and mostly spend time on talking on the mobile..she once proposed him to marry him ..but he rejected said that he was already married person.but didn't mind his marriage life ..even if he would have father of four child she could adjust with his life even that.She had mistook him .she made fake love with him but he did know it .he said his real story that he was not partner in that shop ..he just to come. To visit his friend to spend time with his friend .I have own kabadi shop near road corner nook.when she heard his real story she got shock and she deleted him from her life always.But he could not forget her and delete her from his life..woman could easily forget past..but man have no courage to forget his last spending time with woman ..he just want to store it always with him.chatting and chatter that frst time spent on beach and had been dinner in one plate ..celebrated each other's birthday ..how could i forget that...could anybody even my wife give me back that moment..nobody shared it nobody ….He could not erased his memory he also saved her mobile number..never mitigated easily i really By my heart felt in love her but she had love for money and could easily caught in her nest and then drawn up easily money from themWhen one day he called her but she could not receive his call..she put it on rejected option him ...but he continuously called her until she could not respond him in msg box….But the she sent on whatsapp message written in message as” who are you...i replied i am gentleman your …Who is that mentalman….she forwarded message in reply and said….and she went offline always from my life option.
**Marital Rape**it refers to unwanted intercourse by a man with his wife obtained by force, threat of force, or physical violence, or when she is unable to give consent. It is a non-consensual act of violent perversion by a husband against the wife where she is physically and sexually abused. Approximations have quoted that every 6 hours; a young married woman is burnt or beaten to death, or driven to suicide from emotional abuse by her husband. The UN Population Fund states that more than 2/3rds of married women in India, aged between 15 to 49 have been beaten, raped or forced to provide sex. In 2005, 6787 cases were recorded of women murdered by their husbands or their husbands’ families. 56% of Indian women believed occasional wife-beating to be justified.While marital rape gets documented in hospitals, cases are rarely registered, since it is excluded from the India Penal Code’s (IPC) definition of rape, says an analysis by Dilaasa, a counselling centre based out of K.B. Bhabha Hospital in Bandra. “Very rarely do patients tell us about marital rape. In a few cases, we see injuries and probe them. They are not aware this is wrong There is a pattern to the silence: women stay quiet about the assault when young, but are willing to report it at a later stage.’In the present day, studies indicate that between 10 and 14% of married women are raped by their husbands. Sexual assault by one’s spouse accounts for approximately 25% of rapes committed. Of the 664 cases, 159 cases were marital rape in 2015 at NGO Sneha’s crisis counselling centre in Dharavi. At Sneha’s counselling centres at KEM and Sion hospitals, of 218 cases of domestic violence received in 2015, 64 women said they had faced marital rape. Dilaasa analysed 13 cases of sexual violence from the emergency rooms of two of Mumbai’s public hospitals, Rajawadi in Ghatkopar, and Bhabha between 2011 and 2014 and found that only in five instances did the police register a case, mostly under Section 498 (A) (domestic violence), or the contentious Section 377 (unnatural offences). Dilaasa’s domestic violence data shows 60% married women report sexual violence, forced sex being its most common form. Dilaasa notes, “In almost all the cases, the police delay the collection of medical evidence from these hospitals and also do not wish to record an FIR. Union Minister Maneka Gandhi said that even if there was a law against marital rape, women won’t report it. According to the latest National Health and Family Survey (NFHS-4) for 2015-16, 5.4% women have experienced marital rape, under this category. But while the data on marital rape in India exists, marital rape as a crime, “does not exist”. And yet 5.4% of married Indian women say they have experienced marital rape. The figure recorded by NFHS-3 for 2005-6 was 9.5%. Sexual violence of course gets progressively worse if the husband is an alcoholic – 66% of married women experienced physical or sexual violence when “husband gets drunk often”. But only 10% of married victims of sexual violence seek help.The situation is worst in Manipur, 55% of married Manipuri women have been victims to these kinds of violence. Sikkim has the lowest number of victims at 3.5%. The National Health and Family Survey records both sexual and non sexual violence. The survey has looked at married women in the age group of 15-49. The highest form of non-sexual violence comes from men slapping women – 25% of women surveyed said they have been slapped. In all, 12% of married women said they have been pushed, shaken and have had things thrown at them. 10% said the husbands have pulled their arms or hair. Another 7.5% said they have been punched with fists or objects and 7% said they have been kicked, dragged and beaten up. More so, 1.5% said they have been choked or burnt and 0.8% said they have been threatened or attacked with guns, knives and other weapons.👉Marital rape may be broadly classified into following two categories:1.Sexual coercion by non-physical means– this form of coercion involves social coercion in which the wife is compelled to enter into sexual intercourse by reminding her of her duties as a wife. This form of coercion entails applying non-physical techniques and tactics like verbal pressure like include making false promises, threatening to end the marital relationship, lies, not conforming to the victim’s protests to stop, etc.2. Forced sex– this involves the use of physical force to enter into sexual intercourse with an unwilling woman. It can be further classified into the following three categories:i. Battering Rape- this form of marital rape involves the use of aggression and force against the wife. The women are either battered during the sexual act itself or face a violent aggression after the coerced sexual intercourse. The beating may also occur before the sexual assault so as to compel her into sexual intercourse.ii. Force Only Rape- in this form of rape, the husband does not necessarily batter the wife, but uses as much force as is necessary to enter into sexual intercourse with the unwilling wife.iii. Obsessive Rape- this form of rape involves the use of force in sexual assault compiled with perverse acts against the wife. It involves a kind of sexual sadistic pleasure enjoyed by the husband.👉*Marital rape is illegal in 18 American States, 3 Australian States, New Zealand, Canada, Israel, France, Sweden, Denmark, Norway, Soviet Union, Poland and Czechoslovakia. In India, a marriage is a bond of trust and that of affection. A husband exercising sexual superiority, by getting it on demand and through any means possible, is not part of the institution. Legislators use results of research studies as an excuse against making marital rape an offence, which indicates that many survivors of marital rape, report flash back, sexual dysfunction, emotional pain, even years out of the violence and worse, they sometimes continue living with the abuser. For these reasons, even the latest report of the Law Commission has preferred to adhere to its earlier opinion of non-recognition of “rape within the bonds of marriage” as such a provision may amount top excessive interference wit the marital relationship. Rape in any form is an act of utter humiliation, degradation and violation rather than an outdated concept of penile/vaginal penetration. Restricting an understanding of rape reaffirms the view that rapists treat rape as sex and not violence and hence, condone such behavior in India. The importance of consent for every individual decision cannot be over emphasized. A woman can protect her right to life and liberty, but not her body, within her marriage, which is just ironical. Women so far have had recourse only to section 498-A of the IPC, dealing with cruelty, to protect themselves against “perverse sexual conduct by the husband”. But, where is the standard of measure or interpretation for the courts, of ‘perversion’ or ‘unnatural’, the definitions within intimate spousal relations? Is excessive demand for sex perverse? Isn’t consent a sine qua non? Is marriage a license to rape? There is no answer, because the judiciary and the legislature have been silent.👉*India’s parliamentarians just could not find it in them to treat married and unmarried women equally, on matters of rape. “Married women only have the option of using section 498A of the Indian Penal Code, which lays down provisions on cruelty, if they need to allege sexual violence against their husbands,” says Kavita Krishnan, secretary of the All India Progressive Women’s Association.And although Section 377 is known as the law which prohibits “gay sex,” it in fact prohibits “unnatural sex,” an act which can take place between straight people as well. “Sometimes women have used Section 377 if they want to press charges of rape against their husbands,” says Krishnan.Section 375, the provision of rape in the Indian Penal Code (IPC), has echoing very archaic sentiments, mentioned as its exception clause- “Sexual intercourse by man with his own wife, the wife not being under 15 years of age, is not rape.” Criminal charges of sexual assault may be triggered by other acts, which may include genital contact with the mouth or anus or the insertion of objects into the vagina or the anus, all without the consent of the victim. It is a conscious process of intimidation and assertion of the superiority of men over women.👉*There are many reasons such as husband believe in the superiority of men over women; some domestic issues, demand of women for her right in a marital relationship etc. Therefore, the main reason of this marital menace is a wide spread of gender inequality prevailing in our society. The male-dominated system of social norms where woman whether married or unmarried does not have the equal rights in any which way. It is the biggest weapon in hands of man to exploit the women. The role of traditionally assigned to married women in the society. Indian married women are considered as pativratastri means pure, faithful and obliging women. Thus married women have to follow her husband and fulfil all his requirements. The sexual relationship has been considered as an important part of the marriage, it is a woman’s duty towards her husband and she is not supposed to deny that to him. Her rile must be of submission and surrender. Economic dependence on her husband and in-laws is the reason that married women are unable to protect her from frequent practice of marital rape and she is forced to bear it. There must be strict laws for marital rape and the government should make some rules to reduce this problem.Rajabala
Honour crimes or honour killings are acts of violence, usually murder, mostly committed by male family members predominantly against female [relatives], who are perceived to have brought dishonour upon the family. A woman can be targeted by individuals within her family for a variety of reasons, including: refusing to enter into an arranged marriage, marrying against the parent’s wishes, choosing lovers or spouses outside of their family's caste and religious community, having extramarital relationships, marrying within the same gotra, being the victim of a sexual assault, seeking a divorce — even from an abusive husband, Some women who adopt the customs (or religion) of an outside group, may also be more likely to be victims. Several cases have been suspected but not confirmed which includes choosing partners of same sex.The acts of violence include public lynching of couples, murder of either the man or the woman concerned, murder made to appear as suicide, public beatings, humiliation, blackening of the face, forcing couples or their families to eat excreta or drink urine, forced incarceration, social boycotts and the levying of fines.Central to the theme of honour and violence is the subordinate position of girls and women in all castes and communities. A woman's chastity is the "honour" of the community and she has no sovereign right over her body at any point of her life. The retribution is particularly swift and brutal if she crosses caste and class barriers to choose a lower-caste man as her partner. The most obvious reason for this practice to continue in India is its rigid caste system and the patriarchal mind set. People from the rural areas refuse to change their attitude to marriage. According to them, if any daughter dares to disobey her parents on the issue of marriage and decides to marry a man of her wishes but from another gotra or outside her caste, it would bring disrepute to the family honour and hence they decide to give the ultimate sentence, that is death, to the daughter, sometimes the son-in-law is also killed as well. Sociologists believe that the reason why honour killings continue to take place is because of the continued rigidity of the caste system. Hence the fear of losing their caste status through which they gain many benefits makes them commit this heinous crime. The other reason why honour killings are taking place is because the mentality of people has not changed and they just cannot accept that marriages can take place in the same gotra or outside one’s caste. Another reason for the increased visibility of such crimes is the trend of more and more girls joining educational institutions, meeting others from different backgrounds and castes and establishing relationships beyond the confines of caste and community. Such individuals, both boys and girls, are being targeted so that none dares to breach the barriers of castes and communities. Significantly, in the majority of cases it is the economically and socially dominant castes that organize, instigate and abet such acts of retribution. Caste panchayats have come to play an increasingly important role in Haryana and elsewhere, especially in situations where political patronage also existsThis tradition was first viewed in its most horrible form during the Partition of the country in between the years 1947 and 1950 when many women were forcefully killed so that family honour could be preserved from the forced marriages during the partition. Women who were forced to marry a person from another country and another religion and when they returned ‘home’ they were killed so that the family honour could be preserved. So, the partition years can be seen to be the beginning of the tradition of honour killing on a large scale.In India, the largest number of cases was reported in Punjab, Haryana and Uttar Pradesh. In Muzaffarnagar district in western Uttar Pradesh, at least 13 honour killings occurred within nine months in 2003. In 2002, while 10 such killings were reported, 35 couples were declared missing. It was estimated that Haryana and Punjab alone account for 10 per cent of all honour killings in the country. According to the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) data related to honour killings, 28 honour killing cases were reported in 2014, 192 in 2015 and 68 in the year 2016. Sixty-five cases of culpable homicide for the motive of honour killing have also been reported between 2015 and 2016. In fact, there is refusal even to recognise this phenomenon. Data for such incidents are seldom available and they would mostly be classified under the category of general crimes. Moreover, most of such cases go unreported and, even when reported, often first information reports are not filed and post-mortems are not conducted.This practice is not limited the rural areas, but it has also been seen recently that even the metropolitan cities like Delhi and Tamil Nadu are not safe from this crime because 5 honour killings were reported from Delhi and in Tamil Nadu; a daughter and son in law were killed due to marriage into the same gotra. So it can be seen clearly that honour killing has a very wide geographical spread.For the eradication of such a inhuman practice, a change in the mentality of the people and a strong law against such a inhuman act, both are essential. Parents should accept their children’s wishes regarding marriage as it is they who have to lead a life with their life partners and if they are not satisfied with their life partner then they will lead a horrible married life which might even end in suicide. Secondly, we need to have stricter laws to tackle these kinds of killings as this is a crime which cannot be pardoned because humans do not have the right to write down death sentences of innocent fellow humans. So far, there is no specific law to deal with honour killings. The murders come under the general categories of homicide or manslaughter. Sometimes the honour killings are also done by a mob and so when a mob has carried out such attacks, it becomes difficult to pinpoint a culprit. The collection of evidence becomes tricky and eyewitnesses are never forthcoming. But ‘Honour Killings’ are against International Law on Human Rights and against United Nation agendas. But still even though we don’t have any law to deal with it specifically in India but we have judicial precedence over it. There are also some bills which are in the latent stage against the honour killings, are planned to be introduced in the parliament sooner.Source: InternetRajabala
Chhaupadi (Nepali: छाउपडी )It is a social tradition associated with the menstrual taboo in the western part of Nepal. The tradition prohibits Hindu women from participating in normal family activities while menstruating, as they are considered "impure". The women are kept out of the house and have to live in a cattle shed or in a hut. This period of time lasts between ten and eleven days when an adolescent girl has her first period; thereafter, the duration is between four and seven days each month. As per the social custom, women who are unmarried have to stay six days in the hut, married women having both a son and a daughter have to stay five days, and women who have only daughters will have to live for seven days in the hut. During this time, women are forbidden to touch men or even to enter the courtyard of their own homes. They are barred from consuming milk, yogurt, butter, meat, and other nutritious foods, for fear they will forever pollute those goods. The women must survive on a diet of dry foods, salt, and rice. They cannot use warm blankets and are allowed only a small rug; most commonly, this is made of jute (also known as burlap). They are also restricted from going to school or performing daily functions like taking a bath. They are not even allowed to bathe from the tap, in wells or rivers during that period of time. In some villages, there are separate taps and wells for the women. They are completely barred from going near the temple; if a road is even linked to a temple, a menstruating woman has to choose a different path.This system comes from the superstition of impurity during the menstruation period. In this superstitious logic, if a menstruating woman touches a tree, it will never again bear fruit; if she consumes milk, the cow will not give any more milk; if she reads a book, Saraswati, the goddess of education, will become angry; if she touches a man, he will be sick. There is a strong belief among locals that if women are allowed to stay inside the home during their menstrual period it would bring misfortunes for members of family and the family members will fall sick. Male members of the family believe the custom must be followed to avoid any bad luck. Senior members of families and village elders are firm in this tradition, while the young, educated generation cannot gather the courage to challenge this custom.Reports indicate that more than 90 percent of women in Nepal’s far-western and mid-western districts follow the Chhaupadi tradition, whether due to social pressure or according to their own wishes. As they are compelled to sleep in poorly constructed and dirty huts, these women face health problems and other risks. Woman who live in the huts are always at risk of diarrhea, pneumonia, and respiratory diseases. While living in the isolated huts, they also face the danger of attack by wild animals, snake bite or even abuse and rape by their fellow villagers. Women have died while performing the practice, including two young women in late 2016 who died from smoke inhalation and "carbon monoxide poisoning" from lighting fires to heat the shelters during cold weather.Following pressure from rights activists, last year Nepal’s parliament enacted a law labeling Chhaupadi a criminal act. As per the new law, people who force their family members to live in sheds are subject to legal actions. Nepal’s Supreme Court had directed the government to make laws criminalizing Chhaupadi all the way back in 2005; it took more than a decade to formulate the laws. Now that the laws are in place, the challenge is in effective implementation. It is not easy to implement laws to prevent long- standing customs like Chhaupadi. In comparison to the past, there have been some changes in urban areas but such practices are still rampant in rural areas. In this region, it is very difficult to change the mindset of even educated people. Local politicians and political parties can play a vital role in creating awareness at the local level about the harms of this custom. However, politicians are often reluctant to highlight this issue because they fear of losing the support of common people. Parliamentarians rarely raise such issues in the national parliament; instead they want to conceal such social issues. Some non-governmental organizations at the local level and some government agencies are creating awareness, asking people to shun Chhaupadi, but due to the lack of support and backing from politicians, their campaigns have not been effective.Source: Kamal Dev Bhattarai (Kathmandu-based writer and journalist)Rajabala
Indian society is giving women the liberty to be sexually active. After hearing of multipartners and wife swapping, the new flavour of the season is of Indian wives dating other men.The syndrome which has become really hip and popular today is ‘my wife’s boyfriend.’ Women today have come out of the four walls of the house and have started experimenting with their sex lives. For many years, the issue of extramarital affairs was thought to be a “woman’s issue” – that is, women dealing with their husbands’ affairs.Today, while large numbers of husbands are still having affairs, there has been a significant increase in the number of Indian wives having affairs.A recent survey done on contemporary marriages by the Tata Institute of Social Science (TISS), Mumbai, has brought to light the fact that there is a rise in extramarital affairs, and couples know and accept their partner’s paramours.But the most surprising finding is that more and more married women are looking for love or rather fun outside marriage. With the work place and the Internet, overscheduled lives and inattentive husbands – it’s no wonder more Indian women are looking for comfort in the arms of another man.Women interact with men more at work. They go for more meetings, take more business trips and presumably participate more in flirtatious water-cooler chatter.These light or intensive flirtations whatever the women opts for give them a self-esteem boost during work hours and don’t rock the boat at home.Gone are the days when cuckolding was a social taboo. Today globalization has spawned an almost experimental outlook towards sex.In an age where porn has hit the streets openly, women today do not hesitate to break the ‘humdrum’ of their lives by experimenting with their sex lives and this experimentation is no longer a man’s prerogative. Today wives are acting on the urge more than ever.With husbands pursuing demanding careers and having no time for the home, or for that matter sex, it has led to wives looking for adventure outside marriage.Husbands are also aware of it, because they know that they cannot give them the time. The neglect of their personal life by husbands has led to women becoming desperate for attention and they don’t mind flaunting their boyfriends.Often we want to hold on to relationships because we do not want to get out of our comfort zone. Even if the marriage is not healthy, we tend to hold on to it for various reasons.Whether through an open relationship or just a fantasy, looking elsewhere is not the root cause of trouble in relationships. Instead it’s the fact that we crave adventure in our humdrum lives and most marriages fail to provide that.Many women say that an affair outside marriage has changed their lives for better because they feel desirable in the arms of somebody else.In addition, when women break out from a truly committed relationship and run free, the question is not what they are running towards, but rather what is it they are running from.In this situation looking for love elsewhere tends to be a life pattern triggered by fears (of commitment, of being loved, of waking up with the same person every morning).Over the years, though the institution of marriage is still alive, there is a sea of change in the relationship between husband and wife. People these days look more for financial security than emotional.“The love and care is definitely there, but passion definitely dies away with years. From having sex once a week, they have sex one a month or may not even for months together. It is high time we accept the fact that everybody needs variety in their sex life,” says Devyani Rao, a stylist with a leading lifestyle magazine.In Indian society, people generally have marriages of convenience. According to Mumbai based psychologist, Dr. Varkha Chulani, “This condition of wives having affairs generally arises in 80 percent of marriages today because there is very little communication with each other. For most women, an inattentive husband is the biggest problem, and husbands too have accepted this situation because they refuse to go through the tedious process of divorce.”While the woman is on the lookout for love outside marriage, she is definitely in no mood to leave her husband. She just wants to have her share of fun.For women who have been married for many years and for whom the whole life is about taking care of their kids and their house life definitely becomes very monotonous for them. It becomes natural for them to look for love outside marriage, just to spice up their life.There are several reasons that men accept this arrangement. Firstly, they don’t want to go through the legal hassle of divorce.Second, after spending so many years of togetherness they get used to each other and just knowingly shut their eyes. Third, it gives the man a green signal to have fun with other women.
Depression is a mental illness which is suffered by all the age group people but mostly teenagers. In other words, depression is also known as sever sadness or sorrow a person suffers or sever unhappiness a person feels. Teenagers often lead to depression if they face rejections in life or are disappointed by some things in their life. Depression may lead to many other things. People think that they can never come out of depression but that’s not true. You can always overcome depression. If you are depressed it’s not your fault, if you are depressed it’s because you come across in a phase where you feel terribly sad or terribly disturbed because of something you lead to depression.Depression often leads people on a wrong path which they never wished off. At times its too late when nothing can be done and a wrong step is taken but it is never too late to try changing things and to begin something new. Teenagers are often depressed because of the mental pressure they have because of studies and the career they have to choose. At times being with wrong people and leading towards wrong doings lead teenager towards depression. Parental pressure also leads to sever depression. How you would question? I have an answer to it. Parents often force their children to choose a career as per their wish and will but not what the child wants. Also putting too much of pressure on the child for scoring well and for achieving good grades lead to teenagers facing mental depression if they do not come up to the expectation of their parents, they think they have disappointed them and could not to do what they parents wished. If you are a teenager and you have a unhealthy relationship with your partner and your relationship is and on and off thing it might lead one of the partners towards depression. If you are very attached to your partner and if your partner leaves you, you end up staying alone, reserving yourself, not eating, being sad and being in pain and sorrow and in the end, it leads to depression. And then depression leads to many other things like suicide, isolating yourself and many other things.Depression is more commonly found in woman then man. You lack of joyfulness and happiness and you have lost interest in things you really liked at a point of time. The causes of depression is never been fully understood because it is sometimes genetic, sometimes biological, sometimes psychological or environmental. As I mentioned it earlier depression is mostly found in teenagers or people who are in between of their teenage or adult hood. They get irritated very easily and are angry out of a sudden. At times it’s to difficult to handle because you never know what would happen next. It never too easy. As a parent it is very difficult to handle this kind of behaviour without knowing the reason why is it happening and what is the cause behind it. At that age teenagers often end up not talking to their parents as here is generation difference and thinking difference. But I really think as a eighteen year old that is really not a solution. You would end up doing some thing wrong if you do not share the problem with anyone. If you really start being depressed it would be really hard for you to over come it alone. No ne over comes depression alone because it is very hard. I have been at a phase where was depressed for six months after I lost my best friend because of cancer and it is true that you can never get over it alone. I went for counselling for almost six months to get over depression and it really helped and now I am here. Being in depression is never good because your mind would flow with negative thoughts and negatives things which you might do. You would not speak anything positive because all you would think is negative things and thoughts. Even if you try to think good you would not be able to because your mind would be blocked with negativity. As I have been there at a point of time it just becomes easier if you talk about it to someone close or to someone elder it might just help you and might make you feel a lot better. It is never too late for something but yes that is one of the solutions I personally suggest a teenager who is depressed or who is mentally disturbed. There are many ways to express yourself if you feel uncomfortable to talk to someone face to face write them up a letter about how you are and how you feel. That might help you and you would be comfortable to share your pain with another person and it might just do better to you. If you are a teenager and you are depressed and you are if you are reading this blog, share your problem or pain along with either of your parents who you are close to. If that does not work if you have a counselor in your school or college try talking to them once they might just you something better. If you require more help you can always approach doctors for further help. Depression is not something you should be scared of. Some times every second person is facing depression or has faced depression once in their life. It is never too easy to fight back with it. You do get weak at a certain point of time or you might just want to give up the fight but some day you would just win over it. It is just a fight you cannot do alone and you need someone who you trust enough to understands your problem and is ready to listen to you and help you to recover. It’s nothing bad in the end its just a phase everyone faces and you will be fine once you are over the phase.~By Saloni Maliwal
End Rape Culture.Rape culture should end in India. Rape culture is an environment in which rape is prevalent and in which sexual violence against women is normalized and excused in the media and popular culture. Rape culture affects every woman. Rape culture affects every woman because it involves sexual violence, body objectification and use horrible language towards them.Every women and girl in India stay in the fear of rape. If a girl is raped, she is blamed for it. If a girl accuses a boy for raping her it is said to be that the girl provoked the boy to rape her. If there is nothing left to be blamed or accused then the topic shifts to the clothes the girl was wearing. She was wearing a burkha then she asked you to rape her, if she wore a skirt then she asked you to rape her, if she wears decent clothes without revealing anything that means she asked you to rape her. Then when the girl is raped, she is said not to say anything about it or if she does, she would be hung to death.I mean why is our society like this literally why? Its very hard to understand the society at times because its horrible how they treat rape victims and how they just blame them for everything that happen with her. I mean at the time she needs the support of her family, of people around her but they turn in to the society I mean the evil people of the society. It’s never too late to stop the rape culture. The girls cannot live their life freely because they have to limit their behaviour in the society so that they do not provoke any men to rape them.This is way too much for them. There is no problem in the girls or their behaviour but there is too much of problem in the people of the society’s thinking. Being girl would also make me a mother in future when that time comes. I never want my child or my kid whatever you call it to grow in such society where the girls are the victims and instead of making them feel better, they are blamed for everything. If I have a girl child, I would never let her grow in such a surrounding and if a I have a boy, I hope it does not be like the people in the society. I hope time changes and the thinking of the people as well as the society changes.~By. Saloni Maliwal
The wedding day is one of the most important days in a man and woman's life. They leave no stone unturned to make it as they have dreamt it to be. Not just the bride and groom, a wedding is a whole lot bigger event where two families and friends come together.A Wedding Ring has its own significance and marks the symbol of eternal love. A sign of care, love, and responsibility towards your partner. And when it comes to rings, everyone has its own choice which also reflects their vibes and personalities.Read more at Wedding Rings Ideas for the Couple-To-Be
Many women are so busy taking care of their loved ones' health and well-being that they either do not get the time to or they forget to pay attention to their health and happiness.However, in reality, you could take good care of your loved ones only when you are healthy and fit yourself and have the energy to provide care. Once you make health your top priority, you simply need to follow a few expert fitness tips to boost your chances of good health all through your lifetime. You simply need to make slight modifications to your lifestyle. The perfect diet, stress-relief plan, and exercise play a dominant role.Read more at Fitness and Health Tips that Every Woman must Follow
Focus On What You Want - In Gita Verse 1.2 Sañjaya said: O King, after looking over the army arranged in military formation by the sons of Pāṇḍu, King Duryodhana walked up to his teacher and his commander of army Dronacharya.Actions Speak Louder Than Words: before Duryodhana spoke he revealed his focus through his action. He walked to his teacher and his commander of army Dronacharya without his team. It clearly shows from his action that he did not wanted to restructure his strategy after looking over the army arranged in military formation by the sons of Pāṇḍu, to win the war. He just wanted to defeat them. Lot of difference is there when we want to win the war and defeat someone.Universe doesn’t understand the language of others or mine. It only understands where your focus is. As Duryodhana’s focus was on defeating the Pandavas his strategy and action was how to defeat and in that process he lost the war.From our childhood we have always been told by our parents, elders and teachers “Always wish good for others.” Why? One of the reason is when we wish good for others good comes to us. They also told us whenever we want to give something to others give them the best. At that time due to our immaturity we couldn’t understand this. This is the reason whenever something goes wrong we need to check what was our thinking when we are giving to someone.Let me share with you one incidence of Manohar Parrikar’s life - Watermelon Festival:In September 2016, the humble resident of Parra, Goa, addressed an audience at the 14th FGI Awards for Excellence held at Vadodara. It was there that he gave one of his most memorable speeches. It was a speech where he recounts his childhood, growing up in the village of Parra and taking part in the famous ‘Watermelon Festival’. It seemed like a trivial story, one that was meant to evoke a sense of humanity – but it was so much more. Here’s what he said:“I am from the village of Parra in Goa, hence we are called Parrikars. My village is famous for its watermelons. When I was a child, the farmers would organize a watermelon-eating contest at the end of the harvest season in the month of May. All the kids would be invited to eat as many watermelons as they wanted. Years later, I went to IIT Mumbai to study engineering. I went back to my village after six and a half years. I went to the market looking for watermelons. They were all gone. The ones that were there were so small. I went to see the farmer who hosted the watermelon-eating contest. His son had taken over. He would host the contest but there was a difference.When the older farmer gave us watermelons to eat he would ask us to spit out the seeds into a bowl. We were told not to bite into the seeds. He was collecting the seeds for his next crop. We were unpaid child laborers, actually. He kept his best watermelons for the contest and he got the best seeds which would yield even bigger watermelons the next year. He would also distribute the seeds to the farmers in his neighbourhood. The farmers sowed these seeds to grow watermelons. When the wind blew it carried the pollen from the flowers to his watermelon crop which received better pollen for fertilisation and produced desired watermelons.His son, when he took over, realized that the larger watermelons would fetch more money in the market so he sold the larger ones and kept the smaller ones for the contest. The next year, the watermelons were smaller, the year later even smaller.In watermelons, the generation is one year. In seven years, Parra’s best watermelons were finished. In humans, generations change after 25 years. It will take us 200 years to figure out where we had gone wrong while raising and educating our children. Unless we employ our best to train the next generation, this is what can happen to us.”Unless we become aware of where is our focus and correcting ourselves to shift our focus from receiving to giving, we cannot get best from our act - shifting from Duty To Responsibility.We always act out of our duty and not from responsibility. This is the reason we are not able to create environment of love or godliness which is residing in us. For example all over the world the main duty of the woman is to take care of food for every family member. When we sit at the dining table we expect the woman to serve the food. This same act can be viewed from a different perspective, it’s her duty but can I participate in her duty. With this thought you may help her to arrange the dining table to serve the food. The whole environment changes, from duty to participation. This is everyone’s responsibility to create loving environment. No one can stop you except yourself. Through this small shift in our thinking the universe will create miracles for you.
Book in shelf: murakami..writerGreat writer￼￼“My short stories are like soft shadows I have set out in the world, faint footprints I have left,” Murakami writes in Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman,Life is not like water. Things in life don’t necessarily flow over the possible short route” More or less all of us want answers to the reasons why we’re living on this earth,” Murakami writes in Underground (2010“And Murakami, of course, himself deals with some dark issues – suicide, loss, war – yet there is the expectation with his work that there may be a faint glimmer of hope in the distance. Not with every work, but with many of his works this is true. Feeling ever so slightly hopeful, and uplifted, is not a bad feeling to end with when you read a novel.”the two sexes keep falling in and out of love. Also crucial in his writing is loneliness – either innate or acquiredIn one of his stories in Men Without Women (2014), a man lets solitude, silence and loneliness soak in like “dry ground welcoming the rain”, seep down inside his body like a “red-wine stain on a pastel carpet”. Sex remains on the horizon too and in some of his novels is described in minute detail. The narrator in Killing Commendatore, for instance, has a vivid dream about making love with his wife after she leaves him.love is central to Murakami’s world. Life is not like water. Things in life don’t necessarily flow over the possible short route” “For Murakami, to write is to connect with a deep core of himself. He told Sam Anderson in a 2011 interview with the New York Times: “I live in Tokyo, a kind of civilised world – like New York or Los Angeles or London or Paris. If you want to find a magical situation, magical things, you have to go deep inside yourself. So that is what I do. People say it’s magic realism – but in the depths of my soul, it’s just realism. Not magical. While I’m writing, it’s very natural, very logical, very realistic and reasonable.”Wheif you’re only reading what other people read, then your thinking will be the same as everyone else’sIf you want an inroad into the enchanting, magical world of Murakami, you should not merely be a reader, books must have “happened” to you. You should also have an ear for music since Murakami writes as if he is “making music”. The writer said More or less all of us want answers to the reasons why we’re living on this earth,” Murakami writes in Underground (2010…..
Being a powerful woman can be time-consuming and stressful, especially if you occupy a position of power. Since you have a demanding job, and possibly family duties too, it’s necessary to find a way how to unwind from everyday stress.Smashing those glass ceilings can be a tiring business, so here are some mindful practices that you could incorporate into your routine.Read more at 5 Mindfulness Practices from Powerful Women
Although every woman strives for flawless skin, most of us still struggle with certain problems, most commonly the appearance of dark spots.Both hyperpigmentation and melasma are some of the most prominent skin conditions, usually caused by acne scarring, sun damage or other forms of inflammation. Although the similarities between these two conditions might be confusing, there are key differences that could be crucial for proper treatment. So, here is a definitive breakdown of the two skin conditions and how to treat them.Read more at The Difference between Melasma and Hyperpigmentation and How to Treat Them
I stood at railway platform.the trains were running late. the luggage compartment adjacent lady compartment. No signs of the trains coming announce was showing. Platform was getting crowded .one by one public increases. beggars , sellers, fruit sellers, fish sellers,nostalgic stench spread everywhere. Dirty smell of sweating also mixed with it. women perfumed face looked like a wilted wrinkled face.It Was rumoured of male child stolen cases from the hospital or nursing home. if male child stolen from public places, the voice rose against it. Such like rumour and confusion filled platform.one ragged saree wore woman stood on the platform. waiting for the train. She stood with child. Which was crying at platform. child missing is not new in mumbai like places ....in that case she mocking of breast feeding to chest. she held child into both arms as embrace him like hugging or meet each other position.Climax was going on when. One aged woman looks at her behavior when she realizes that she just play fake role of mother of breastfeeding ..even child...not stop crying.She caught her hand. She fumbled her sareelet to see if she actually covered Child under it. She did not feed children. Her blouse part was close. Women who follow her.she was a ragged woman.she still observing her behaviour her movement was oscillating. Her nervousness was increasing. one by one her heart pounded, her strokes pulsated. moment by moment it increased.Her criminal looks detected on obscured face. now she thought that her plan would be disclosed before public.Handkerchief gangs was there waiting with strolley babysitter.it by used often including woman, standing near luggage box. that people who sells second hand mobile and even theft drifting mobile used to sell at dadar TT station beside.They mostly sells baby toys and suchlike thing.That day ganesh festival was arrived.that hustle and bustle was carrying on platform. train also late. it added confusion fuel into it. Railway under misunderstanding between railway and traveler.Handkerchief gang hurry seemed. Because they have to go first to set up show before ganesh decoration mandal.there collected a lots up people. gathered to see decoration. they traverse at junction.then got off to dadar. And some at thane station. Many couple group divided into them. they parted into couple every station. There they got more crowded. there could sell more things. Lady train announcer blared on speaker. it was extremely sorry for the inconvenience caused to local traveller due to train late going to cst. the train arriving on platform no 2 was late due to some technical problem.it causing local traveller work slow down.faced tomorrow works burden. it added into extra work. No extra expenses given by company. For train late or ...some excuses for worker in decreasing burden of today's not postpone.Some are get tension if delivery not reach on time. it will forfeits us Small business holder also scratching heads because they have no other option but train mediumThey think that goods or order not despatch on the transport it will be cancelled by party tomorrow any how it must reach to party any force any transport medium not in handy as train as it consume low budget to get destinationit is convenient to anybody in budget formBeggar was in tension because they have to reach smart station if he wanted to earn more money Here people already get into tensed so nobody was interested pay alms as money to beggars.So beggar also pray to god to run trains on time.And work run smoothly and fastly and tomorrow.Her suspension grew quickly. her look upon her behaviour ....child not sucking milk from mother breast.....both part are empty ...she never tried even to get tensed on her face. no emotion no any disposition impress upon her faceNo any clue that she is the mother of her child .except she holds child in her enclosed breast.Why she behave like in alarmed.Well middle aged woman was looking every angle into her disposition.She inspected her.she doubted and suspected on her and confirmed her doubt.She screamed at top bottom ofmouth. she clutched her hand tossed her sarees lace hitched and moved away with some brave movement ...she crossed her eye toward public to see that ..it gave sudden movement of attraction at crowd ..as well sarees clad woman shouted at her ...no sooner station did get crowd ..Somebody asked in question remark.....what happen lady.....Middle Class woman said ...show her finger toward ragged woman ...disclosed matter before publicShe said....that woman has abducted child with her ...i follow her since she absconding childShe run away from behind slum locality. When i noticed her i just follow her until last she come station ...she didn't know any ideas that i watched on her....when she waiting i declared and asked her more time ...she was silence and dumb cow felt ....Railway police come ......they both and lady home guard. Caught her both hands brought to inquiry officeWell middle class woman also with her ....some married and unmarried woman added to mob..also support the matterSenior railway officer come .asked Cohered matter rigidlyLarge middle aged gathered nowSome are out of the office to see matter Some parted thinking if matter did worsen the police would be cross examined who with them Som some people was not mingling into this matter instead they get information outside box inquiringSome didn't know what happened platform afraid of police will be make Witness responsible by cross checked more time ....so many people not interfered into such like ....money stealing ..gold snatching ..money pocket picker. .such like matter no people get together to support it and help to police also against people and support to criminal ..most criminals are cigarette and chorus smoker..so police get them released next dayCuriosity viewer,Drew near to what happen on the platformThree star police came to solve matterOn duty railway police indicated main control of incident She was aghast,....! at the surrounding lookers and people police in enquiring mood in their eye seeing Middle aged woman snatching child from her breast Noticed and observed child and screamed out of loud… "A male child"'His face Look like foreigner ...grey hair brown face,'Now matter become worse .it case of child stealing, somebody said,Outsider.Who to blame now ..how to judge it.Such woman must remanded to custody room and still felt her guilty about crime she done..such not done on the spotShe was stretched to inquiry room ...it was shift change of some morning police to be ready to go home and new charge had been surrendered to new duty officer on the time of crime She was alarmed and speaking and murmuring in south indian language ....so nobody understands her languageOne woman come who know her mother tongue she blurred in that language. Tied her hair bunch in grip. Moving her head toward up and down motion and jostling and jerking on the ground .clapped on her mouth very rapidly .but she could not speakShe even say everyone this is my child ......my own ...child .......if this is your child. Why not feed her Child was crying with hunger and weeping very root of stomach..getting swoon due to the stench of hungerOne woman came ahead and held her hand above her blouse part and pressed her milk part with pinch movement in so rapidly it sprank milk everybody oozed milk over breast....She confirmed that she had a child of her own ..but how decide that ..that child belongs to her except she have milk in her breast.....So confused was it is..! How to solve this ...One woman force her to say real story ...after a long pause she took big sighShe rubbed away her sweat dropping from eyelid due to crying eyeShe forward herself ahead and started to narrated her storyOne day she was working as housework and family owner clutched my hand and said that you would get pregnant for baby for a year family heirHe promised me lots up money to give me I was ready to become a surrogate mother. of child to give an heir to that family. and he hired me for a year in his house as penguest wife slept with him ...and one day i got pregnant for him.After eleven month my name was registered in private hospital. for my serving and take care thy appointed private nurse for me to take my care.I gave birth for the first time. I become a mother of a child. I know first time experience feeling of mother what, mother is! I was very excited that time. it was not legally child mother. I gave birth to a child, but it belongs to another mother.in child, as my part was in that just to give birth. child had new mother and father then I took leave that day from child. without feed my breast milk for the first time. nurse feeding child of bottled milk. They banned to give my breast milk to child..if child test it they will be fed on breast alway to child.They put me away from child after child took sigh they never shown me my child face for the first time how it looks.i want to look my child face ..but nobody to listen me that dayBecause i was hired mother of child .....just to give birth ..that my work ...for that i paid for it..But in me one mother was hidden in my inner form ..i could not control that feeling of touch ...it become part of blood ...I left the house the next day after seven day...i was staying in next to building behind near slum areas...also working in that house as female servant ...first time lady owner who possess my baby looks happy and enjoying ..i was working household works that day ...the cries of baby caught by me. it fell on my ears. i could not control emotion.i heaved heart rending sigh ...i could not live without my child ...i nourished into my mother's womb since 12 month and still could not touch him.I want my child ..want my child ...feed milk but ..child could not suck milk ....i tried when houselady was out of house for party and she submitted child authority on me ...but child could not suck breast milk ..i tried hard but failed it.My child could suck milk ...he has a habit of bottled milk ...so that he could not suck breast nipple.it felt him very soft to feel.i am surrogate mother ...i am not his mother...i sold my womb for few money ...sold myself ...What can do for that it was six month for that incident my breast was filling with milk day after day and i have to waste and l collected my breast milk by pressing breast and outthrow it ..How can i live without my child One day in got chance ...nobody in house except me and child ....i took child and fled with him toward railway station This woman saw me when i was running very rapidly and quicklyShe caught me and asked me ...but I refused her said anything ..then she clutched my hand and got rid of her hand by hissed and jerked poisedAll viewers and public hearing and stunned what actually happened.she was just half crouching over foot and pressed child tightly to chest there, standstill and motionless...few minutes everything grew serious atmosphere over face something like great sorrow fell over everyone.Surrogate mother ....said by bystander.New duty officer was late home because his duty hour was over since last two hour.next incharge duty officer was waiting in the line.Now train problem of late is solved ...train coming started on the time now ...people on the platform was now slowly and quickly less crowded seemed.Now platform was totally dispersed with passenger ...
Be Receptive - In Gita Verse 1.40 When irreligion is prominent in the family, O Kṛṣṇa, the women of the family become polluted, and from the degradation of womanhood, O descendant of Vṛṣṇi, comes unwanted progeny.In this verse Arjuna says that when irreligion is prominent in the family, the women of the family become polluted, and from the degradation of womanhood. By womanhood he means receiptivity.To seek truth one need to be receptive. To be religious means receptivity.Truth cannot be sought - one can simply be receptive, that´s all. One can open the doors and wait. One can say only this much, “If the divine guest comes, you will be received, welcomed. I don´t know who you are, and I don´t know your address and I cannot even send an invitation. But whosoever you are, and whomsoever it concerns, if you come, my doors will be open - you will not find them closed.” This is all that a seeker can do. And it is all that is needed to be done. More than that is not possible and is not needed.So let this posture be your deep attitude. One has to become receptive. The search for truth is not a male search. It is a feminine search - just like feminine energy - receptive. Not like a male - aggressive.Meditativeness is simply a deep receptivity, a readiness, an open door.Right now Arjuna is disappointed as he is not able to come to his consciousness.Don’t get discouraged by unconsciousness and errors. Get up again, have another try. It is like groping in the dark. But the door is there, so if you go on groping enough, you will stumble upon the door.That’s why religion can never become a science - never! It will always remain a groping. At the most it can be an art and that to so subtle that it cannot be taught. So go on groping.One day it happens. How it happens, why it happens, remains a mystery. In fact nobody has ever been able to exactly say how it happens. If somebody can say how it happens, a science can be created. Then you know the technique. Then you can do a certain act, and it happens.It has happened millions of times, but there is no causality in it, so you cannot determine how it happens. It can be caused. Each time it happens it happens uniquely! Each time it happens it happens in such a new way that it has never happened before like that. And it will not happen again like that. Because each individual is so different, so unique, so individual, that the happening is going to be different. Don’t start longing for it. Allow it to happen - don’t desire it. In desire you become active, aggressive. in allowing you simply wait, in deep receptivity. Waiting for the guest, standing by your door.. Nothing can be done! When the guest will come, he will come! You be ready to receive, that’s all.Not desiring creates receptivity. Desiring makes you aggressive. Desire makes you active, non-desire makes you inactive - that’s what Lao Tzu says by wu-wei, action by inaction, doing things by not doing them.Don’t desire - and it happens. Desire - and you have missed. Don’t prefer, and it is there. Seek - and you go infinitely seeking, and you never attain it.Deep receptivity.This is the mechanism of desire: if you desire, your whole energy becomes active, aggressive - it moves, it becomes male. If you don’t desire, the same energy becomes receptivity, it does not move out, it does not go anywhere, it simply waits, awaits deeply, it becomes feminine. Hence the insistence of Lao Tzu on feminine energy.The world is the manifestation of male energy. And enlightenment, the other world, the other shore, is the manifestation of feminine energy.Why Arjuna can see that the feminine energy will be polluted. As he is in the middle of the war where male energy is active and visible. Everyone of them has become aggressive and ready to fight so feminine energy is not visible.Also in my Bhagavad Gita Verse 1.39 blog, I wrote that right now due to unconsciousness Arjuna is able to see only half the truth. Always remember that half truth is fear oriented. In his fear he thinks that this is permanent, not going to change. But in universe only one thing is permanent, that is Change.
Compassion - In Gita Verse 2.10 O descendant of Bharata, at that time Kṛṣṇa, smiling, in the midst of both the armies, spoke the following words to the grief-stricken Arjuna.Krishna addressed Arjuna as descendant of Bharata, smiling reminds him his strength and from the family where he is coming gave him certain training and discipline, that Arjuna is so different than this Arunja who is in Grief.Krishna was very compassionate towards Arjuna. His smile has whispered that he knows that grief-stricken Arjuna, is not the same Arjuna. He has just forgot who he is. But still he is not telling him that what he needs to do or act in this moment. He is not giving any readymade answer, he is giving him only a wake up call and once he will come to his consciousness from his freedom he can choose what he wants. But not in his unconsciousness. Let me explain this through the following story.This is a beautiful story:A woman lost her young son; just a few days before her husband had died. Kissa Gautami was her name, and now her only son had died. She was in great despair, naturally; the child was her only hope. Buddha was staying in the town; people said, "Don't cry and don't weep. Why don't you take the child to Buddha? He is so compassionate, he may revive him back to life."The woman rushed with the dead body of the child. Buddha looked at the woman, told the woman to put the child in front of him and said to her, "Yes, I will revive him, but you will have to fulfill one condition."The woman said, "I am ready to give even my life. Say any condition and I will fulfill it."Buddha said, "It is a simple condition, I never make big requirements of people, only small requirements; this is a very simple thing. You just go into the town and bring a few mustard seeds. Just remember one thing: the mustard seeds should come from a house where nobody has ever died."The woman was in an insane state, she could not see the point. How can you find a house where nobody has ever died? She rushed with great hope and she knew that every house has mustard seeds because that was the only crop the people were growing. The whole village was doing the same work, growing mustard seeds - so there was no problem.She knocked on many doors, the people said, "A few mustard seeds? We can bring cartloads of mustard seeds, but we cannot fulfill the condition; many people have died in our house. So our mustard seeds won't do."By evening the woman came to her senses. She had knocked on many doors; gradually she saw the point that death is inevitable - it happens to everybody, that nobody can escape from it. She came back and she was a totally different woman when she came back in the evening. The child was there, Buddha was waiting. He said, "Where are the mustard seeds?"The woman laughed, fell down at his feet and said, "Initiate me into your path, because I have understood your message, that everybody has to die. Today my son has died, a few days before my husband died, a few days afterwards I am going to die. Before I die I want to see the deathless. Now I am not interested in my child being raised from the dead. Now I am interested in myself in seeing the eternal life."Buddha initiated Kissa Gautami.Krishna’s smile was not of sarcasm , it was of compassion. Always remember that compassion is very playful, relax, no advice and give freedom. Also give the other person a chance to understand through their own intelligence. It’s an opportunity to grow the consciousness, transforming objective world into subjective world.
Non-Doer - In Gita Verse 2.14 O son of Kuntī, the nonpermanent appearance of happiness and distress, and their disappearance in due course, are like the appearance and disappearance of winter and summer seasons. They arise from sense perception, O scion of Bharata, and one must learn to tolerate them without being disturbed.In this verse Krishna says that just allow everything to pass, definitely when winter is there we feel cold and in summer we feel hot but don’t get disturbed by it, allow it to pass through you everything, without any resistance. In winter we need to wear woolen and in summer we need to wear cotton, then wear it, but if you resist the winter by not wearing woolens you create trouble for yourself. In the summer if you continue to wear woolen then also you will create trouble for yourself. As season changes in total acceptance if you change your clothes you will not create any trouble or disturbance.On the contrary you will be able to focus on your present moments act and assignment.Recollect incidence in your life if you are thirsty and don’t drink water then how emotionally you get disturbed and in this disturbance you will not be able to focus on what you need to do or act in that moment.Misery arises because we don't allow change to happen. We cling, we want things to be static. If you love a woman you want her tomorrow too, the same way as she is yours today. That´s how misery arises. Nobody can be certain about the next moment – what to say about tomorrow?Religion says: That which is, allow it to happen. All that you can do is: Please don’t disturb, just allow it to happen. Remain alert and passive and then there is no need to come to me – I will come to you. Many times I have already reached you – whenever you were silent. So this is not a theory; many of you even know it from experience, but you interpret this also.Don’t interpret. When you feel the presence, allow it to happen. If you allow it to happen, it will materialize more and more. It is possible and your questions will be answered. Be more meditative and then you are nearer to universe. Once you are totally meditative you are universe. Then there is no difference.One more thing is : the more you meditate, the less there will be to be asked. Questions will drop, because questions belong to a non-meditative state of mind. They arise in a non-meditative state more and more. One question is answered, ten more arise out of the answer. Mind is a great question-creating force. It goes on creating questions. You give the answer and the mind jumps on it, tears it down, and creates ten more questions. When you are meditative, less and less questions will be there.This will look paradoxical to you, but it is true.When there are questions there will be no answers; when there is no question the answer is there. The answer comes only when you are not questioning. Non-questioning will happen to you through meditation.Don’t think that there are as many answers as there are questions. No, there is only one answer. Questions are millions, the answer is one. Diseases are millions, medicine is one. Only one – and all is solved. But that one cannot happen to you because you don’t allow it to happen. You are so afraid of allowing anything to happen.This has to be learned. This is the only discipline – losing your fear, dropping your fear, and allowing things to happen. The river is flowing; don’t push it! There is no need, it is flowing by itself. You just wait on the bank and let it flow. If you are courageous enough, then drop yourself in the river and flow with it. Don’t swim, because swimming means fighting – just float.When religion says allow it to happen and become passive simply means that be natural. If you are thirsty drink water, if you are hungry eat, if you are sleepy sleep, don’t hinder , allow. This is passive act, non-doer.Krishna tells Arjuna don’t resist your assignment of universe, Fight Without Enmity. Be Non-Doer.
About the author: Jane Summers is a professional writer at the https://prime-essay.net writing service. She researches a diversity of topics and composes it into her blog, where she shares useful tips, writing guidelines and many other interactive issues. The topic of female presence in the army has always been controversial. At first, during wars, women were working as nurses, cooks, spies, and couriers among others. It was not official, many of them were injured or killed, but when they decided to take their responsibilities, they had a strong desire to help the military. Some of them even changed clothes and fought on the battlefield alongside with men. They felt like it was their duty, but still they wanted to hide their activity.Times have changed and in the twentieth century new movements arose that demanded more rights for women, better integration in different working areas, and empowerment in general. It was related to the topic of women in the army as well. Feminist ideas stated that men and women have to be equal in all areas of life. At the same time, some conservative points of view were powerful. The supporters of this view preferred a traditional image of the society and its institutions, where men are obligated to be active in social life and defend country, while women needed to do the housework, take care of all of the family, give birth to children and bring them up.Nowadays, women are present in military forces, but many questions remain. For instance, why are there still more soldiers than officers among women? At the same time most of them are even not allowed to stay on the battlefield and have real practice. Obviously, it is closely attached to some gender issues and stereotypes. One of them is that men always are physically stronger and are better leaders than women. Nevertheless, trainings showed that the equal number of males and females can manage tasks and be appropriate units for the military. Last news informed that women would be allowed to serve in combat – infantry, ground, and some special operations in 2016. The question may be topical for many years, because now there are many female units fighting in Iraq and Afghanistan, and at the same time many women want to learn military skills.The main point of the article called “Women In Combat Roles In US Military: Still A Small Step To Equality,” written by Fitriani and Ron Matthews, is that the society should not underestimate the importance of women for military even before giving them possibilities to join it in any role. The article provides an example of countries where women are essential part of the armed forces – Australia, Canada, Denmark, Finland, France, Israel, Germany, Norway, Netherlands, Romania, Poland, South Korea, and Sweden.The authors prove that the US armed forces are trying to minimize the contact of female units with the enemy. They believe that it is not fair and all restrictions to serve in combat units need to be outdone. In addition, it is stated that most of women in the army are not leaders but mainly low-ranking. It was also mentioned that many women were killed or wounded during operations in Iraq and Afghanistan. Besides, there are some cases of discrimination and sexual harassment in the military. The view that is against the presence of women in the army is concentrated on some moral, safety, and gender issues, but mostly it is prejudiced, as the authors prove.In summary, the authors think that all military positions need to be available to women. At the same time, they admit that there are some positive changes: the key is not to dismiss the leadership and strength that women can bring to the armed forces before they are given the opportunity to prove themselves. Feminist theory seeks to understand the nature of gender inequality and it focuses on the issues of politics, power, and sexuality. Political activity of feminists is concentrated on such issues as the rights of reproduction, domestic violence, maternity leave, equal pay, sexual harassment, discrimination, and sexual violence. Themes explored in feminism include discrimination, stereotyping, objectification (especially sexual objectification), oppression, and patriarchy.Feminist theory is based on the idea that all consciousness of modern people regardless of gender, are imbued with the ideas and values of masculine ideologies with their male chauvinism, the priority of masculinity, logic, and rationalism. This axiomatic fact of the modern culture explains the need for a feminist to revise the traditional views as well as the need to create the history of women's literature and defend the sovereignty of femininity that does not fit into the male logic.Thus, feminist studies have broad issues: the reconstruction of women's history and women's literary tradition audit patriarchal canons and stereotypes, finding new gender roles, the nature of women's text and the text perception female recipient, the destruction of patriarchal samples language, the problem of women in post-colonial situation and in terms of cultural imperialism, and others. Such a wide range of shows are the basis of the principles of the feminist criticism methodological diversity.Another sociological theory is critical theory which includes a number of approaches and theoretical discourse. Besides, it closely examines and criticizes the society and culture drawing on the knowledge of social sciences and humanities.Literally, the term "critical theory" gathers under a variety of approaches and knowledge based on criticism and reflexive attitude towards knowledge or the current situation in any region. Besides, it is trying to "explain the origin of the objects of his knowledge.Critical theory, in its broadest sense, does not refer to a specific theory or a complete research program but to the discourse" different "in its origin, content, direction, etc. Among these discourses, the ones that are commonly mentioned are Marxism, the Frankfurt School, psychoanalysis, post-structuralism, feminism, post-colonialism, multiculturalism, the study of racism, sexism, ethnocentrism, and colonialism among others.Discursive diversity of "critical theory" is associated with cultural studies, the leitmotif of which is the consideration of cultural phenomena in terms of organizing their relations of domination and subordination related to gender, class, race, etc. Cultural forms, phenomena, and processes are not seen as secondary education depending on the institutional forms or political or economic organization but as a dynamic force.The current situation masks inequality in international relations, and rationalism takes it a priori. Theorists did not seek to explore international or internal system states. They carried out research for political purposes of liberation of humanity from the despotic structures, world politics and economics, which are controlled by hegemonic forces. In this perception of the international system, they were very close to the theoretical neo-Marxism, because they interpreted any knowledge as an instrument of policy. The most important conclusion of critical theory, which is that any theory is a reflection of some hidden interests and their authors, regardless of whether they realize it or not, is an instrument of political power.These two sociological theories are connected with each other, because feminist theory originated from critical theory. It was about seeing gender as a dynamic concept. Gender is not social prejudices, stereotypes, and expectations that public put on both sexes but a choice for which every individual has rights. Critical theory considers the discrimination of women in armed forces to be advantageous for men and the other people who have their own interest in it. It is not always necessary to compare these two theories, because the critical theory was the first and had great influence on feminist theory, because it stated that one should perceive reality and society critically. So, gender is not traits and abilities of men and women but their self-identification and possibilities.The authors demonstrate the reflection of feminist theory when they prove that women are equal to men and if a woman has a desire to defend her country, she has the right to join the military. The equality is shown in three ways:1) Women that are going to join the armed forces are not weaker than men.2) Women are able to be as good high-ranked officers as men.3) Most of women are still far from battlefield serving on traditional positions, but they are able to do more.The other important problems that are mentioned in the article are discrimination and sexual harassment that the armed forces can cope with if they provide appropriate conditions to avoid them.Regarding critical theory, the whole article questions beliefs about women in the army, widely considers the experience of the other countries, recalls how the status of women changed over the decades, and predicts what will happen in a few years. Besides, it provides many numbers and data given from different resources that help one to lead to own conclusions. In general, critical and feminist theories almost reached their aim to liberate women, by giving them the opportunity to work in different areas and providing comfortable conditions. However, there are still some areas that have unpredictable conditions and consequences for women – one of them is the armed forces. Probably, it will take much time to create special conditions for female units and change social beliefs, but one day women will be totally equal to men as defenders.
Life Is Change - In Gita Verse 2.22 As a person puts on new garments, giving up old ones, the soul similarly accepts new material bodies, giving up the old and useless ones.In this verse Krishna is speaking about the law of Change.Misery arises because we don't allow change to happen. We cling, we want things to be static. If you love a woman you want her tomorrow too, the same way as she is yours today. That´s how misery arises. Nobody can be certain about the next moment – what to say about tomorrow?A man of awareness knows that life is constantly changing. Life is change. There is only one thing permanent, and that is change. Except change, everything else changes. To accept this nature of life, to accept this changing existence with all its seasons and moods, this constant flow that never stops for a single moment, is to be blissful. Then nobody can disturb your bliss. It is your hankering for permanency that creates troubles for you. If you want to live a life with no change – you are asking the impossible.A man of awareness becomes courageous enough to accept the changing phenomena. In that very acceptance is bliss. Then all is good. Then you are never frustrated.Fear of Change:Every change creates fear, because every change is putting you into the unfamiliar, into a strange world. If nothing changes and everything remains static, you will never have any fear. That means, if everything is dead, you will not be afraid.For example, you are sitting down and there is a rock lying down. There is no problem: you will look at the rock, and everything is okay. Suddenly the rock starts walking; you become frightened. Aliveness! Movement creates fear; and if everything is unmoving, there is no fear.That’s why people, afraid of getting into fearful situations, arrange a life of no change. Everything remains the same and a person follows a dead routine, completely oblivious that life is a flux. He remains in an island of his own making in which nothing changes. The same room, the same photographs, the same furniture, the same house, the same habits, the same slippers – everything the same. The same brand of cigarettes; even a different brand you won’t like. Between this, amidst this sameness, one feels at ease.People live almost in their graves. What you call a convenient and comfortable life is nothing but a subtle grave. So when you start changing, when you start on the journey of inner space, when you become an astronaut of the inner space, and everything is changing so fast, every moment is trembling with fear. So more and more fear has to be faced.Let it be there. By and by you will start enjoying the changes so much that you will be ready at any cost. Change will give you vitality...more aliveness, zest, energy. Then you will not be like a pond...closed from everywhere, not moving. You will become like a river flowing towards the unknown, and towards the ocean where the river becomes lost.Arjuna when coming up with all his logical arguments clearly indicates that he got afraid of change. He wanted to live same miserable life. He wanted to live the life which was dictated by Kauravas. Their entire life they lived a life which was dictated by Kauravas.Recollect your life incidence when you were afraid of change you were not ready to move, so much of suffocation of physical, mental and emotional. For you life of slavery was okay than a life of freedom.Krishna is telling Arjuna to allow the change, which is only on the surface , your soul, your subjectivity needs freedom. They are unchangeable. Give up life which is dictated by others. Allow the Change.
As we progress in age, the need to take extra care of the skin grows rapidly.The skin-care industry is loaded up with numerous brands claiming to reverse skin-aging effects.But, it does not prove to be as effective as it is supposed to be. Isn’t it?We all know that nothing can beat the power of natural remedies to make the skin younger and refreshed against the chemical packed products.Read more at 10 Effective Natural Anti-Aging Tips Every Woman Should Know
Since sex is a basic need of every human being to gain immense pleasure, it is quite difficult to live long without sex. In fact, many people are crazy about it and opt for adult dolls to meet their various sexual needs and give them the ultimate in fun and enjoyment with ease.If you have recently been abandoned by your girlfriend and are feeling very depressed, forget it all because life-sized sex dolls are also meant for men with broken hearts. With the right use of these dolls, it will be easier for you to overcome the negative feelings and return to your normal everyday life as you used to do.After working all day, you need to relax at night. With life-size love dolls, you can count on enjoying yourself in an environment of unrestricted fun and enjoyment. The truth about these wild sex doll is that they will amaze you time and again to stop you from boring masturbation techniques and to give you more.With these realistic dolls, it's easy to try out the different sex positions that we normally see in porn and fantasize in dreams. One of the most important reasons why many people prefer to buy a doll is their resemblance to a real woman. Sex dolls look more sensual than real women. They do not even show the tantrums and are always ready to please you on your bed.
IntroductionWhen a woman is pregnant then the whole family starts giving advice differently, and one of the most common advice among them is to avoid exercising as it may affect the health of the mother and the baby. It may not be intentional, but it is not the best advice possible.Pregnancy might seem like the perfect time to sit back and relax. You likely feel more tired than usual, and your back might ache from carrying extra weight but no you should try doing exercises as moderate exercise during pregnancy may give a newborn a healthier start.Exercising during your pregnancy is safe and healthy. The only difference from normal people is that certain types of exercises may not be suitable for pregnant women and the nature of exercises may change from trimester to trimester.Exercises to TryThere are numerous potential health benefits for women who exercise during pregnancy, including better weight control, improved mood, and maintenance of fitness levels. ->SwimmingThis is one of the best & the safest exercise. Exercising in water supports your bump and won’t strain your back. It’s a great way to get your heart rate up without putting extra stress on your joints and ligaments. It also has immense cardiovascular benefits & it also helps in reducing the swelling and inflammation. ->Walking & RunningWalking is one of the safest exercises during any trimester as long as you don’t overexert yourself. Walking promotes blood circulation, improves heart health and is all around a good exercise for pregnant women. The key is to invest in a good pair of shoes for walking so as to prevent the knees and legs from jarring and also to support your upper body properly.If you were a runner or jogger before you got pregnant, it’s safe and healthy to continue during your pregnancy as long as you feel okay. Your baby will not be harmed by the impact or the movement. Book an appointment with Gynaecologist in dilsukhnagar Hyderabad->Strength exercisesStrength training exercises make your muscles stronger. They include swimming, working with weights, walking uphill and digging the garden. In the later trimesters, it may be a little difficult to manage other exercises as your body becomes heavier and movement may be limited. However, you can do basic stretching exercises to improve mobility and also help with circulation.->CyclingCycling is a great low-impact aerobic exercise. However, as your bump grows, your balance will change, which could mean you are more likely to fall off.If you’re used to cycling, you should be safe to carry on, but if you begin to feel less stable than usual it may be best to stay off your bike or switch to a stationary bike until after your baby is born. Cycling on a stationary bike also called spinning, is normally safe even for first-time exercisers. It helps raise the heart rate without putting too much stress on the joints.->YogaPrenatal yoga classes keep the joints limber and help maintain flexibility. Yoga strengthens muscles, stimulates blood circulation, and enhances relaxation. These may contribute to healthy blood pressure during pregnancy.The techniques learned in a yoga class can also help you to stay calm and in control during labor.It is best to consult with a specialist who can give you a step by step guide as to the exercises you can do and the precautions that you need to take while performing them. You can also consult with gynecologist Dr. Vandana Hegde, she is one of the best gynecologist doctors and can help you during your pregnancy times.
Be Original - In Gita Verse 2.39 Thus far I have described this knowledge to you through analytical study. Now listen as I explain it in terms of working without fruitive results. O son of Pṛthā, when you act in such knowledge you can free yourself from the bondage of works.Krishna says that knowledge is bondange, we need knowledge this is the reason till now I was explaining to you through the knowledge. Once you get all the information in self-alertness then you become capable of transforming that knowledge into how we can act in the present moment. That will become your wisdom. Your action will say that whether you are used by knowledge or you used the knowledge.Person who has used his wisdom is having innovative and originality in his action. His actions will be very much alive. It is not only our body but our action also can become alive when it is original, having freshness in it.To be original simply means just as you were born - fresh, uncluttered by any garbage, theology, religion, politics, etiquette, manners. As you grow up, around you much garbage grows. The society helps to grow it; the whole educational system exists to support it. By the time you are still young, you have already lost your original home. You know so much, but you don't know anything in fact. You pretend so much, you may even believe in your pretensions, but that does not make them true. The whole society up to now has been creating hypocrites.The original man is just the polar opposite of the hypocrite. He is simply natural, unpredictable. The hypocrite is predictable. You know what he is going to do - his reactions, his responses. You know his future, because he is a false entity not a living plant. You cannot predict in what directions the branches will go, on which branches the flowers will come. Everything is unpredictable, but with a plastic plant everything is known and predictable. Society wants you to be predictable, because its whole business depends on predictability.The Zen man certainly is the original man. It is the search for the original man, your very nature, where you are not a man, not a woman, not a Hindu, not a Christian; where you simply are - unfettered freedom, unscratched sky. The beauty of it and the benediction of it is infinite.Never be an imitator, knowledgeable, always be original. Don’t become a carbon copy. But that’s what is happening all over the world – carbon copies and carbon copies.Krishna is saying I gave you all the knowledge so that you can use them to become original, wise.It is like food, we need to have food for our body but with that we need to digest so that the food can give us energy.We need like food, knowledge so that we can think, look and evaluate through our thinking and act in totality with originality.If the scientist who invented electricity from the waste if they would not have had any knowledge of waste do you think electricity from the waste was possible.We need all the knowledge and at the same time our own thinking to use totally in new ways the available knowledge. Our own thinking will be able to digest and convert that knowledge into different forms. It will change our reality. Don’t run away from knowledge but learn to use the knowledge through your wisdom so you can act totally in new ways.Krishna tells Arjuna use all this information and through your wisdom act for the assignment of universe Fight Without Enmity. Actions need to be always from your wisdom and not from your knowledge.
Are you also waiting for Wonder Woman 2? If yes, then you are not alone here. There are millions of people excited about the same thing, and they would love to know the updates and the latest news concerning the movie. Recently we have got some new updates about Wonder Woman 1984, and we thought that you would love to know about the movies timeline, plot, cast and revealed photos. Last December the filming was wrapped up, and now the DCEU has launched the final release date of Wonder Woman 1984.Source: Wonder Women 1984Latest UpdatesThe filming was over in December 2018, but Gal Gadot said that some reshoots were made to make some minor improvements. According to the cast, the reshoots were made in three different countries and four different locations, including London. One thousand crew members, along with the shooting team who helped set the movie’s plot and fulfilled the cast requirements.According to a popular news channel, just a few weeks ago, the Wonder Woman team has shot some of its scenes at the iconic waterfall in Snowdonia, Welsh national park. Can you imagine Wonder Woman combating with a baddie in front of the waterfall?Wonder Woman 1884: When the Trailer is Coming Out?The team Wonder Woman didn’t attend the Comic-Con 2019, but they were present in the 2018 event. According to the director Patty Jenkins, the Wonder Woman 1984 will begin its promotion in December 2019. That means the first trailer will be out somewhere in the middle of December. Till then, we have to be patient.Revealed Photos of Wonder Woman 1984 till NowIn 2018, two photos were released, which provided us with an idea about the time and the story of the movie. Well, they can’t be considered as a spoiler for the film. In the first picture, WW is looking at some very old TV displays, and it seems that the screens are 1980’s. In the first picture, in one of the TV screen, you can see the villain “Cheetah” driving a car and looking at the camera.In the second image, Steve Trevor (Chris Pine) is walking alone in a shopping mall, and it seems like he has seen someone. People are wondering how Steve Trevor is still alive?There was one more picture posted by Patty Jenkins in which you can see a new character in the movie which is played by Pedro Pascal. But the role of Pedro is still unknown.The new Wonder Woman costume was also revealed on Twitter by the director of the movie. The outfit is surprisingly strange, and Gal Gadot is looking awesome. It appears that this time she has full body armor which is made of shiny metal. Maybe she now she will not have to block upcoming bullets as she has full-body protection. Perhaps this time our WW has become even more invincible and durable due to the full body armor.We have got one more photo of the supervillain “Cheetah” who is standing in a museum. In the DC comics, she was an archeologist, so her standing in the museum make perfect sense.More About the Cast of Wonder Woman 1984Super Villain-Cheetah: Played by “Kristen Wiig”Super Hero-Wonder Woman: “Gal Gadot”Pedro Pascal: An Unrevealed CharacterSoundarya Sharma: Unknown CharacterSteve Trevor: Played by “Chris Pine”Lauren Smith is an inventive person who has been doing intensive research in particular topics and writing blogs and articles on Brother Printer Support and many other related topics. She is a very knowledgeable person with lots of experience.
Every modern woman will tell you that’s it’s basically impossible to put herself and her needs first when she’s got so much to do.You have to give work 100%, maintain relationships with your close ones, and even take care of a family. There never seem to be enough hours in the day to actually devote yourself to your fitness routine and improve your health. Most of the time, you end up eating junk and sitting on the couch to relax because you’re just too tired an unmotivated to do anything good for yourself. It doesn’t have to be that way. You can stay fit and healthy while still managing to nail your daily routine.Read more at Having it All - Health and Fitness over the Busy Schedule of a Modern Woman
When you are in a relationship with a woman, a lot of hard work is needed to sustain that relationship and maintain it over a long period of time. This takes a lot of time, because we have a lot less time after a busy day in the office. If your life and past experiences match, then it's time for you to start a brand new sex life with a silicone doll. A sex doll can help you in more ways than one. Here's one of the key ways an adult doll can help you.Since its inception, the love doll industry has undergone a number of changes and massive improvements. Over time, sex with a silicone doll has become more human and able to reproduce the same pleasure as a human being. Originally, sex dolls were made of cheap plastic, today they are made of high quality TEP or silicone elastomers. These dolls have a human feel and, with their size and structure, reproduce a real human being. The dolls of today even have steel joints, which makes their bodies much more flexible than their predecessors.When you sleep with a real woman, she does not need a lubricant to give you a blowjob, whereas a sex doll needs a significant amount of lubricant. Since there are no salivary glands, the need for a lubricant is felt at all times. Another aspect is the heat. Silicone Sex Dolls are largely automated and have no body temperature, while the mouth of a real woman is slightly warm, which enhances the sexual experience.As mentioned above, a lot of energy and effort is required to maintain and maintain a happy relationship with your spouse. There may be moments when you suddenly get out of control or your partner works with you twice. In these scenarios, if you try to point out your mistake, you will instantly go to hell in your eyes and will soon be referred to as a selfish person. Adding sex dolls to your life will free you from all the trouble.
Tantra - In Gita Verse 2.58 One who is able to withdraw his senses from sense objects, as the tortoise draws its limbs within the shell, is ﬁrmly ﬁxed in perfect consciousness.Read this verse again and again, what Krishna says clearly he is; go deep into the centre of the objective world and there will be perfect consciousness. Means only pool of energy. You need to pass through all the senses, but go into it in totality. Like Tantra - unless you become NON-SEXUAL, don’t have sex.Tantra is the natural way to God, the normal way to God. The object is to become so completely instinctual, so mindless that we merge with ultimate nature – that the woman disappears and becomes a door for the ultimate, the man disappears and becomes a door for the ultimate.This is the tantric definition of our sexuality: the return to absolute innocence, absolute oneness. The greatest sexual thrill of all is not a search for thrills, but a silent waiting – utterly relaxed, utterly mindless. One is conscious, conscious only of being conscious. One is consciousness. One is contented but there is no content to it. And then there is great beauty, great benediction. We always have a question: 'What is tantric sex…a sex which is a meditation based on certain techniques?'If you are too technique oriented you will miss the mystery of Tantra. It is pseudo-Tantra that is based on techniques because if techniques are there, ego will be there, controlling. Then you will be doing it – and doing is the problem, doing brings the doer. Tantra has to be a non-doing; it cannot be technical. You can learn techniques – you can learn a certain breathing so that coitus can become longer. If you breathe very, very slowly, if you breathe without any hurry, then coitus will become longer, but you are controlling. It will not be wild and it will not be innocent, and it will not be meditation either. It will be mind – how can it be meditation? The mind will be controlling. You cannot even breathe fast, you have to keep your breathing slow – if the breathing is slow then ejaculation will take a longer time, because for ejaculation to happen the breathing has to be fast and chaotic. Now, this is technique but not Tantra. Tantra is not technique but prayer. Is not head oriented but a relaxation into the heart. Please remember it. Many books have been written on Tantra, they all talk about technique but the real Tantra has nothing to do with technique. The real Tantra cannot be written about, the real Tantra has to be imbibed. How to imbibe real Tantra? You will have to transform your whole approach. Pray with your woman, sing with your woman, play with your woman, dance with your woman, with no idea of sex. Don't go on thinking, 'When are we going to bed?' Forget about it. Do something else and get lost into it. And someday love will arise out of that being lost, suddenly you will see that you are making love and you are not making it. It is happening, you are possessed by it. Then you have your first Tantra experience – possessed by something bigger than you. You were dancing or you were singing together or you were chanting together or you were praying together or meditating together, and suddenly you find you both have moved into a new space. And you don't know when you have started making love; you don't remember either. Then you are being possessed by Tantra energy. And then for the first time you will see a non-technical experience.This is one of our senses where we all are stuck there. If you can read this blog again and again and if you can transform your sexual energy into prayer then it will be very easy for you to transform all the senses into prayer. Then you will find all your act has become nothing but prayer and Gratitude towards universe.With all the senses go inside of you and you will find a pool of energy all of it is perfect consciousness, prayer. Go through all the senses, go inside of all the senses and your act will become prayerful. This is the key for living in the Objective World, from your Subjectivity. Unaffected by Objective World.
Body And Soul - In Gita Verse 2.59 Though the embodied soul may be restricted from sense enjoyment, the taste for sense objects remains. But, ceasing such engagements by experiencing a higher taste, he is ﬁxed in consciousness.Krishna says the experience of objective world through all the five senses, which will remain with us and become guiding light within us, to grow in consciousness. For him body is manifested soul and soul is unmanifested body. He is seeing body and soul as unity, whole and not separate. Krishna says that when we can taste all our five senses from awareness and self-alert we will settle in our consciousness, in our subjectivity.Again let’s take the help of Tantra to understand this verse.If you are not very alert you may go on believing that you are moving into tantra, and you may be simply rationalizing your sexuality – it may be nothing but sex, rationalized in the terminology of Tantra. If you move into sex with awareness, it can turn into tantra. If you move into tantra with unawareness, it can fall and become ordinary sex. It has happened in India – because only India has tried it.All Tantra schools in India, sooner or later, were reduced to sex orgies. It is very difficult to keep aware…it is almost impossible to keep aware. If from the very beginning the discipline has not gone very deep in you, there is every possibility that you will start deceiving yourself. Tantra schools arose in India with great energy, with great insight. And they had something – because that is the last center humanly available: the seventh is superhuman, the seventh is divine. The sixth is the spiritual center. From sex to tantra: a great revolution, a mutation, is possible in man. And in the East, people became aware that if you become meditative while making love, the quality of sex changes and something new enters into it – it becomes tantric, it becomes prayerful, it becomes meditative…it becomes samadhi.Tantra uses sex to rise higher than it, but it uses it. Sex becomes instrumental. Bauls say that is not very respectful: “How can you use some energy? How can you use some energy as a means?” They don’t use sex as a means; they delight in it, they enjoy it. They make a worship out of it, but without any technique. It is not technological. They love it, and through love the transformation happens on its own accord. In Tantra, you are to remain unattached. Even while using sex as a means to go towards samadhi, you have to remain unattached to sex, absolutely neutral, absolutely like an observer, a witness, just like a scientist working in his lab. In fact, the tantrikas say that Tantra techniques cannot be used with the woman you love, because love will be a disturbance. You will be too attached. You will not be able to remain detached and outside it. So tantrikas will find women with whom they are not in love at all so the attitude can remain absolutely of the observer.It’s not only for the sex but for all our senses. Let’s take another sense Taste - We eat very unconsciously, automatically, robot like. If the taste is not lived, you are just stuffing. Go slow, and be aware of the taste. Do not just go on swallowing things. Taste them unhurriedly and become the taste. When you feel sweetness, become that sweetness. And then it can be felt all over the body – not just in the mouth, not just on the tongue, it can be felt all over the body spreading in ripples.Whatsoever you are eating, feel the taste and become the taste. With no taste, your senses will be deadened. They will become less and less sensitive. And with less sensitivity, you will not be able to feel your body, you will not be able to feel your feelings. Then you will just remain centered in the head.When drinking water, feel the coolness. Close your eyes, drink it slowly, taste it. Feel the coolness and feel that you have become that coolness, because the coolness is being transferred to you from the water; it is becoming a part of your body. Your mouth is touching, your tongue is touching, and the coolness is transferred. Allow it to happen to the whole of your body. Allow its ripples to spread, and you will feel a coolness all over your body. In this way your sensitivity can grow, and you can become more alive and more filled.Krishna by saying ‘taste for sense objects remains’ - he says that you will be able to transcend all your five senses if you remain alert. Then you will be able to grow in consciousness. In Bhagavad Gita Verse 2.58 Krishna says - take all the senses inside you - he means go through it, he is not saying to become masochist he is saying in full alertness go through all the five senses and settle in your Consciousness means becoming so alert while passing through all the five senses that you remain unaffected of the objective world, mind, emotions, and you will be able to grow in Consciousness.
Be Flow - In Gita Verse 2.70 A person who is not disturbed by the incessant ﬂow of desires – that enter like rivers into the ocean, which is ever being ﬁlled but is always still – can alone achieve peace, and not the man who strives to satisfy such desires.Krishna now explains where and how we need to be aware. River is going towards ocean, meet ocean, but never get distracted by any hurdles. Same for Human Being, as only human being in this existences has possibility to grow in consciousness. For growing in the consciousness one thing plays a very important key role is self-awareness. Self-awareness for present moment, without getting affected by past or future. All our desires are of the future. We are like river going to merge into ocean but totally aware of this moments hurdle of all our desires.Desire always goes ahead of you. Desire is always in the future. Desire is a hope. Desire cannot be fulfilled because its very nature is to remain unfulfilled and projected in the future. It is always on the horizon.In the modern time challenges how to remain undisturbed with our desire:A desire arises: with the desire, the feeling that I AM arises. A thought arises: with the thought, the feeling that I AM arises. Look for it in your own experience. Before desire and before knowing, there is no ego.Sit silently. Look within. A thought arises: you get identified with the thought. A desire arises: you get identified with the desire. In the identification you become the ego. Then think: there is no desire and there is no knowledge and no thought – you cannot get identified with anything. The ego cannot arise.Buddha used this technique and he said to his disciples not to do anything else but just one thing: when a thought arises, note it down. Buddha used to say that when a thought arises, note down that a thought is arising. Just inside, note it: now a thought is arising, now a thought has arises, now a thought is disappearing. Just remember that now the thought is arising, now the thought has arisen, now the thought is disappearing, so that you don’t get identified with it.It is very beautiful and very simple. A desire arises. You are walking on the road; a beautiful car passes by. You look at it – and you have not even looked and the desire to possess it arises. Do it. In the beginning just verbalize; just say slowly, ‘I have seen a car. It is beautiful. Now a desire has arisen to possess it. Just verbalize.In the beginning it is good; if you can say it loudly, it is very good. Say loudly, ‘I am just noting that a car has passed, the mind has said it is beautiful, and now desire has arisen and I must possess this car.’ Verbalize everything, speak loudly to yourself and immediately you will feel that you are different from it. Note it.When you have become efficient in noting, there is no need to say it loudly. Just inside, note that a desire has arisen. A beautiful woman passes; the desire has come in. Just note it – as if you are not concerned, you are just noting the fact that is happening – and then suddenly you will be out of it.Buddha says, ‘Note down whatsoever happens. Just go on noting, and when it disappears, again note that now that desire has disappeared, and you will feel a distance from the desire, from the thought.’Consider. Dissolve in the beauty.And if you can consider that a desire has arisen and a desire has gone and you have remained in the gap and the desire has not disturbed you…. It came, it went. It was there, and it is now not there, and you have remained unperturbed, you have remained as you were before it. There has been no change in you. It came and it passed like a shadow. It has not touched you; you remain unscarred.Consider this movement of desire and movement of thought but no movement in you. Consider and dissolve in the beauty. And that interval is beautiful. Dissolve in that interval. Fall in the gap and be the gap. It is the deepest experience of beauty. And not only of beauty, but of good and of truth also. In the gap you are.The whole emphasis has to go from the filled spaces to the unfilled spaces. You are reading a book. There are words, there are sentences, but between the words there are gaps, between the sentences there are gaps. In those gaps you are. The whiteness of the paper you are, and the black dots are just clouds of thought and desire moving on you. Change the emphasis, change the gestalt. Don’t look at the black dots. Look at the white.In your inner being, look at the gaps. Be indifferent to the filled spaces, the occupied spaces. Be interested in the gaps, the intervals. Through those intervals you can dissolve into the ultimate beauty.Krishna says that when you irrespective of all the desire can become indifferent to desire and can fill up spaces, be interested in the gapes then you will be silent, in peace.
Appropriate training about laser hair removal can expel apprehension and individuals will profit a greater amount of the administration. A woman needs to choose a professional in this field. A professional of laser hair removal clinic in Delhi who has earned his name in this field is a decent alternative to begin with...[Read More]
Who says western jewellery is meant to be paired only with western or indo-western attires? You can very well couple western jewellery as well as western earrings with a saree, salwar or even lehengas - the outfits which are absolutely Indian!Western jewellery not only consists of delicate Swarovski crystals or perfect zirconia but also of silver tribal jewellery, bohemian jewellery as well as other kinds of western tribal jewellery originating in various parts of the western world.I always prefer western tribal jewellery along with Indian tribal jewellery to create exquisite, bold and dramatic looks! Here I am enlisting 11 western jewellery that is best suited for most, if not all, kinds of Indian outfits.Long Chain Floral PendantUnlike more conventional silver tribal jewellery, a long chain floral pendant is a great option for those who wish to keep their look simple and decent. The long-chain ensures that you get the attention on yourself, whereas the floral pendant speaks volumes about your minimalist and subtle style. This type of neckpiece is suitable for stylish sarees and contemporary Indian outfits.Multi-strand Silver Tribal NecklaceWestern tribal jewellery, like Indian tribal jewellery is made to showcase your style and mirror your preferences. In order to bring out the boldness in you, the multi-strand silver tribal neckpiece is a great option. If silver neckpiece doesn’t go well with your outfit then you can also opt for gold plated or different coloured multi-strand necklace. Collar Neck NeckpieceA collar neck neckpiece is the best way to add some drama and glamour to your saree. This western jewellery can also be paired with lehengas and Anarkali dresses. A collar neck necklace is best paired with silver studs and oversized finger rings. If you want a bolder look then you can also choose to pair this neckpiece with silver drop earrings.German Silver Charm BraceletsGerman silver charm bracelets are called charm bracelets for a very justified reason! A charm bracelet adds a subtle appeal to your overall look. You can pair a german silver charm bracelet with a statement ring to create some drama. Similarly, small midi finger rings would look great with charm bracelets. Oxidized German Silver Nose PinNose pins look great on every woman. No matter the face shape or the outfit, you can always go for an oxidised german silver nose pin. This nose pin would give a completely different look than a typical gold nose pin. Apart from giving you a gothic chic look, the german silver nose pin would help you get a refreshing look.Geometric Drop EarringsGeometric drop earrings are one of the best western earrings. Available in a huge variety, these earrings go well with most kinds of outfits and suit women of all face shapes. My favourite geometric drop earrings are the one with irregular geometric shapes that are currently in vogue. Tribal Statement ChokerStatement chokers are pure love and help you create a statement drama like no other piece of jewellery can. I absolutely adore tribal statement chokers which come in a wide variety. The chandbali jhumka pendant choker, as well as a bib choker neckpiece, are your best options.Bead Tassel DanglersSimilar to Indian tribal jewellery, the bead tassel danglers are earrings with beaded tassels. These western earrings give a chic look to any outfit such as an Anarkali suit, saree or a lehenga. These earrings are long and hence can create a statement on their own. However, if you want a bolder look, then you can pair it with statement choker or multi-strand necklace.Bohemian Retro Wood NeckpieceWooden jewellery is so chic! A classic bohemian retro wood necklace is a perfect way to add charm to your saree. Since it is wood we are talking about, it would go well with each and every kind of Indian attire that exists. I say that every woman must have at least one bohemian retro wood necklace in her jewellery chest.Oxidized Midi Finger RingsThe oxidised midi finger rings have been in vogue for a considerable period and will continue to do so in the distant future as well. The midi rings fall under the category of tribal silver jewellery. They usually come in a set of 3 - 9 or more finger rings which are made of the same base material but have different looks. When you want to draw all the attention towards your delicate and beautiful hands, then the midi finger rings are your best bet.Tribal Boho AnkletsAnklets are cool and so in vogue. You can wear anklets in either one foot or both. In any case, they’re sure to look amazing and add a glam factor to your gorgeous feet! Anklets go well with outfits that have a lower which extends up to your ankles and not more than that. Tribal boho anklets can be paired with ankle-length leggings, ankle-length salwars/churidars, reverse-dhoti pants, and even three-fourth ghagras. These were some of the trendiest and chic western jewellery which go all too well with both conventional and contemporary Indian ensembles. These pieces of tribal jewellery can be worn on several kinds of occasions. So what are you waiting for? Go and grab some attention with a bold and fierce yet absolutely adorable look with some pieces of silver tribal jewellery.Have you ever rocked the look with western tribal jewellery? Which Indian tribal jewellery do you prefer?
When choosing a sex doll, you want her to be as realistic as possible, therefore you want her to have a realistic woman’s height. However, sex dolls are much heavier than many people realize. At first glance, it doesn’t seem too bad. Unlike humans, sex dolls are fully dead weight and the weight is also distributed awkwardly along the doll. They will essentially feel twice as heavy as you would think, and lugging a heavy doll around is hard work.If you have back problems, it’s best to get a smaller doll due to the weight, otherwise, a heavier doll can be a good workout but tends to feel very inconvenient for most people. TPE and silicone sex dolls are not inflatable sex dolls which are filled with air. TPE and silicone sex doll have a metal skeleton interior, which forms the “bones” of the doll and is quite heavy. On the outside, the doll is made of solid TPE or silicone material, which all together is also quite heavy because it is a very thick layer of material.Dressing your sex doll in lingerie is one of the things that makes her so much fun. Keep in mind when you pick out her sexy outfits, however, that some fabrics have dyes in them that can stain the doll. Always be careful when choosing clothes for your doll so that you do not leave marks or dye on her synthetic skin. When putting on her clothes, or taking them off, always be gentle with her. Don’t scrub at her vigorously during the cleanup and do not go violent when you are having sex with her, as this might rough up the synthetic flesh.Remember, sex doll could be fragile, but neither should be roughed up or exposed to high heat. You can watch some hot porn videos while having sex with your sex doll and fuck her in the same positions as the couple in the video. So while the couple is using a doggie position, roll your sex doll over on the bed and bend her and just enter from behind. This can make things a whole lot sexier and we bet you’ll ejaculate in minutes!
Today, women prefer fashion jewellery over Diamonds and Gold jewellery. This shift in the jewellery choices of the women owes to the fact that fashion jewellery gives you the same feel like high jewellery at a very reasonable cost. Investing in fashion jewellery won’t feel like burning a hole in your pocket.The best part is that with fashion jewellery you don’t have to worry about the damage because even it gets broken or lost, it won’t bother you very much (because of its low price, of course). Talking about which, we have curated a list of 5 Amazing tips to style everyday jewellery like a pro!Pick versatile piecesMaintaining freshness in your everyday style is the most difficult thing any woman has to deal with. It’s very difficult to maintain continuity in your wardrobe while keeping it fresh. Our suggestion? Go for versatile pieces of jewellery that can be used to style a variety of outfits. For instance, pick a delicate pendant necklace can be styled on its own as well as with other necklaces. Such styles will help you to add a fresh vibe to your look while keeping your personal style intact.Similarly, you can also buy a chain with a gemstone pendant or a pair of gemstone earrings that you can add into your work wear jewellery collection. Don’t say NO to bold jewellery piecesEven the bold and chunky jewellery pieces cannot be worn on a daily basis but they are a must-have in every woman’s wardrobe not only because they have a grander appeal but also they can take an outfit from just okay to jaw-dropping. You can pick gemstone jewellery or styles like Chunky silver necklace for statement looks. The bold colors and statement designs can add oodles of flattering appeal to your daily look. For example, a pair of quirky chunky earrings can add a pop of color to your simple outfits like basic t-shirts and denim.Include delicate piecesYou don’t always need to garner compliments with statement styles, sometimes; a touch of subtle color and delicate style is enough for a jaw-dropping look. Delicate jewellery can work wonders when paired with daily outfits, especially if you’re getting ready for business meetings and first dates. You can add delicate jewellery pieces into your office wear jewellery collection.Create a Vintage lookFor the days when you feel like experimenting with your look then go retro. However, pulling off a vintage look is not as easy as it seems but with the right type of jewellery, you can garner tons of compliments.For example, vintage gemstones are a great way to accessorize your look with a retro vibe. Consider your personal styleComfort is the key to create a striking look, therefore, you should never compromise with your personal style because what works for others might not look good on you. Fun shapes, chunky pieces, bold colors are all good as long as you feel comfortable wearing them. If your style is more about adorning delicate pieces rather than the statement ones then there’s nothing wrong in building your collection with delicate jewellery. Stick to what you like and you’ll be good to go. Which all jewellery styles do you like wearing on a daily basis? Tell us in the comments below!Till then,Happy Shopping Fellas!
Sacrifice Self-Consciousness - In Gita Verse 3.15 Regulated activities are prescribed in the Vedas, and the Vedas are directly manifested from the Supreme Personality of Godhead. Consequently the all-pervading Transcendence is eternally situated in acts of sacriﬁce.Krishna when use the word Vedas, he means wisdom, which is always moving, flow, dynamic, it is not static, and such work is born from Vedas. Which is created by God. he is not saying Vedas means scriptures.Krishna by saying this he says to Arjuna there is two way you can perform your act, one is self-unconsciously, another is self-consciously. When you act from your self-consciousness your act will be act of Sacrifice. When you act from self-unconsciously your act is not align with universe, it is not Sacrifice. It cannot transcend you. The purpose of Human birth is to transcend, to become self-alert. Because of this everyone goes through different circumstances. As you cannot imitate others for your self-alertness. Only you will know how you can become self-alert. So never wait any circumstances to repeat in your life. Don’t wait that when Anguliman will come I will act like Buddha very compassionate. That day will never come.Krishna tells to Arjuna to become self-alert, transcend your all the energy into compassion. Even if that circumstances is war. Use the war to become self-alert and secome self-alert from that act that will be your sacrifice to the Universe. In my blog Bhagavad Gita Verse 3.14, I wrote about the five elements how they manifested from one to other. Same way through the body we have to transcend our self-unconsciousness to self-consciousness. That is possible only if we respond to the present moment without getting affected by past or future. Just respond to present moment.There is only one sacrifice is needed is self-unconsciousness. It looks paradox but you cannot sacrifice self-unconsciousness. Because it is nothing but darkness. What you can do is bring light of self-consciousness and immediately self-unconsciousness will be no more. This can happen only in utter relaxation. Be relaxed but there is one more danger is when you are relax you tend to move towards your self-unconsciousness. Be alert at time time.That’s what meditation is all about — to become more alert. Live the same life, just change your alertness — make it more intense. Eat the same food, walk the same path, live in the same house, be with the same woman and the children, but be totally different from your inside. Be alert! Walk the same path, but with awareness. If you become aware, suddenly the path is no more the same, because you are no more the same. If you are aware, the same food is not the same, because you are not the same, the same woman is not the same, because you are not the same. Everything changes with your inner change.If somebody changes his within, the without changes totally. My definition of the world is this — you must be living in a deep inner darkness, hence the world. If you light your inner lamp, suddenly the world disappears, and there is only God. The world and the God are not two things but two perceptions of the same energy. If you are unaware, the energy appears to you to be as the world, the sansara; if you are alert, the same energy appears as God. The whole thing depends on your inner awareness or unawareness. That is the only change, the only transformation, the only revolution, that has to be made.If you practice awareness in your routine life, suddenly you will find that you are becoming self-conscious. Your respond to present moment will be from alertness. Then any circumstances will become for you opportunity to transcend self-unconsciousness.Krishna tells Arjuna don’t take vedas word as static word then you will not be transcend your self-unconsciousness to self-consciousness. Veda is your wisdom, your life flow, it’s dynamic force in you. This present moment of yours demands that you transcend self-unconsciousness to self-consciousness through war. Sacrifice everything to respond to this present moment.
Insightful Act - In Gita Verse 3.21 Whatever action a great man performs, common men follow. And whatever standards he sets by exemplary acts, all the world pursues.Read very carefully what Krishna says, he says a great man means the person who has courage to be with himself. They carry big responsibility, on their shoulder, as 99.99% of the people are imitatore, without any understanding they follow. As right now everyone’s eyes on Arjuna, what action he will take. They will not use their intelligence why and under what circumstances you took decision and then acted on that. They will just follow him blindly.Look after the Buddha and Mahavira without any insight many people become sannyasins. They become a burden to society, they did not want to take responsibility for themselves and their family so to run away from the responsibility they took sanyas. They were escapist.When I am saying they run away from their responsibility, I would like to explain by the following incidence when after enlightenment Buddha met his wife Yashodhara.When Buddha became enlightened, the first thing he said to his disciples was, ‘I would like to go to Yashodhara and talk to her.’ His wife….Ananda was very much disturbed (Anand was disturbed because he is followed Buddha’s word to become sanyasi). He said, ‘What is the point of your going back to the palace and talking to your wife? You have left her. Twelve years have passed.’And Ananda was a little bit disturbed also, because how can a Buddha think about his wife? Buddhas are not expected to think that way.When the others had left, Ananda said to Buddha, ‘This is not good. What will people think?’Buddha said, ‘What will people think? I have to express my gratitude to her, and I have to thank her for all the help she gave me. And I have to give something of that which has happened to me – I owe that much to her. I will have to go.’Read both Ananda and Buddha’s words carefully, Ananda wanted to follow something, decorum, rules, while Buddha through his self-awareness wanted to act. Buddha is not follower. He is not identified with his sanyas.He came back. He went to the palace. He saw his wife. Certainly Yashodhara was mad! This man escaped one night without even saying anything to her.She said to Buddha, ‘Couldn’t you have trusted me? You could have said that you wanted to go, and I would have been the last woman in the world to prevent you. Couldn’t you have trusted me even that much?’ And she was crying. Twelve years of anger! And this man had escaped like a thief in the middle of the night – suddenly, without giving a single hint to her.Buddha apologized and he said, ‘It was out of non-understanding. I was ignorant, I was not aware. But now I am aware and I know – that’s why I have come back. You have helped me tremendously. Forget those old things, now there is no point in thinking about ‘spilt milk’. Look at me! Something great has happened. I have come home. And I felt my first duty was towards you: to come, and to convey, and to share my experience with you.’The anger gone, the rage subsided, Yashodhara looked out through her tears. ‘Yes, this man has changed tremendously.’ This was not the same man she used to know. This was not the same man, not at all; this looked like a great luminosity… She could almost see the aura, a light around him. And he was so peaceful and so silent; he had almost disappeared. His presence was almost absence. And then, in spite of herself, she forgot what she was doing – she fell at his feet and she asked to be initiated.Rabindranath has written a poem about this incident when Buddha comes.Yashodhara asked him one thing. ‘Just tell me one thing,’ she said. ‘Whatever you have attained… I can see you have attained, whatsoever it is. I don’t know what it is – just tell me one thing: was it not possible to attain it here in this house?’ And Buddha could not say no. It was possible to attain it here in this house. Now he knew. Because it has nothing to do with forest or with town, with family or with ashram – it has nothing to do with any place; it has something to do with your innermost core. It is available everywhere.When Kabir, Nanak, Osho reach to their Buddhahood they understood where everything in the society has gone wrong, by taking the sanyas. They created new path through their experience and insight, they asked the people to do mediation, don’t renounce but mediate wherever you are, and without mediation, without your own insight even if you will become sanyasi you will be carrying the world with you wherever you are. With meditation living in the world you will be untouched by world.Krishna tells Arjuna that person of your stature, to whom many people will like to follow but they will be misguided by their unconsciousness. So please be self-aware and remember that it’s not only the war but many other responsibility universe has given to you. There will be many people will follow you, so come out of your self-unconsciousness and act from self-consciousness, in this war by fulfilling your assignment of the universe Fight Without Enmity.
Diwali gifts are not just the materialist things that you exchange with your friends and family but instead, they are the feelings that represent love and gratitude.The efforts you put in to pick a gift for someone shows how much he/she means to you. Therefore, it is very important to pick thoughtful gifts for your loved ones.How to do that?Well, we have 5 easy Diwali gift ideas that might help you!Keep Reading!Deity BookmarksBookmarks make for a great gift, especially for those who like to read. So, if there’s an avid reader in your circle then you can buy a bookmark for him/her. Since you’d be giving a bookmark as a Diwali gift; you can pick the ones made in deity designs like an idol of Lord Ganesha or Goddess Laxmi. There are a variety of designs available online. You just need to devote some time to pick a beautiful bookmark. You can check out various Deepavali offers to shop for Diwali gifts.SweetsThe ritual of exchanging sweets on Diwali may sound boring but it is an unsaid gesture. Gifting mithai on Diwali is an age-old tradition of and you can make this ritual interesting by replacing dairy-based sweets with healthy desserts like an oatmeal cake/cookies or even with a pack of exotic chocolates. You can also combine sweets with other gifts. It will make your friends and family feel special. You can buy desserts and sweets online or at any local sweet or bakery shop. JewelleryIf you’re searching for a perfect gift for a woman then Jewellery is a great option. You can gift her anything from a pair of Silver or Brass earrings to embossed necklaces, rings, bracelets and cuffs, etc. You can shop for Jewellery online at any store’s Diwali jewellery collection. If you shop now, you might get amazing Diwali offers on jewellery.LampsDiwali is known as the “Festival of Lights”; therefore, Lamps would be a perfect Diwali gift for your friends and family. You can shop for Lamps online and with a plethora of sales going on, you may even get amazing Diwali offers on jewellery. You can also make lamps and lights strings at home. There are so many DIY videos available on YouTube which will help you to create your own Diwali gift. Such gestures will make your loved ones feel extra special because nothing can compare to a handmade Diwali gift. Silver CoinsSilver coins signify prosperity and wealth that’s why they are great Diwali gifts for your friends and family. You can shop for coins embossed with deity figures like Lord Ganesha or Goddess Laxmi. Combine it with traditional Diwali sweets or exotic chocolates! Which of these gift ideas did you like the most? Tell us in the comments below!
IT Stands for "Information Technology". Basic fundamental knowledge and abilties are a necessity for sustainable profession increase. As a student your interest have to no longer be famous or excessive stage information era training or certification, but should instead your interest have to be in developing power and intensity in the fundamentals. Very frequently many newcomers pass the basics to save time and money. And of course this method usually backfires and charges even more by way of hindering profession boom. Information Technology is running subject and performed vital function within the training development of any u . S .. Government has predominant responsibilities to provide scholar unique understanding about IT Training, for example what is IT? What are the uses of IT? How are we able to apply in the discipline? It offers quite a few information to the human beings round the world via this technology. It allows in financial improvement and makes the u . S . Stronger and effective. The fundamental benefit of Information Technology Training Program is that on every occasion any student need to observe about IT he/she get information and additionally assist in improvement of the us of a thorough his ability. Today IT becomes fundamental needs of humans in existence in each element. Now such training is furnished by distinctive multinational organizations and software homes. And after Training they provide activity for the man or woman's career boom. Even today IT system is used for attendance for the corporation's. People do exceptional courses in IT including Ms Word, Excel, and PowerPoint and many others to get licensed from any universities or pleasant institutes.Online Training is likewise used for the pupil or another folks who need to get knowledge. In IT on line courses people used special publications such as Machine Language, assembly language, high level languages, compilers interpreters (item oriented programming).IT Training additionally provide for running device idea and characteristic of operating device, DOS, Internal and outside command. For networking LAN (neighborhood area network), WAN (Wide Area Network). It is likewise used for commercial enterprise utility E-trade, internet browser for mailing to any consumer. IT extensively utilized in making website through adobe image shop, Flash,HTML, CSS, MYSQL and many others used in unique functions.050-694 practice questionsC90-06A test questions050-730 test questionsP2090-018 study guideAZ-301 fullversion pdf1z0-335 Oracle Fusion Financials Cloud Service: Receivables 2016 Implementation Essentials exam pass assuranceGB0-190 braindumpsannex f certification bir test answers650-325 SP Video Phase II Cable Access cbtC2020-622 exam review1z0-449 Oracle Big Data 2016 Implementation Essentials Jsfiddle exam pdf answers1z0-160 sample questions 2019PEGAPCDC80V1_2019 practice questionsEC0-479.pdf fullversion pdfNS0-506.pdf reading practice testTawk recent dump fileMB2-706 Microsoft Dynamics CRM Online Deployment actualtest pdf1Z0-935 fullversion pdfCAT-240 exam collectionP8010-005 mock examC2040-441 exam helpIIA-CIA-Part3.pdf test pdf answers9A0-407 practice examM2010-727 Cloud and Smarter Infrastructure Cloud & Service Management Sales Mastery v actual exam pdfE20-260 VPLEX Specialist for Implementation Engineers dumpsPeople who need to do proper jobs in IT they could use those courses or online education and making practice themselves to gain a better intention in lifestyles. Basically Online IT guides /schooling made humans existence easier, humans do jobs, and take a look at make themselves betterment for their destiny. How ever nowadays existence could be very fast for their boom profession is very rapid. IT has made brilliant achievement together with developing business zone and agencies. Therefore IT has blanketed all of the Computer courses training and programming. Best Universities and Institute ought to offer IT Training packages and publications or provide Opportunity to the humans to get online schooling.
Gifting isn’t always about roses or a box of chocolate. In fact, it is (and should be) about something that she can cherish for longer time like a handmade choker necklace or a delicate pendant necklace. After all, picking a perfect gift for any woman comes with a lot of expectations.Feeling confused?Well, don’t be because we are here to help you! Check out these 5 Necklace Styles that any woman would love as a gift!Boho Necklace:Boho necklaces are meant to add a quirky vibe to even the simplest of the outfits. There is a wide range of designs available online but if you’re looking for the best ones then nothing’s better than a chunky silver necklace. It looks extravagant but is comfortable to wear at the same time. So, don’t wait and shop for boho necklaces online. To add a personal touch to your gift, give her a handwritten note along with the necklace. Pendant Necklace:A Pendant necklace is not just a necklace but a way to impress any woman (in seconds). Don't confuse the basic look of a Pendant necklace with boring appeal. It is, in fact, a sure-fire way to win any woman's heart and here's why:The very first appealing thing about a pendant necklace is that it can be paired with ethnics, westerns and indo-westerns alike. The second thing is that looks classy and is comfortable to wear as well. If we talk about the third thing (and the most important factor), it is the fact that a pendant necklace comes with an affordable price tag.So, what are you waiting for? Go to any online jewellery store and grab the best looking designs at affordable prices. Threaded Necklace:A Threaded necklace will give a classy update to her jewellery collection. Available in a variety of designs, a threaded necklace would make for an amazing gift for any woman.Since there a plethora of designs available online, it might be a bit confusing for you to pick one design for her. If you ask us, you should go for Indian tribal necklace crafted in monochrome (single-colored) threads tied in knots.Such styles will surely win her heart. Choker Necklace:Unlike every guy's expectations, a choker necklace is super comfortable to wear. You can gift her an oxidized silver necklace with a chunky appeal or a delicate choker necklace that will look good with her work wear outfits.Choker necklaces are easily available online. To make it a complete gift you can club it with a pair of oxidized silver earrings or Meenakari jhumkas. Layered Necklace:Next up on our list is a Layered necklace and let us tell you one thing, you can never go wrong with layered necklaces. They can give a playful spin to any look. The best part is that they are in trend and work well with a wide range of western, ethnic, indo-western as well as work outfits. The best styles feature double-stranded necklaces that are perfect for a standalone look as well as the single-chain necklaces that can be layered with other necklaces from her collection. Which of these necklaces styles will you give her? Tell us in the comments below!
The Biggest lie of this century is "Man and Woman are Equal".We are never born as equals and never will be.We are two different body,two different brain and two different mind but a girl always want to behave like a boy and parents also wish to have a boy.its because in any society a man deserve more freedom and power instead of a woman and the reason is we believe in any culture or religion,Man is created in the image of God,.Even when we address the whole human beings we call "Mankind" not "Womankind".For thousands of generations Men are endowed with prime responsibilities to protect the life force on Earth and woman are there to nourish it for the best as an helping hand.But man and woman both deserve equality.So the confusion is if man and woman are not equals then how can we have equality? Here we generally find the negative aspect of "equality",because of the similarities between "fair" and "equal" .We generally think if there is no equality ,there is unfairness.But actually unfairness means not having equal rights.Now let me clarify with an example,A Lion lives in a den and a rabbit in a burrow.A Lion can never be fit in a burrow or a den can never met those requirements for a rabbit to call it burrow.They have different dwelling based on their basic requirements.So we can't call this unfairness but if a rabbit finds no place to make a burrow and a Lion takes all to make a den then it's called unfairness. Beacuse here they don't have equal rights to live.Slimilarly if a Man wears a gown and a woman wears a coat think how hilarious it would look because those were not meant to wear . We both are different and our requirements are different but our basic rights should be equal for both .if a woman insists on wearing a coat thinking it as a "right" to wear same thing what men wears then it's just misconception of "Right" and stubbornness to show that man and woman are equal.This is what happend in most countries.This is the twist what they need to understand about what is "Right".Its true that we always showed our superiority on women ,which led the women to imitate men,so that they don't feel inferior.But the truth is no one is superior here ,and we always need each other.And the results for our misbehaviour to them is very shameful. They have lost they identify and beauty of a woman by generating a man like spirit inside them.Some of them forgot that being women is very important,it's about value,beauty,love,and everything we men are lack off but they complete us.they should think that being woman is a gift which they need to keep safe and protect instead of thinking that being women is a sin.But we are not in a position to say this cause we made this happen.And we have nothing to say , Absolutely nothing.
Blissful State - In Gita Verse 3.39 Thus the wise living entity’s pure consciousness becomes covered by his eternal enemy in the form of lust, which is never satisﬁed and which burns like ﬁre.Krishna tells Arjuna that our biggest enemy is our desires. Which cannot be fulfilled. In my Bhagavad Gita Verse 1.12, I wrote that Needs can be fulfilled, but desires or wants cannot be.What is desire? Have you looked into your desiring mind ever? Have you encountered it? Have you tried any meditation on it? What is desire?You desire a certain house; you work for it, you work hard. You destroy your whole life for it – then the house is there. But is fulfillment there? Once the house is there, suddenly you feel very empty – you feel more empty than before, because before there was an occupation to achieve this house. Now it is there: immediately your mind starts looking for something else to get occupied with. Now there are bigger houses; your mind starts thinking of those bigger houses. There are bigger palaces…. You desire a woman and you have achieved your desire, then suddenly your hands are again empty. Again you start desiring some other woman.This is the nature of desire. Desire always goes ahead of you. Desire is always in the future. Desire is a hope. Desire cannot be fulfilled because its very nature is to remain unfulfilled and projected in the future. It is always on the horizon.You can rush, you can run towards the horizon, but you will never reach: wherever you reach you will find the horizon has receded back. And the distance between you and the horizon remains absolutely the same. You have ten thousand rupees, the desire is for twenty thousand rupees; you have twenty thousand rupees, the desire is for forty thousand rupees. The distance is the same; the mathematical proportion is the same.Whatsoever you have, desire always goes ahead of it.What Krishna says come out of the desire, - Buddha created technique for it. It will be simple and practical for us. Rather then trying to understand Krishna’s word let’s have our own experience with Buddha’s technique.Before desire and before knowing, how can I say I am?Buddha used this technique and he said to his disciples not to do anything else but just one thing: when a thought arises, note it down. Buddha used to say that when a thought arises, note down that a thought is arising. Just inside, note it: now a thought is arising, now a thought has arises, now a thought is disappearing. Just remember that now the thought is arising, now the thought has arisen, now the thought is disappearing, so that you don’t get identified with it.It is very beautiful and very simple. A desire arises. You are walking on the road; a beautiful car passes by. You look at it – and you have not even looked and the desire to possess it arises. Do it. In the beginning just verbalize; just say slowly, ‘I have seen a car. It is beautiful. Now a desire has arisen to possess it. Just verbalize.In the beginning it is good; if you can say it loudly, it is very good. Say loudly, ‘I am just noting that a car has passed, the mind has said it is beautiful, and now desire has arisen and I must possess this car.’ Verbalize everything, speak loudly to yourself and immediately you will feel that you are different from it. Note it.When you have become efficient in noting, there is no need to say it loudly. Just inside, note that a desire has arisen. A beautiful woman passes; the desire has come in. Just note it – as if you are not concerned, you are just noting the fact that is happening – and then suddenly you will be out of it.Buddha says, ‘Note down whatsoever happens. Just go on noting, and when it disappears, again note that now that desire has disappeared, and you will feel a distance from the desire, from the thought.’This technique says:Before desire and before knowing, how can I say I am?And if there is no desire and if there is no thought, how can you say I AM? How can I say I AM?Krishna says once there is no desire, you will find no thoughts or lust regarding life. Through your subjectivity you are connected with the whole, universe, that will use your body to respond in the present moment without expectation of fruits. In your blissful state you will be able to fight this war.
Being at your best self requires a lot of work. There’s your beauty regimen, skincare routine, and other practices to keep you healthy, happy, and beautiful inside out. However, many women tend to forget that aside from beauty and skincare routines, physical health requires more work, time, and effort as it is the base of everything.If you want to start your journey to stay fit for good, here are the eight fitness secrets that you should know. In fact, experts state that these are the fitness regimen that every woman should know and apply on a regular basis to improve the quality of life.Read more at www.thepinkvelvetblog.com
Here’s an overview of the most common and stylish types of earrings.Stud EarringsStud earrings are basically small earrings that stay on the earlobe only. They are lightweight and easy to carry as compared to other styles of earrings. Stud earrings work well for those who want to add a touch of glam to their outfits without having to wear heavy jewellery styles. If you’re also one of those women then go ahead and make an addition to your jewellery collection right away.If you want to create a timeless look then American Diamond stud earrings are one of the best styles that you can invest in. Such styles will make for a perfect addition to your office wear jewellery collection as well. However, if you don’t want to spend much then you can also buy regular fashion stud earrings. 1 pair of fashion stud earrings will cost you around 150-200 Rs.DROP EARRINGSDrop earrings, as the name suggests, come with a lower drop-shaped attachment that hangs from the earlobe. Although there a literally hundreds of options available online, the best styles are the ones that have a versatile appeal (like Pearl drop earrings).Easy on eyes and classy to style, drop earrings are one of the best-suited jewellery styles for corporate environments. For the times when you can’t decide the earrings for your work look, throw in a pair of pearl drop earrings and you’re good to go. DANGLE EARRINGSDangle earrings sway with every step that you take. They have a lower attachment that comes in a variety of lengths. You can get anything from a pair of small earrings to the ones that extend beyond your shoulders. Every style looks extremely charming. So, don’t wait and shop for dangle earrings online at any online jewellery store.HOOP EARRINGSAnother corporate-styling suitable jewellery style, hoop earrings, as the name suggests, are circular or semi-circular in shape. Hoop earrings look simple yet charming. They can literally make any outfit pop with almost zero efforts; therefore, they make for a great addition to any woman’s work wear jewellery collection.CHANDELIER EARRINGSChandelier earrings come with layered embellishments. The ultra glamorous look of Chandelier earrings makes them perfect to be adorned on parties, weddings and festive occasions.Due to heavy embellishments, chandelier earrings are heavy in weight. So, if you are not comfortable wearing heavy jewellery styles then you should invest in subtle designs with fewer insets and adornments. CLUSTER EARRINGSCluster earrings are pressed against your earlobe. They come with flattering adornments and they use butterfly backs for stability.Cluster earrings can be worn with both casual and party wear outfits.Which of these earrings’ styles do you already have in your collection? Tell us in the comments below!
Flat-breasted love doll is not only a phenomenon in JapanI can't imagine going back to humans. I want to be buried with her and take her to heaven. Movable heads - According to industry sources, about 2,000 lifelike dolls are sold each year in Japan, starting at $6,000 and equipped with adjustable fingers, movable head and genitals.Others complain that sex robot manufacturers have mistakenly created d cup sex doll that are described as "family friendly." He complained: "People always want to get something from you, such as money or promise. When I return to Saori, my heart is shaking," the father of two married children is having a picnic with his plastic partner. Added.The documentary reveals the trend of addiction, and the documentary focuses on how life-size GYNOID doll contribute to loneliness and alienation. "Ultimately, Emma will be able to move her arm and have a 'breathing' chest. In addition, she will be able to walk with her own legs."The company's first AI-enabled Japanese sex doll model was recently released at a price of £2,799. He added: "When I took Mayu home for the first time, my wife was very angry. These days, she reluctantly endured. When my daughter realized that this was not a huge Barbie, she Frightened, saying it was furry - but now she is big enough to share Mayu's clothes."Although flat chested love dolls is not just a Japanese phenomenon, sales in the country are booming. Last year, the doll company Dutch wife revealed that in Japan alone, it has sold more than 2,000 lustful sex machines (£4,600 each).SEX robots that can use the robot's chest "breathing" will be released to the seed market. The British agent of the sex doll said that the technology of its top model " Emma" is making a huge leap.Tokyo (AFP) - When the sparks in Ozaki's marriage were extinguished, he found an unusual way to fill the romantic vacancy - a silicone doll he swears is his life's love.As the porn star Korina Kova's fans will soon be able to "sleep every night", because the adult actress will present an anatomically correct, surreal sex doll version. The X-star star teamed up with TPE sex doll to make a replica of her face and body for £2,800, including "advanced lightweight core platinum silicone," so admirers can compete with the exclusive star. Live together.Nakajima said: "My son accepted, my daughter can't accept it." Nakajima said that his wife has banned Saori from going home. "I will never date a real woman anymore - they are ruthless," he insisted on in his messy Tokyo apartment, sandwiched between two former dolls and a headless rubber torso.For me, she is a human. Although the pillow fight is one-way, Nakajima firmly believes that he has found true love and said: "Even if it is a prostitute, I will never deceive her, because for me, she is human." With the birth rate in Japan Struggling, more and more men (known as "grass eater") are turning away from the male values of love and tradition, living a quiet, non-competitive life.https://www.urdolls.com/aparts-suchs-good-doll-blood-tid-2.htmlhttps://www.urdolls.com/render-kind-lover-doll-wives-tid-25.html
Be Lotus - In Gita Verse 4.18 One who sees inaction in action and action in inaction is intelligent among men, and he is in the transcendental position, although engaged in all sorts of activities.Just beautiful. Krishna says that in the middle of the world how to not get affected by others and from ourselves also. From others means we should not become anyone's followers and from ourselves means from our identity, judgements, anxiety, opinions, etc. We are not only living in the outer world but also our inner world of our identity, judgements etc.We need to learn to live with others and with ourselves also. Unless we live with others we will not be able to understand our connection with the universe and unless we live with ourselves we will not be able to experience ourselves as part of the universe. Live like Lotus.Let’s understand this verse through Tantra approach:Tantra - to transcend their sexual energy they are with each other and with their sexual energy, full of lust, desire. But unless they melt with each other and find intangible connection with each others, they are not allowed to make love. Once they melt with each other they are able to raise their own sexual energy. In the process they find their own godliness.The Indian Tantra is very scientific. It is the science of how to transform sexual energy into spiritual energy; how to create the dynamo that changes, transforms, transmutes energy; how to move from the lower to the higher; how to move from the earth to heaven. It is a way from sex to superconsciousness. It is all very technicalThe greatest training that is involved and the most difficult problem that arises is that Tantra allows a man to make love to a woman only when man has lost all sexual attraction towards the woman. There is no sexual attraction at all. That is the whole process. The woman becomes almost a mother to you or a sister to you a goddess. She has to be worshipped. In Tantra ritual the woman has to be worshipped as a goddess. And for months together one has to practise that worship.The woman sits naked in front of you on a throne and you worship and you bow down and you pray to her and you create the idea in the deepest core of consciousness that she is just a representative of all womanhood, motherhood. She is a goddess.Day by day, gradually you lose all carnal interest in her. You become auto-hypnotised with your own idea. The day you lose all prurient feelings for her and you can look through her and her body no longer excites you and no notice her body she then becomes luminous, she is just a presence only then does the Master allows you to love her. Now this love will have a totally different quality. There is no sensuality involved in it, no attraction involved in it, no physicality involved in it. It is absolutely spiritual — a meeting of two souls.Now read the above para again and again to understand what Krishna is saying through this verse. The above para says that till the time you give up all the attraction towards woman you are in action, doer, when you have dropped all the attractions you are in inaction. In the Tantra they give practical experience of even when your body action is not there, still you are acting, acting through your desire, your attraction, you are in other words aggressive. In that moment whatever you do will be actions. May or may make love to your woman but still you are in actions. When you have dropped your attraction and then allowed to make love means your act is of Inaction. In my Bhagavad Gita Verse 4.17 blog I have wrote in detail regarding Inaction. Once you become self-conscious and then respond in the present moment is Inaction. So when Tantra allows the man to make love only after they drop all the attraction towards the sex that is Inaction of self-consciousness.Krishna is saying that unless you transcend everything regarding any act, don’t act, once you have transcended act. In that activity you will know bliss, love, ecstasy, and expanded states of consciousness.
Enlightenment - In Gita Verse 4.19 One is understood to be in full knowledge whose every endeavor is devoid of desire for sense gratiﬁcation. He is said by sages to be a worker for whom the reactions of work have been burned up by the ﬁre of perfect knowledge.Krishna is saying that unless you are totally free from desire to take action, don’t act. Like in my Bhagavad Gita Verse 4.18, blog I wrote how Tantra is transcending action into inaction.Let’s see the Tao’s approach also for how without any desire we can act.Tao has different approach - Tao means let go. Wherever your energy moves, allow it to move. Don’t swim — float with the river. Swimming is a technique — if you are just flowing with the river what technique is needed? Technique means that you have a direction, you want to reach somewhere. Technique means that you want to impose your will on reality, you want to be someone. somewhere, in some state; you have a desire, you have a projection.Tao says you are already there, you are already that. There is nowhere to go and nothing else to be, so just relax and let things happen. And whatsoever happens is good — because there is no denial in Tao, no rejection, no repression. It is the greatest rebellious attitude possible. Never has man’s intelligence risen higher than in Tao. But there is no way to it. You cannot be guided to it.Tao means let go. Wherever your energy moves, allow it to move. Don’t swim — float with the river. Swimming is a technique — if you are just flowing with the river what technique is needed? Technique means that you have a direction, you want to reach somewhere. Technique means that you want to impose your will on reality, you want to be someone. somewhere, in some state; you have a desire, you have a projection.Tao says you are already there, you are already that. There is nowhere to go and nothing else to be, so just relax and let things happen. And whatsoever happens is good — because there is no denial in Tao, no rejection, no repression. It is the greatest rebellious attitude possible. Never has man’s intelligence risen higher than in Tao. But there is no way to it. You cannot be guided to it.Tao has its own tantra. The first thing: Tao never divides into the lower and the higher, that is the beauty of it. The moment you divide reality into the lower and the higher you are getting schizophrenic. The moment you say something is sacred and something is profane you have divided. The moment you say something is material and something is spiritual you have divided, you have split reality. Reality is one. There is neither matter nor spirit. Reality is one. It expresses itself in many forms: on one level as matter, on another level as spiritual. The spiritual is not higher and the material is not lower — they stand on the same level. That is the Taoist attitude. Life is one. Existence is one. It is a tremendous oneness and there is no evaluation.The first thing in Tao is to drop duality. Sex is not lower and samadhi is not higher. Samadhi and sex are both expressions of the same energy. There is nothing laudable about samadhi and there is nothing condemnable about sex. The Tao acceptance is total, absolute. There is nothing wrong about the body and there is nothing beautiful about the spirit — they are both beautiful. Devil and God are one in Tao, heaven and hell are one in Tao, good and bad are one in Tao — it is the greatest non-dual understanding. There is no condemnation and no preparation. To prepare for what? One has simply to relax and be.If you can love a woman spontaneously…. In fact, Tao will say that Tantra has a wrong attitude, because you have to prepare. Preparation means that you are preparing for the future. Tao knows only one time — which is now; and only one place — which is here. Now is the only time and here is the only place. Here is heaven and now is nirvana. So don’t prepare.Depends upon individual nature, feminine or masculine. If your nature is feminine the adopt Tao’s approach, if your nature is masculine, adopt Tantra method. I am saying regarding nature and not body. You may be male and having feminine nature and you may be female and having masculine nature. Both the methods are good but what suits you practice that to act from desireless.Basic thing is take action without desire learn that, practice it.Krishna says unless one's action is desireless the cannot gain perfect knowledge, Enlightenment.
Vipassana - In Gita Verse 4.29 Still others, who are inclined to the process of breath restraint to remain in trance, practice by offering the movement of the outgoing breath into the incoming, and the incoming breath into the outgoing, and thus at last remain in trance, stopping all breathing. Others, curtailing the eating process, offer the outgoing breath into itself as a sacriﬁce.In Bhagavad Gita when Krishna is using the word sacrifice only means that sacrifice your ego. Learn to sacrifice ego, grow in consciousness. In this verse talks regarding Vipassana. Breathing.Whether it’s science, religion or spirituality everyone talks about breath. Even science says that when you are angry and if you focus on breathing your biochemistry changes. In the process you calm down. Religion and spirituality they directed you through various process of breathing and you will be able to turn from objective world to subjective world. Turn In.Vipassana is such a simple thing that even a small child can do it. Vipassana can be done in three ways - you can choose which one suits you the best.The first is: Awareness of your actions, your body, your mind, your heart. Walking, you should walk with awareness. Moving your hand, you should move with awareness, knowing perfectly that you are moving the hand. You can move it without any consciousness, like a mechanical thing. You are on a morning walk; you can go on walking without being aware of your feet. Be alert of the movements of your body. While eating, be alert of the movements that are needed for eating. Taking a shower, be alert of the coolness that is coming to you, the water falling on you and the tremendous joy of it.... Just be alert. It should not go on happening in an unconscious state.And the same about your mind: whatever thought passes on the screen of your mind, just be a watcher. Whatever emotion passes on the screen of your heart, just remain a witness - don't get involved, don't get identified, don't evaluate what is good, what is bad; that is not part of your meditation. Your meditation has to be choiceless awareness.The second form is breathing, becoming aware of breathing. As the breath goes in, your belly starts rising up, and as the breath goes out, your belly starts settling down again. So the second method is to be aware of the belly, its rising and falling. Just the very awareness of the belly rising and falling ... And the belly is very close to the life sources because the child is joined with the mother's life through the navel. Behind the navel is his life's source. So when the belly rises up, it is really the life energy, the spring of life that is rising up and falling down with each breath. That too is not difficult, and perhaps may be even easier, because it is a single technique.In the first, you have to be aware of the body, you have to be aware of the mind, you have to be aware of your emotions, moods. So it has three steps. The second sort has a single step: just the belly, moving up and down. And the result is the same. As you become more aware of the belly, the mind becomes silent, the heart becomes silent, the moods disappear.The third is to be aware of the breath at the entrance, when the breath goes in through your nostrils. Feel it at that extreme - the other polarity from the belly - feel it from the nose. The breath going in gives a certain coolness to your nostrils. Then the breath going out ... breath going in, breath going out....That too is possible. It is easier for men than for women. The woman is more aware of the belly. Most men don't even breathe as deep as the belly. Their chest rises up and falls down, because a wrong kind of athletics prevails over the world. Certainly it gives a more beautiful form to the body if your chest is high and your belly is almost non-existent.These are the three forms. Any one will do. And if you want to do two forms together, you can do two forms together; then the effort will become more intense. If you want to do all three forms together, you can do all three forms together. Then the process will be quicker. But it all depends on you, whatever feels easy.Remember: easy is right.As meditation becomes settled, mind silent, the ego will disappear. You will be there, but there will be no feeling of 'I'. Then the doors are open. Just wait with a loving longing, with a welcome in the heart for that great moment, the greatest moment in anybody's life - enlightenment.It comes ... it certainly comes. It has never delayed for a single moment. Once you are in the right tuning, it suddenly explodes in you, transforms you. The old man is dead and the new man has arrived.Krishna says that if you practice any of the Breathing process you will find that you can take all your actions without any attachments. Just see the result of science and all of us will realize that our anger which is nothing but from our attachments will calm down. So it's a question of how and when we start practicing instead of collecting all the data regarding breath. This is moving from knowledge to knowing.
Add fun to your sex life sex dollD cup sex doll changed my life. This is definitely not your average photo series. Every night, Dirk and Jenny watch TV, chat, eat dinner and have sex. Just like other couples-Jenny is made of silicone. The "couple" has been living together for 8 years, and it seems they have no intention of ending the relationship.Copenhagen-based photojournalist Benita Marcusson reached out to several sex doll enthusiasts through an online forum and convinced them to let her take pictures of them with her precious possessions. Well, everyone in life has one problem or another. Mine is sexual. Simple and clear, I cum too fast. When I'm with a TPE sex doll, I get excited. I tried several treatments prescribed by doctors and even psychologists, pills, drugs.Without harming my health, no one seems to be working as I like. See, I rarely have the opportunity to be with a woman. Therefore, when I do this, I will soon be awakened and end up with an early release. Sometimes even when I enter her. The other I can last 15 seconds. Yes, 15 seconds is good for me. Ladies don't like this.Known for its ultra-realistic silicone sex dolls, it created an artificial intelligence engine called Harmony. With it, users can make custom personalities for theirpregnant sex doll and then learn about them through conversations using mobile apps. Starting at the end of this year, Abyss will start selling animated doll heads with blinks, moving lips and a built-in AI chat robot engine.Ann thinks that she can stay with me even if I last 1 minute. Angela, my fourth can't live with someone who can't last. After 4 months, she left me because I was great in every way, but the bedroom. Angela's sexuality is like climbing Everest. It's impossible for me. So one day I was with a colleague to discuss my past love experiences and talk about sex. He was a little weird, but I decided to limit my little problems to him.He soon admitted that he had encountered the same problem. I think I've finished listening. He will soon prescribe the drugs he has tried, and so on, and then he overcomes the usual practice. Related to the host, loneliness is a huge problem in the United Kingdom and the reason for the exponential growth of the sex doll industry. For her, what surprised her most was that her clients were less sexual. They just need to be company.With heads scattered around the factory, this is a scene of making sex robots in a Chinese factory. Disturbing images show that these GYNOID doll were put together before they were sold to customers who wanted to be sexually lustful with them.Voila, there are many legitimate reasons why someone wants to rely on the services of the Japanese sex doll. Maybe you are shy and can't be with other people, or you want to perfect your sex skills before entering the real world. Or to accompany or add interest to your existing sex life. In essence, it is a sex toy like all other toys. If you rely on the service of a vibrator, dildo or flashlight, then why not splurge on sex dolls? I'm not here to judge.http://vedadate.com/member/blog_post_view.php?postId=38685https://www.urdolls.com/love-doll-c-58.html
The way Gibran describes religion and preaches, The Prophet has a potential to be the next Bible...
Live Naturally - In Gita Verse 4.41 One who acts in devotional service, renouncing the fruits of his actions, and whose doubts have been destroyed by transcendental knowledge, is situated factually in the self. Thus he is not bound by the reactions of work, O conqueror of riches.Krishna says one who act from surrendering, his focus is not on the fruits. When he surrendered he has transcended his knowledge to knowing.Recollect from your own life, when you love someone you surrender yourself to that person, and when you do anything for him your focus is not on the fruits but how can I do something more.You can surrender to anyone only if you have a love for that person. Otherwise you cannot surrender. You can love to anyone if you have love yourself. Journey of self-love starts from knowing self. Before you can Love yourself you have to know yourself.One has to begin not by loving oneself, because you don't know who you are. Who are you going to love? If you start by loving yourself, you will love only your ego, which is not your self, which is your false personality. Almost everybody loves his personality; everybody loves his ego. Even the ugliest woman, if you say to her, “How beautiful you are,” will not refuse to accept it.Yes, I would like you to love yourself, because unless you love yourself, you cannot love anybody else. You don't know what love is if you have not loved yourself. But before you can love yourself you have to know yourself; hence love is secondary, meditation is primary.And the miracle is, if you meditate and slowly, slowly get out of the ego and out of your personality and realize your real self, love will come on its own. You don't have to do anything, it is a spontaneous flowering. But it blossoms only in a certain climate, and that climate I call meditation. In the climate of silence - no-mind, no disturbance inside, absolute clarity, peace and silence - suddenly, you will see thousands of flowers have opened within you, and their fragrance is love.Naturally, first you will love yourself, because that will be your first encounter. First you will become aware of the fragrance that is arising in you and the light that has been born in you, and the blissfulness that is showering on you. Then loving will become your nature. Then you will love many; then you will love all.Love has to become not a relationship, not a narrowing, but a broadening. Love has to become your very quality, your very character, your very being, your radiance. Just as the sun radiates light not for anyone in particular, unaddressed, meditation radiates love unaddressed.Of course, first it is felt within oneself, for oneself, and then it starts radiating all around. Then you love not only human beings, you love trees, you love birds; you simply love, you are love.Live naturally. Live peacefully. Live inwardly. Just give a little time to yourself, being alone, being silent, just watching the inner scene of your mind. Slowly, slowly thoughts disappear. Slowly, slowly one day the mind is so still, so silent as if it is not there. Just this silence... in this moment you are not, as if you are empty.In this silence within you, you will find a new dimension of life. In this dimension greed does not exist, sex does not exist, anger does not exist, violence does not exist. It is not a credit to you; it is the new dimension beyond mind where love exists, pure, unpolluted by any biological urge; where compassion exists for no other reason - not to get any reward in heaven - because compassion is a reward unto itself.When you find new dimension within you, you will be overflowing with love, in that moment as there is no greed, no sex, no anger, violence doesnot exists. You will be flooded with love and surrender happens. As everyone of us has experience from our life when we love someone surrender happens, when you are overflowing with love, you love to whole, and surrender to whole happens, in the process you will be able to transcend your knowledge to knowing.Krishna tells Arjuna turn in, in that you will meet yourself, you will realize yourself, and you surrender to the whole. Then you don’t have to put any effort for focusing in this moment. Your attention from the fruits will be no more there. You will be able to look into the present moment and feel the whole within you, in that moment all your knowledge for karma will be transcend into knowing. As you will realize that in surrender you are just vehicle for whole to act and move, flow.
Pregnancy is a crucial time for most women as, for more than nine months they go through significant physical, mental, and emotional changes. There are many medical conditions that pregnant women have to go through as the baby is conceived and develops until labor and delivery. Maintaining a regular exercise is one of the best ways through which women can stay healthy and reduce pregnancy problems.There are many low impact exercises that can allow a pregnant woman to stay fit, prepare the body for labor and childbirth, improve the posture, and remove the discomforts usually associated with pregnancy. There are numerous studies and research that suggests that even small-time spend in physical activity can reduce the anxiety, stress, headaches, lack of sleep and even prevent gestational diabetes, nausea, and shortness of breath. There are certain gyms, fitness and wellness centers that offer prenatal exercise classes near me where different physical activities are offered. There are many exercises that pregnant women can easily perform which includes walking, stationary bike, low impact aerobics, yoga, Pilates, and swimming. If a woman is physically quite active before pregnancy, then it is easier for her to take part in a yoga class or perform any fitness activity on her own. If a woman has not exercised regularly then it is better for her to first consult with her health provider and also take part in a yoga class where an instructor can guide her on the posture and movements that will her stay healthy and strong. The obstetrician and gynecologist encourage pregnant women to exercise daily for at least 30 minutes or more if they do not have any other medical conditions such as asthma, diabetes, or heart disease. Most of the low impact exercises are easy to perform and deemed safe as long as pregnant women follow the safety measures and do not overdo the exercise. The safest and most healthy exercises include swimming, indoor cycling, using elliptical machines, brisk walking, yoga, and aerobic exercises. Prenatal yoga is special form of yoga which is designed to suit the needs of pregnant women and focus on the wellness and health of both the mother and child. The prenatal exercise classes near me help to provide adequate energy for women to remain active and energetic during pregnancy. The main purpose of the prenatal exercise classes is to reduce anxiety, enhance stamina, reduce back pain, and improve better functioning of backbone and cervix lungs. The different options that women have in prenatal exercise arePrenatal yogaYoga is one of the best ways to find and maintain a balance between your mind and body. Yoga is known to enhance mood, release muscle tension, and prepare the body for childbirth. Women do gentle stretches and certain postures while standing up and sitting down that relaxes the muscles. Water aerobicsOne of the ideal exercises to reduce pain during labor is swimming, and it also does not put any pressure on the joints and ligaments. The buoyancy of water helps a pregnant woman to feel lighter and stay fit without any impactPilatesPilates is similar to yoga, and it helps to elongate muscle and align the breathing with exercising movement. Pilates is considered safe if women maintain a set pattern and do not overdo.
Wrinkles are a very common problem. It will affect us someday or the other. Wrinkles appear on the face, neck as well as décolleté. Wrinkles will not only look unattractive. They will also make us appear old and cause health issues. Wrinkles can also block the small blood vessels that are there under our skin. Thus, it becomes difficult for lymph to function. You should also remember that age changes not alone contribute to the presence of wrinkles. The magnitude to which you take care of your skin will have a direct effect on the rapidity of its aging. So always take proper care of your facial skin and do not be afraid of the early appearance of wrinkles.Can premature skin aging take place?Several factors contribute to premature skin aging. These are:Poor lifestyle habits such as smoking tobacco, consumption of alcohol, fatty, sweet as well as salty food will never have a positive effect on any woman’s appearance.Solar radiation also plays a vital role. You should wear a hat or use sunblock when you are outside.Stress is actually negativity that will never make you look beautiful.Moreover, modern women are multitasking who handle several situations of life. It is in your hand that you should provide your skin with the necessary moisturization as well as protection. So you should use a beneficial anti-wrinkle cream. It is not possible for everyone to visit a cosmetologist daily. But you can cope with these imperfections by using a proper skin care cream, having a sound sleep, and reducing the bad lifestyle habits.There are many suitable creams and lotions available in the market. But most of them are costly and does not give great results. Just imagine how wonderful it would be if your wrinkles fades within 2 weeks and made you appear 10 years younger? Such a chance is high because now there is one such cream that promises a lot. So in this article, we will have a get to know in details about Goji cream.Become aware of the skincare product named Goji creamWith aging, cells present in our skin slow down. Cells will take a lot of time to renew. If more new cells appear, that means that you will be having more young skin. But it reduces as we start to age. Due to less cell formation, free radicals as well as ultraviolet rays, the tissues become weak and skin less elastic. Thus wrinkles appear easily. So with the use of this Goji cream, your skin will be receiving all the necessary nutrients that are essential for your skin. Goji cream will rejuvenate your skin and make you look young with a bright glow.It is a rejuvenating cream. Goji cream makes use of the natural as well as strong effects of Goji berry extract. It rejuvenates aging skin and then returns the earlier glow of youth. Due to aging, the natural production of collagen from the skin’s deeper layers diminishes over time. This Goji cream activates this production. Thus the skin looks highly elastic again and appears younger. There also occurs a delay in the process of aging. Goji berry is also rich in Vitamin C and E. They work to cause skin nourishment. The natural antioxidants assist in purging impurities, whereas amino acids level the tone and colorations. Grape seed oil is also present in this cream. It acts as a light moisturizer and is non-greasy. Our skin will easily absorb this cream. It prevents acne and eczema by balancing out the production of oil in the skin. For inducing regeneration of cell, Allantoin is present the cream. It is a natural chemical that lowers the inflammation, moisturizes sensitive cream and nourishes as well; it works by evening out the wrinkle lines. Jojoba oil that contains Vitamin E and B complex is present in it. This oil is an effective moisturizer that reduces inflammation along with redness from the dry skin apart from combating eczema as well as rosacea. It will repair previous skin damage gently and soothe any type of prevalent irritation.List of ingredients present in Goji cream and their effectivenessNatural ingredients in the composition of the active formula of this cream received a lot of importance. All the ingredients found in Goji cream strengthen its mode of action.Active plant-derived ingredientsGoji Berry ExtractGrape Seed OilJojoba OilAllantoinIt also contains a fragrance that comes from fresh-smelling plants. It is often a component of rose oil. The fragrance of Goji cream has an undertone of lemongrass as there is a distinct smell of citrus aroma. CitronellolGoji berries have a high content of Vitamin C and iron. Other ingredients that are present in the cream are for preserving the product along with its consistency.Betaine, along with vegetable oils, controls the moisture loss of the skin. It also neutralizes harsh environmental impacts like that of ultraviolet rays. Additionally, Goji berry extract works as a natural antioxidant. It accelerates collagen production too. If your skin has advanced for years already, then vitamin B, C, and E will aid the cells to quickly regenerate. Different amino acids present in the cream have a strong antioxidant property. Thus the cream works well for 24 hours in a day. It acts like a sponge and prevents moisture loss from the skin. It provides deep hydration and causes slowing down of the process of aging. Thus skin pigmentation that comes along with to age fades away. You can check the before as well as after pictures of the users who used Goji revitalizing cream. The pictures will confirm how effective this cream is in gifting you a healthy and radiant skin.You Should Know That:It contains ultraviolet filters and active ingredients. They regenerate the cells present in the skin.It protects against any recurrence of wrinkles. This is because Goji cream enriches the face and the neck with various vitamins, minerals as well as amino acids.Amino acid will enhance the working mechanism of other ingredients present in Goji cream.Vitamin C will obstruct the free radicals from penetrating the skin. It is one of the main causes of skin aging. It will stimulate c0llagen synthesis, and thus, the skin will appear radiant each day.Vitamin B will improve the water retention ability of the skin. It will also increase epidermis regeneration and protect your sensitive skin. Your skin will become soft, and it will be responsible for proper skin hydration.Vitamin E, the vitamin of youth, and it will lower the process of aging of skin cells. It will reduce skin inflammation and add elasticity to your skin. It will also take care of your age spots if present.What will Goji cream do?Goji cream’s gentle formula will: Hydrate and nourish your skin Smoothen your skin tone Balance dry as well as oily patches Heal and repair any skin damage Reduce your wrinkles and fine lines Refresh your dark circles and tired eyes Renew firmness and elasticityGoji cream when used to treat wrinkles: It works best for wrinkles. It will give you the expected results. It will aid in removing wrinkles very fast. It will assist your skin health.Goji cream when used for anti-aging:It will give better results than any other products used for anti-aging.It will improve the health of your skin.It will let your skin appear younger and glow.It will make you look fresh.It will give you skin that is free of wrinkle.What are the anti-aging properties of Goji cream?This Goji cream for wrinkles will saturate your skin with nutrients. It will moisturize as well as protect your skin from the harsh environmental effects. Daily usage will be ensuring the softness and elasticity preservation of skin tissues.What is the use for a cream with Goji berries?Ripe Goji berry extract is the basis of the Goji revitalizing cream. It has huge properties that are useful. It includes amino acids, iron, Vitamin C, Vitamin B complex, and betaine. Daily use if this cream will help you to fight a huge variety of problems that appears with age. These are wrinkles, dryness, firmness, a fresh appearance of the skin, normal nutrition, hydration, change in facial contour, and pigmentation that comes along with age.What are the benefits of Goji cream?The makers of Goji cream uses a highly superior formula that works on the skin to give it a youthful look. It is ideal for skin rejuvenation. It contains natural ingredients such as Goji berries. It will restore skin elasticity for 10 days at a stretch. It has passed every clinical trial as well as dermatological test. Thus this product is certified. This cream is suitable for individuals who are above 35 years of age. However, anyone can use this cream. Both men and women prefer it as it has a high content of moisturizer and cause an increase in reduced skin collagen. If you do not know how this great skin care remedy for wrinkle work, it will be explained below in detail.It will offer a natural way of meeting skin requirements.It will protect your skin from the harmful UV rays.It will create a younger, radiant, and healthier appearance.It will remove wrinkles, fine lines, as well as other aging signs.It will restore collagen and skin elasticity.Goji Cream even out your skin texture.It will lighten skin marks, scars as well as dark spots.It will clear acne, pimple, and blemishes.It will remove dark circles as well as crow’s feet present around your eyes.It will revitalize your skin to make it appear healthy, young, and glowing.How does Goji Cream work?Goji cream is a rejuvenating cream. The formula of this cream contains Goji berries as well as other natural herbs that are immensely beneficial for your skin. The unique concoction of herbs makes it a great package for every skin issue. Almonds, along with walnuts, also add goodness to the cream. It will help you in getting rid of aging signs. It is an Ayurveda based formula; it makes your skin young and wrinkle-free. The rejuvenating cream will boost collagen, tighten, and firm skin. It will even out skin tone. Skin will become youthful and glowing.It is a lotion that you should apply topically. The Goji cream packs are economical. It penetrates deeply into the skin and then restores the health of the skin.Once you apply it, your skin will turn very elastic and smooth. After 2 weeks of regular usage, the complexion will improve. In 3 weeks, your face’s shape will be reacquiring much-précised contours. For great effects, use this cream one time each day.When and how should you use Goji cream?As Goji cream has a lightweight formula, you can also use it during the daytime. It will not cause any streaking, caking, and will never affect your foundation or makeup.Step 1: Clean your face with warm water. Use an antibacterial soap.Step 2: Dry it with a soft cloth so as to not irritate your skin.Step 3: Let it stay damp.Step 4: Pour out a little amount on your palm.Step 5: Rub your hands.Step 6: Apply it on your clean and damp skin, gently rubbing from the neck in an upward direction.Step 7: Apply it on face and neck.Step 8: Follow light massage and circular motion while applying the cream.Step 9: Leave the eye creases.Step 10: Let your skin absorb it. So let it be like that for 10-15 minutes.Step 11: At night, before going to bed, get rid of your makeup and repeat the same process as stated above.How should you use Goji cream for receiving its maximum effects?Goji cream will smoothen and moisturize your skin as soon as you apply it. It will be active for 24 hours after its application. Before using it, cleanse your skin well with a gel or tonic or cleansing milk. This is because it will help a purified skin to absorb the cream well. The procedure of applying this cream for getting maximum effects will never take much time. You can do it at home. It will not need the involvement of any professional beauticians or makeup artists.After cleansing thoroughly, massage the skin in a circular motion into your skin. As this cream is very effective, only one application will provide hydration and protection against signs of aging for the day. With initial use, the skin will become nourished deeply and smooth too. The first wrinkle will be disappearing after 2 weeks. Lifting as well as rejuvenating effects occur after 1 month of using it.Does it come with any side effect?When you first start to use this cream, be cautious that initial breakouts may occur because of high antioxidant content. Like any other great skin care product, Goji cream also works to remove toxins, the deposit of oil and build-up in the pores. Some may experience this, and some may not. People who face this will take 10 days to almost two weeks to start seeing proper results. Much will depend on your age too. Aged skin will tend to balance out easily and quickly.This cream is for every skin type, regardless of oily and dry. This anti-aging cream contains no ingredients that can cause allergic reactions or rashes. So everyone can use it. It is completely safe to use. So be ready to use it as it is free from any side effects.Is Goji Cream a fake product?Many Goji cream reviews make it quite evident that there are several fake products available in the market. Small wrinkles exist, and users claim that Goji cream for wrinkles is not working. So if you have an interest in using this cream, then go through the feedbacks of Goji cream users. Some people publish a review with proper details. It will help you while making a purchase decision. You should be aware that each and every person is unique, and thus, this cream will react differently. So the result of Goji cream cannot be the same for all users. Since a sensitive skin’s condition depends on many factors, you can try to improve your health by maintaining a balanced and living a healthy lifestyle.Is the purchase a waste of money?Goji cream went through many tests and trials conducted clinically. It has proved to be effective in decreasing wrinkles related to age as well as rejuvenating the skin for many years. The product also helps in the following ways:Immediate freshness.Toning and brightening up of skin.Comprehensive effects of anti-aging.Great effects that are visible after initial application.Saturation of skin with the help of necessary trace elements.Activation of young cell’s synthesis.Establishment of skin elasticity.Creation of a protective layer on the skin’s surface.Prevention of dryness.What do customers say about Goji Cream?According to a survey, 97% of the users reported desired results, and it took place after first use. Most of them talked about getting satisfactory results. Many had the opinion that they saw great results just after using this cream for 10 days. But you will find both positive as well as negative reviews on different online sites. So why is it happening? The major reason behind it is counterfeit products. It is unfortunate that none of us can become immune to any type of fraud. There always lies a risk of purchasing a fake product from online stores or pharmacies. You can be sure that the product is genuine if you buy it from the official website or from any FDA approved medical store. Other than this, the usage of the cream is incorrect. Negative Goji cream reviews prevail as people do not follow the instruction for use thoroughly. It is important that you use cosmetics, as stated in the label. So if you do not wish to repeat other individual’s mistake, always follow the instructions properly. Mentioned below are experiences of some users:“With an increase in my age, my skin was losing elasticity along with resilience. My skin is sensitive, and thus, wrinkles were appearing on my face. So I reached out for this high-quality skin care cream. My friend suggested it to me. I used the cream not later than half an hour before leaving my house. Before using, I always cleansed my face well from dirt as well as makeup. Never use hot water to clean your face. I used to apply a small amount of the cream and gently massage. You should wait until your skin completely absorbs the cream. It does not harm the skin around the eyes, but it is better to avoid those areas. It efficiently prevented skin aging and made my skin look youthful as well as fresh. I also used this cream as a regular moisturizer.”“The first thing that I observed was the way my skin became tighter, the pores shrunk and fine lines evened out. Distinct redness was there in my nose area, but after 2 weeks of using this miraculous cream, the redness was no longer there. It made me so happy. I also had dark circles and blemishes, and this cream was a wonderful preventative. Skin lightening is also its strength, apart from treating daily aging signs. It is also a good moisturizer too. I will suggest others to protect their skin with complete care of this cream and enjoy great results for several years.”“Goji cream for pigmentation comes packed with natural ingredients and thus never caused me any allergy or irritation. Goji cream is appropriate for every skin type, age, and gender. Thus I preferred it so much. I always removed my makeup residues and impurities properly from my face and neck before applying this cream. This cream worked really well for my wrinkles and fine lines. It does wonder for mature skin and is ideal for the recovery of the skin. It will activate your internal skin reserves and combat against any change related to age. Signs of fatigue will not be present, and your skin will become smooth and moisturized. It visibly strengthened and improved my skin tone. It made me feel very comfortable and gave my skin a balanced texture. Unlike other skin care creams, it is nongreasy and sticky and thus instantly absorbed by my skin. I liked to use it as a base for my makeup. Goji works wonders in protecting my delicate skin from the appearance of new wrinkles. My skin received all the essential nutrients, and regeneration of the deepest skin layers also occurred. I will suggest every woman fighting with aging to use this cream as it will stimulate collagen production that is great for fighting aging signs. Once you start to use it, you will see that your skin is getting protection against the harmful ultraviolet sun rays and natural production of collagen becomes active in the deeper skin layers. Your skin will regain elasticity and youth very fast.”“The Goji cream price might sound to be high, but consider the quantity that you get at this price along with the result of the product. If you want Goji cream to benefit you and get all the advantage of this cream, remember to order it from the manufacturer as it will ensure you that you get original Goji cream with its natural formula and valuable ingredients. If you have time, it is better to go through a Goji cream price comparison with a purchase directly as the price of purchase will be fair without a middleman. You can order it online, and once you have placed the order, the customer care representative will call you and explain you properly about the product. If you have any query, you can ask them, and they will revert.’’“High-quality skin care lotions and creams are in huge demand in the online market. Nowadays, many online stores and pharmacies are available in the market. It is really difficult to understand which one is trustworthy. Moreover, online stores keep on offering great deals and discounts that tempt most people. So if you wish to order Goji cream, do not waste your time and money by buying fake products with questionable ingredients and at high prices. Buy directly from the manufacturer. Follow the official link present on their website to get hold of 100% authentic product.”What is the price of the product?The quality of the ingredients used in the cream determines the Goji anti-aging cream price. It is not much expensive. Moreover, Goji cream is a useful skin care cream, and as the package is huge, the cream will last for a long time. You can check online to have an exact idea of Goji cream price. It has a lot of price variation. So you can order according to your requirement. Always choose the package as per your need.How should you buy this cream?If you wish to purchase the high-quality cream, then find out a reliable online pharmacy. Never go for Goji cream online order from any medical store as they might cheat you. Or they might charge you very high, and you can end up availing a fake product at too much price that will be ineffective. You can take it directly from the manufacturer too. Do not just think of getting it at a low price as you might get gold of a fake product. Have proper knowledge of an online store, check their ratings and customer reviews, compare the Goji cream price with other stores, and then buy it. Also, become aware that a dealer is verified if you are buying the product from him. Some reliable online pharmacies are also to offer great deals and discounts. They also let you purchase the cream in bulk. Always look out for online stores that have a license, good customer support to answer your query and proper reviews from genuine users. When availing original Goji cream online, there are some stores that will offer safe and secure online payment method. They will also keep all your personal details confidential and will not share it with anyone. These stores will deliver the orders at your doorstep within a few days, and they would not charge any shipping fee too. They will also have a proper return and refund policy.To place Goji cream online order, visit the website of the manufacturer. Fill out the form that will include your contact information. Wait for the operator to get back to you. So you will be able to mention the cost of the cream and determine the delivery terms to your place. The official website is the best place to order this cream as you will not have to worry about fake products because they will guarantee genuine products.Last few wordsGoji Cream is a breakthrough product that will take care of your skin like. It is effective, budget-friendly and does not cause any irritation to the skin. Most women want to save their youthful skin and get rid of the changes that age bring. But sadly few of them are aware of what to do regarding it. So if you do not wish to spend a lot of money visiting the beauty stores, get hold of Goji cream that has a reasonable price tag. This cream will benefit you in multifarious ways as it has natural ingredients. Begin your qualitative skin care today. Goji cream is perfect for this generation as it has the formula to fight each and every sign of aging. Not only women, but men can also use it. Do not worry anymore as this cream will take care of your wrinkles and add a youthful glow to your skin.
Working women are the products of a new empowered society, and we couldn't be more proud of the millions of women juggling work and home with ease and confidence. They are the real superheroes of today, toiling for hours to chase their dreams, earn for the family, look after them as well and still keep it together. To celebrate the beautiful, bold women of today, what other gifts can they be showered with other thanjewellery! There is something about jewellery, however small or big, that fills ones’ heart with joy. Jewellery adds to the confidence of every woman, so don't just keep them for occasions, get your hands on some elegant pieces that you can flaunt every day and shine brighter than the diamond you adorn. We are spoiled for choice when it comes to everyday jewellery. The options are endless from simple gold chains to affordable fancy silver danglers or the fine shimmer of a diamond pendant.Diamonds on goldSpice up your dreary office wear with the shine of a diamond for that lasting glow, making a statement every day. Daily wear or office wear jewellery has to be notable, yet not in the face, minimal yet visible enough to show you mean business! Also, if you are a saree or salwar person, you can go for a little dressy and slightly larger designs. Trousers and shirts would ideally need more understated looks to flatter you. In trend are medium length chains with delicate diamond pendants that steal the show.You can choose a classic round pendant with diamonds studded all over or pick a solitaire necklace if you want to up your game. Find danglers that are a combination of diamonds and coloured precious stones of choice like rubies or emeralds for a more striking look. The more elegant you, can opt for a coloured stone piece, surrounded by oval diamonds, the epitome of chic. When choosing everyday diamonds, here are a couple of tips to keep in mind:Look at the construction. You will need a secure setting for the diamond.Get your price point lowered by choosing a necklace with a couple of smaller diamonds than a solitaire.Careful not to choose too heavy or chunky designs as they can tire you out through the day and might not suit all your outfits.Ask for the latest or trending design to help you stay updated or even ahead of the game.Choices to go for:Simple chain with a striking pendant with several diamond highlights.For an extra glow, choose a neck-piece of unique style and design.Solitaire pendants on strands of gold.A diamond necklace with pearls or coloured stone combinations is a dream.For the complete look, get matching earrings and maybe a ring to finish off the look.Floral designs have made an enormous comeback currently, so catch up on flowers and foliage in your jewellery.Silver set glitterSilver is a perfect choice for daily wear jewellery. They are easy on the pocket, can be great additions to western outfits and add a bohemian vibe to the whole look. Silver also compliments diamonds beautifully, so chose a diamond pendant with an array of coloured stones, that can be mixed and matched to suit most outfits. Also, the traditional flower and heart set diamond pendants are always in style.Rose GoldIf you are a fashionista, this is indeed something you don't want to miss. The coppery rose-gold, which is a happening trend in the market currently is a perfect match to the Indian skin tone. Rose gold gives an out of the world, fashion-forward look, especially as beautiful spiral chains with diamond studded pendants. Match your rose gold necklace with easy casual solitaire studs to complete the look.Platinum threadsDo not miss out on platinum! Being a pretty expensive metal, most platinum designs are sleek, stylish and can easily be carried off with formal wear. Platinum is rarely seen without diamonds, so get that elegantly studded platinum necklace, pair them with small diamond studs and add to your glamour quotient. Show off your platinum necklace with a bangle of the same set to turn eyes every day. So don't shy away from diamond jewellery for everyday looks. Today, they are affordable and there is an enormous variety of designs available for you to choose from. Enjoy Shopping!
Reach To Self - In Gita Verse 5.5 One who knows that the position reached by means of analytical study can also be attained by devotional service, and who therefore sees analytical study and devotional service to be on the same level, sees things as they are.Krishna says that the person who realized himself for him path is irrelevant as he knows path is just means to realize self. You can reach to self that is important then by which path.Let me tell you a story of Ramakrishna which is very rare in the history of mystics. After attaining enlightenment, nobody ever tries to look into other paths to see whether they also reach to enlightenment or not – there is no point. You wanted to reach here, you have reached – now what is the point of finding out whether other roads also reach here or not? But Ramakrishna had something tremendously significant in his mind, so he gave six months to each religion that was available in his vicinity; for six months he would practice the religion and forget everything else. Of course, he was already enlightened so the path was not a problem; in six months, he would reach back to the point of consciousness.In Bengal, there is a small local group of a very strange religion: they believe that Krishna is the only man, and those who follow him are all women. They may be men, but that is only an illusion. In reality, except for Krishna, there is no other man – all are women. He is the lover and the beloved. In the night, the followers of that sect, men and women both, dress alike – like women. Even men sleep with a statue of Krishna in their beds – he is their husband.Ramakrishna followed that path also for six months. For others it was just a ritual; they were born into that religion, just as you are born into Christianity, or Hinduism, or Jainism. You don’t really care; it is just accidental that you are born into a certain religion and you follow it, but it is at the most a formality.But Ramakrishna was not going into those processes in a formal way: when he was following something, he was following it with totality and intensity. And almost a miracle was seen! Even in the day, he used the same clothes as women use in Bengal. Even the people of that sect told him, “In the day you can use men’s clothes; otherwise it looks very awkward.”But he said, “When I follow something, I follow it totally. I cannot divide my day from my night. And I don’t care about the world.”His breasts started growing; his disciples became very much afraid. So much intensity of projecting that even the doctors who came to know about it visited Ramakrishna and when they saw his breasts, could not believe it – because this was a physiological miracle. But his disciples whispered in the ears of the doctor, “This is nothing – he is having monthly periods!”For six months continuously… His voice changed, it became more like a woman’s. He started walking like a woman – which is very difficult; difficult because only a woman can walk that way. She has a womb inside her body and that womb gives a different kind of movement to the legs. Man has no womb inside; his legs have a different movement.He started walking like a woman, speaking like a woman, his voice changed. And when the menstrual period started, then the disciples became really afraid. They said, “We have lost him. How can we get him back?” They tried to persuade him, but until six months was up, he was not going to change his path. They said, “This path is dangerous. We don’t think that these breasts and this period are going to disappear even after six months. Your whole life you will be a laughingstock – and we are going to be laughingstocks because we are your disciples.”It took almost six months after he stopped for the change to take place again. Slowly, slowly he became a man again – otherwise he had become a woman.Ramakrishna through all the practice found that all the path is different but the destination is the same.Krishna is also say the same thing to Arjuna. That select any path and you will reach to self-realization. Only thing is common to practice any path is self-awareness, be total.
Check out our list here!Modern JhumkasJhumkas with a twist are the new eye candy. They come with an irresistible charm that will win her heart in seconds on this Valentine’s day, therefore, they make for great valentines gifts for her.With literally hundreds of options available online, you can get her anything from a pair of oxidized jhumkas adorned with floral motifs or kashmiri hair chains to the ones encrusted with semi-precious stones. You can also get her a pair of Meenakari jhumkas.Statement RingsA Statement ring is meant to make you look stunning without drawing too much attention at the same time. Therefore, this trend makes for the best valentine gift for girlfriend or wife.With a wide range of options available online, you can find a plethora of statement rings easily at any jewellery store. The best thing is that statement rings come in various sizes but if you’re not sure about her finger size then you can shop for an adjustable ring for her.Beaded NeckpieceA beaded necklace is another jewellery style that is perfect to make your girlfriend or wife happy on this valentine’s day. Although beaded necklaces are available in a plethora of materials, the best ones feature colourful, shimmery, shiny and glassy beads. The best thing about this piece of jewellery is that it showcases a simple yet charming appeal. It will look great with her casual, party wear and work wear outfits alike. Beaded necklaces are easily available as well. You can buy a beaded valentines day necklace for her from any jewellery store. Cuff BraceletsCuff bracelets exude sophistication and chic style at the same time, therefore, they make for the best valentine gift for girlfriend. Available in a variety of eye-catching designs, color combinations, cuff bracelets are perfect to be paired with her casual, workwear and partywear outfits alike.You can shop for cuff bracelets online and with a plethora of sales going on these days; you can even get amazing offers on valentine day gifts for girlfriend.LocketsContrary to everyone's expectations, lockets with customized pictures are still in fashion. In fact, a locket with a customized picture is a great way to make your wife or girlfriend happy. So why wait? Buy one, give it to her and treasure memories forever.Delicate NecklaceA dainty necklace is loved by almost every woman/girl, especially if she likes to style her outfits in a simple yet stunning way. The best thing about delicate neckpieces is that can be worn with any type of outfit. Whether it is a saree, a dress, a jumpsuit, pantsuit or even denim paired with basic t-shirts, delicate necklaces look good irrespective of what she wears.So, delicate necklaces are one of the amazing valentine day jewelry sale that you can give her on this Valentine's Day. While there are so many options available online, the best ones feature Brass or silver metal studded with stones, pearls, faux Diamonds.Which of these jewellery styles will you gift her on this valentine’s day? Tell us in the comments below!
This article would be useful to newbie bloggers and also to student which want to improve their writing skills.
Hair are some tips to prevent hair loss in a matter of minutes daily.
Original Man - In Gita Verse 5.19 Those whose minds are established in sameness and equanimity have already conquered the conditions of birth and death. They are ﬂawless like Brahman, and thus they are already situated in Brahman.Krishna explains further for the person everything is the sameness and equanimity they have conquered the conditions of birth and death. Means they are sensitive for everything, so they are always fresh and newly born. Their responds in any circumstances are new, fresh, unexpected. As that person has realized himself.Let’s understand this verse of Krishna through Jesus life incidence.Adultery:Some people brought a woman to Jesus and said, ”She has committed adultery. It is written in the ancient scriptures, that she should be stoned to death. What do you think?”Jesus was sitting on the bank of a river. He must have fallen deep in thought: “If I tell them to stone her to death, it will be violence.” Then what will happen to Jesus' principle of love? “And if I say no, pardon her, people will be angry. People will say you are speaking against our ancient religion, you are repudiating our ancient scriptures.” In reality that is what people wanted. The people had come just to stone Jesus with these stones if he said to pardon her, because he is speaking in opposition to our religious scriptures. And if he says to stone her, we will kill this woman and then say to Jesus: “What happened to your love? To your compassion? Where has your compassion gone? Where has your love gone? It was all phony talk.”But they did not know what Jesus will answer. Jesus said the ancient scriptures are right. They must be right. Take up stones and kill this woman – but let only those throw stones who have never committed adultery nor who have ever even thought of committing adultery.This response has freshness in it. Originality in it. Unless the person becomes whole they cannot respond like this. This is intelligence.And the five who had stood before the villagers, probably all mayors and members of the municipal committee, quickly retreated into the crowd. Who wants trouble? The whole village knew. Everyone's mischief was known. And if they hadn't committed adultery they certainly had thought of it. To find a man who has not thought of adultery is difficult, one who has not been infatuated, who has not been attracted. All quietly moved back. Slowly, slowly the people who had come with stones in their hands let the stones fall where they stood. And slowly, slowly people began to disappear.Evening was falling, the sun was setting. Just as the sun set and it started getting dark, people escaped from there. The woman was left behind, alone. The woman put her head at Jesus' feet and said, “Give me whatsoever punishment you want. I am an adulteress. I accept it. I am a sinner. And your compassion has overwhelmed my heart. Whatsoever punishment you want to give…”Jesus said, “Who am I to mete out punishments? Who am I to stand between you and your god? You know, you know what you need to do, and your god knows. I am not going to make any judgement. If you feel you have done something bad, then don't do it anymore. And if it feels alright to you then continue. The one to decide is god. The final decision will be between you and god. There is no intermediary. Go now.”Consider what he is saying. A famous statement of Jesus is: “Resist not evil.” Not even evil! Why? If god is allowing it to happen, there must be some reason. Wake up within, live within. But the true thread of life emerges in you.Krishna this verse not only to Arjuna but to us also guiding to live naturally. Naturally means synchronicity with the universe. In my Bhagavad Gita Verse 2.4, I wrote on the law of synchronicity. Realized person don’t question the universe, they accept the present moments circumstances, by bringing the past and future in the present moment. Like Jesus when he replies to the crowd the - ancient scriptures are right - bringing the past into the present moment. As scriptures were written in the past. Also said another beautiful things that - Take up stones and kill this woman – but let only those throw stones who have never committed adultery nor who have ever even thought of committing adultery - Jesus brought the whole crowd in this moment’s action which will reveal them as who you are. Jesus taught the whole crowd not through the sermon, but by their actions how they can turn in, authentic towards themselves. Created action which is non-violence which will be in future. Person can be nonviolence only when he is authentic towards himself. This is the reason why all enlighten people says that truth is not outside, which you can search, truth is inside of you. You are Truth. Be Yourself.
Do you think you’re having a healthy lifestyle? Most of us think that by switching to healthy food and workout will have a healthy life but is it enough? No, a proper body care is a must in this modish era. Check out following basic dos and don’ts for better healthy life:EyelashesEvery woman desire for lush and dramatically fluttery black bold lashes. Whereas some of the women are blessed with naturally long ones and rest are not. But that is not a reason to give up now, is it? Following are theeffective ways to take care of eyelashes in the form of dos and don’ts which are indeed: DosAvoid touching your face and eyes. But if you find yourself touching your eyes very often then it is worth understanding why. Do you feel your eyes are sore? Maybe your makeup is not ideal for your eyes or you should have new glasses. All you have to do is minimize number of times you rub your eyes. This will lead to less infection and possible lash damage.Don’tsDo not wear false eye lashes directly. Never ever wear them without trimming them to the length of your lash line. Make sure you do not forget to cut them from the outer corner and not from inside. For instance, if you leave them hanging over then it will pull down over your eyes and not look flattering.Too much of glue can be harmful to your natural lashes so make sure you apply the required amount of glue on the lash band. Excessive glue can also get into your eyes which causes much irritation.LipsEvery woman desire for soft pinkish lips as it adds a friendly warm touch to one’s smile and it is sign of good health as well. So, it is utmost important to take care of your sensitive lips, following are some basic dos and don’ts: DosFirstly, your lips are so sensitive that it needs more care so protect them from harsh elements. All you have to do is moisturize as well as apply sunscreen on lips. How to make lips look soft? Well, drink water as much as you can and stay hydrated. Cracked lips not only look bad but also painful.For instance, if your lip balm is showing no results then it is recommended to visit dermatologist. You might be facing some kind of allergy or irritation on lips that is mostly caused because of the reaction of lip care products. Don’tsDo not over moisturize your lips because the more the better is never an option for your sensitive lips. Still if you wish to apply moisturizer then apply petroleum jelly. Stop licking your lips because saliva removes the moisture from your lips and your already dry lips becomes worst which results into cracks in the skin.
Empty Person - In Gita Verse 5.25 Those who are beyond the dualities that arise from doubts, whose minds are engaged within, who are always busy working for the welfare of all living beings and who are free from all sins achieve liberation in the Supreme.Krishna tells Arjuna that the person who has transcended duality they live in the objective world from their subjectivity. When the person has transcended duality all their actions are for existence they don’t live for their desire but as per existence's will.First let’s understand duality - Life exists through duality. The very process of life depends on polar opposites. Life is like a river: for the river to exist, two banks are needed. The river cannot exist without two banks to support it, just as the bird cannot fly without two wings and you cannot walk without two legs.Life needs duality. Everywhere you will find it, till the ultimate arrives. The ultimate, the absolute, or call it God, transcending duality. But then life disappears. Then you become invisible. Then you have no form, no name. Then you have gone beyond – that is nirvana.When the person transcended duality and gone beyond, through their body whatever they do is for the welfare of others, existences. Take the example of Krishna, he has transcended everything and still living tn the body he participated in everything whether in Gokul, Mathura, Dwarka or in Mahabharat war. He was living for the welfare of all living beings. Look to Guru Gobind Singh. To save the humanity for the conversion of religion compulsory by Aurangzeb, he fought with him. His fight with Aurangzeb was not as an individual but for the welfare of all living beings. These people when they act they are free of all the sins and achieve liberation in the Supreme. They live for existences.As we are now we need to understand two things. Life cannot exist without polar opposites. Life is a dialectical process between man and woman, between darkness and light, between life and death, between good and bad. Life cannot exist without this duality. Manifestation is not possible without duality.Hence, another vision becomes possible to be understood. If duality disappears, life as you know it disappears. Life in time and space disappears. Then another door opens. You move to another plane – the plane of the invisible, the plane of the mysterious, the plane where there is no form, no name. All remains, but unmanifest. That is called nirvana, moksha, the ultimate state of samadhi where all disappears.If duality is the way of life, then nonduality is the way of religion – because religion is nothing but an art of transcending the manifested form and going into the unmanifest, going to the original source from where we come and for which we long – because we belong there. Wherever we are, we cannot feel at home; something remains unfulfilled. We go on missing the original source because rest is only in the source.Let’s meditate over each word of Hakim Sanai:The pure man unites, two in one; the lover unites three in one.The Gnostic tradition says there are two paths to transcend duality, to transcend multiplicity, to transcend this constant conflict between life and death. The first path is called via purgativa by the Gnostics, “through purity”; and the second path is called via unitiva, “through unity.” The first is the path of meditation, the second the path of love. The first is Zen, the second is Sufism.On the path of meditation, one has to eliminate, one has to empty oneself totally. On the path of love, just the reverse process has to be followed – one has to become more and more full. One has to become so full that one starts overflowing. On the path of meditation, one has to become so empty that nothing remains within, one is just a pure nothingness.This is what Hakim Sanai says: The pure man unites two in one… The observer and the observed. The pure man means the man of meditation. The pure man means one who has been trying the path of via purgativa; who has been simply emptying himself of all that is foreign, and who goes on eliminating all that is not his essential self. And then nothing is left in the hand.Krishna tells Arjuna the person who has transcended duality is so empty that nothing is left in his hand. He is the vehicle of the universe to act for the welfare of all living beings and who are free from all sins achieve liberation in the Supreme. So when you fight war as empty person, then your act will be for the welfare of the living being and in that there is no sin.
Health-connected concerns today have become component of our lifetimes and also it’s very hard to eliminate that, nevertheless we can still have a perfect top health insurance company for helping us. You can find a wide range of various insurance policy techniques and firms over the internet so you have got greater option to pick a qualified which covers your budget and also acceptable. Apart from that thinking about an excellent medical care insurance scheme could make the declaring more quickly. We are living in a internet-primarily based time period and for that reason, it’s very easy to get in touch with a best health insurance broker as well as company. Consequently according to the earlier affirmation you can expect to visit on the website link and also gather much more details.What to knowYou'll find various kinds of health care insurance firms with various plans and policies. Yet to decide on the best insurance provider is significant so there are numerous details about what you can assess a perfect and greatest appropriate local health care insurance company.- Means of claimingThe claiming process is actually important for any health care insurance organization if they ever want to make a perfect identification in public. In this way, pre-hospitalization charges are paid out by a lot of the insurance providers for that good thing about people to help save time and cash. From then on they offer appropriate medication bill along with recommended remedies which usually observed the relationship of dependability among customer.- NetworkingA great health insurance corporation should have a wide networking platform with all medical facilities of the locations. It truly is significant for health care insurance organizations mainly because in some cases some medical centers cannot fulfill the wants of individuals. Therefore it is essential that an ideal health insurance coverage organization joined along with a great deal of medical facilities in order that every individual can fulfill their needs.- BudgetThe several insurance plan usually requires different costs and for this reason, it’s really tough to locate policy according to our budget allowed. However there are numerous health insurance organizations are present in the marketplace that delivers insurance coveragein economical monthly installments to make sure that individuals can easily shell out it as well as protected their living and also the coverage is generally known as bronze place low cost insurance programs.- Maternal gainsMaternal added benefits are necessary for just about any health insurance coverage business in some nations around the world. It is usually which insurance cover certainly where an woman insured individual his new birth little one inspite of considering single parent or not. In this particular policy insurance plan addresses her delivery procedure and also cover all hospitalexpenses, helping to make much easier along with therapeutic for them.- Post hospitalizationMedical facility payments are very high perhaps even tough to pay off by the frequent person with regular earning. There is usually a very best post-hospitalization program that will help the individuals. With all the assistance of this scheme folks can claim all his expenses and test charges in the medical center. Moreover our health and wellness insurance corporation alsocovers the physician’s fee of the person. So to sum up, it is the very best plan in which you can actually secureyour life and your family. To read more regarding a health insurance company, click the website link.
It’s February and just in case you missed Sam’s post or Elizabeth’s declaration thatone plus one equals backpage, we’ve begun our month long discussion of the downside of dating and relationships. And tonight it’s my turn to share one of the things that I don’t particularly love about the dating and mating game. So here goes…Anchorage BackpageFor me, one of the biggest downers in the dating game is the way some men (far too many) who when given just a little bit of attention by a woman (i.e. at best two very short and lacklustre dates SANS as much as hand holding, but sometimes even less than that will do it), men the woman in question doesn’t want to stick around, do just the opposite: they stay on her nuts FOREVER! Ladies, can I get a witness, ‘cause I’m sure you’ve all experienced this at least once.Anchorage BackpageFairbanks free backpages Wasilla backpage Picture it. You connect with a guy you mistakenly think might be worth dating. If you’re screening process is on point, during the texting/emailing/phone call stage you realize he’s not your type and avoid a bad date. But sometimes when your creepometer or “so not right for me” spidey sense is a little of kilter you slip up, and end up going out with a sub standard candidate. Usually it’s just once, but there are times when – just because you can’t put your finger on anything absolutely repulsive about Mr. Subpar, and/or after consulting with your ever optimistic girlfriends – you decide to go out with him a second time. (FYI: Ladies, as a general rule if that crazy thing called ‘chemistry’, failed to show up on date one, it’s unlikely it will suddenly make an appearance on date two. Just sayin’.) Either way the end result is that you quickly figure out that you just aren’t feeling him. So, you ‘let him down’ as diplomatically as possible, politely wish him well and you move on to your next prospect – assuming he’s doing the same. But he doesn’t. Well not completely anyway. Depending on the backpage dude, anywhere from a few days to a few weeks will pass and then…Wasilla singlesHe. Comes. Right. Back.Like a recurring yeast infection – only more irritating and with even less of interest to say.And by coming back, I don’t mean just one phone call, text, IM or email asking if you’re interested in trying again – which would be reasonable. Oh no backpage people, what I’m talking about is an unbridled, onslaught of messages in your inbox and attempts to connect with you on the phone to ‘catch up’ with you long after you’ve told him “Thanks, but no thanks”.A few cases in point from my life…Man #1Wanye, Mr. Possiblities of Luv Makin’. Remember him? I shared his stellar poetry with you last summer, about the time he and I met online. We chatted a few times and never met. Even so he’s still messaging me. Now I’ll admit it slowed down by late November, but my last message from him was a Happy New Year shout out. My response to that? The same as it’s been to every attempt he’s made to contact me since July. Cemetery silence. How long do you think it will be before he gets the hint?Man #2His name was Paul. It only took four phone calls and one date for me to send him packing for reasons I won’t mention here. He waited six weeks to call me back “just to catch up”. But within minutes of getting me on the phone he was talking about how he really felt a connection with me and that he thought “we could really make a go of it” – despite the fact that I’d told him (more than once) that the suburban life with 2.5 kids, a dog, a SUV parked in the driveway of the pretty three bedroom house with the white picket fence that he dreams of holds no appeal for me. And even though I’ve long since stopped answering his texts, he still checks in with a message at least once/week. All this after one sighting, people. Would he have proposed after six?Man #3Delano.He managed to squeeze one pseudo backpage date out of me before I stopped returning his calls. And still he called virtually every day for 30 days – even though I never answered (except for the two times he blocked his number). What made him stop? To keep things simple I’ll say his own insanity. Want more details? Then click hereFairbanks dating I could go on, ’cause Lord knows I have more stories, but I‘m sureyou get the point.–Now I get that some men work the persistence angle to wear a backpage woman down, and that others (much like Delano) are straight up ego trippin’. But isn’t there an upper limit on the foolishness? I mean, what does it take for such men to throw in the towel, put down the torch and stop running behind the woman who’s doing her damnedest not to get caught? What is it about being rejected by a woman that seems to up her sexy with some men?And boys, does this shit happen in the reverse? Are there women out there trying their best to wear down the dude they want to get next to?Your thoughts good people?
Security checks while traveling are the things we fear most. Travelers pack everything in their bags, from an extra T-shirt to that perfect beach novel. However, some of these items are more private. Although this behavior may embarrass passengers, they can only be highly alert to the media.A woman named Renee was ordered not to board the plane because TPE Sex Dollwas found in her trunk. In a subsequent lawsuit, Renee accused Delta Air Lines of security personnel from taking the shaker out of the bag in public, without any evasion.Although through X-rays we can often see the ‘toys’ contained in the bag during security checks, but this is still a problem overall. Staff rules are also awkward, and the boundaries of individual law enforcement are unclear. The staff are no different from you and me. They are ordinary people with passions. There are good people, assholes, and weirdoes. But most people still hope to reduce the work trouble as much as possible.As long as no explosives appear to be filled, the operator will let them through. There are tricks to get your TPE Sex toy through smoothly. Put it in a sealed plastic bag, take out the battery, and put a label on the outside of the bag. If you carry a vibrator with you, the basic rules are the same … wrap the toy because you don’t want the staff to open it in public. The staff will also become more understandable when you have enough guts.
The emergence of a sex-free real sex doll"They can also have basic conversations with you and are equipped with learning techniques to improve and remember conversations." Mr Lov told the Daily Star: "As technology advances, new models of male sex dolls will be released." For example, a new upgraded skeleton is currently being released, so all future dolls of the brand will be made with a lighter, more flexible skeleton, or at least as an upgraded version.But when it comes to boys, support has dropped significantly, with overall support dropping by 64%, while the number of men is much smaller, saying that it is good to encourage them to do things related to girls. Those older or more conservative are even more likely to think this is not a good idea. The couple, who is about to become a husband, shared photos of the couple in the background and added a caption to the trailer: "I won't spoil it. You will find the sex doll at the right time!"Although publicizing their relationship was by no means easy, Tolochko recently accepted the invitation to appear on a Russian TV show with a Japanese sex doll. She also sees a future where everyone has robots, and they may be widely used for intimacy. Tolochko is not the only one committed to having sex with dolls. Staz's documentary "Soul of Silicone" premiered in October and took a closer look at the lives of doll companions. Italy's first sex doll brothel opened last year and immediately "booked for weeks." Sales of male sex dolls are also rising.But she doesn't believe artificial intelligence will replace sex. Added: "I don't think this is the way forward, but some people will fall in love with their AI." The brothel is scheduled to open nearby on September 8. However, when news of the spread spread, the city responded that Reiki dolls violated decades of regulations that barred adult entertainment venues.The newspaper also noted that while McMullen did not indicate which celebrities the potential customers were interested in, a sex doll manufacturer called urdolls stated in 2017 that the most popular request they received was GYNOID doll Marilyn Dream Dew's appearance.In the end, we pulled ourselves apart and before I asked her, we met a woman with a shaved head: Is this a sex robot party? She said yes and pointed out one of the most extraordinary nights of my life. I was told that casual clothes are forbidden, so I put on leather pants, a vest with a glowing logo on it, and matching glasses glowing in the dark, all of which were the last raid in the urdolls store. The emergence of a gender-neutral real sex doll signals how this binary relationship between boys and girls is beginning to collapse-at least when it comes to girls.A 2017 study showed that more than three-quarters of respondents said that encouraging parents to play with toys or do “sex-related activities” is a good thing for parents. The proportion of women and millennials has risen to 80%. He said designers are focusing on "surrealism." "They have speech recognition, eye and neck movements, mouths that are synchronized with speech, built-in sensors that respond to touch, heated inside the Pregnant sex doll, and a fully articulated skeleton that can stand.http://fishingsoc.com/articles/view/id/5e199e50c4263c4f47a7e8fa/equipped-with-ai-sex-doll-learning-technology?ev=10&evp=tlhttps://www.urdolls.com/love-doll-c-58.html
Southern belles don’t get any more charming than our lady from Charleston, South Carolina, here. Born into a family with a long line of women playing key roles in the United Daughters Of The Confederacy association, Jennifer knows everything there is to know about Southern feminity, Southern hospitality and Southern pride, so this is one heck of a classy woman for you here if you want a gracious hostess in the drawing room and a generous sex kitten in bed who will never complain of a headache when you’re in the mood for some loving.Jennifer is 22 years old with hair like spun gold and a slim, svelte body that you’ll be rushing back home every day to have playtime with. And oh, her slow, Southern drawl… Y’all don’t know what sexy talk is if you haven’t heard a Charleston lady speak dirty to man when she’s hot and aroused and fixin’ to get fucked….If you have a sex doll, then you can consider yourself a lucky person, but on the other hand, if you don't have a realistic sex doll, then do it immediately, because it can satisfy all your wildest fantasies. If you recently bought a realistic sex doll, congratulations, you invested in the right place. Sexual models can provide true companionship and sexual satisfaction. Even for those who have a good relationship, sex dolls may help them. It will enable you to try the roughest pose.
These days all of the ids really are a fundamental part of the daily life and individual has got their unique ids. A i . d paperwork are the type of records and documents that's imperative you specify a man or woman as the person’s id. Often times there are varieties of expertise playing cards like for example, travelling permit, ticket, tenant charge card, and certain other forms. All region has got their own individual article and which is very important to develop every person what people resides in england. Persons i . d . documents which could be also come in the business card make referred to as often the persona greeting cards. The exact expertise write-up is usually allows you to hook up woman / man tips and even produce the individual specifics in the system. Divorce lawyers atlanta name paper you can find the is constructed regarding the data file for example ,, your own complete name, birth date, cell phone percentage, home address and certain further information. Lots of people didn't have their unique identification data files as well as for a time that they having an matter to getting their specific personal information data so they put together their specific duplicate paperwork. All the faux data are classified as the papers which can be largely the same as the first types these kinds of records and documents usually aren't court.There are various services the places you allow the place for producing these types of fake ids.They make pretend written documents identical to the initial however they make the just about all files within high price level. Therefore it's imperative to take a look at its cost condition other businesses as well as test it online. A variety of from the internet fake id building online sites in the places you allow a new investment available for fake ids. With these counterfeited paper web sites there is also a best online site and that is the novelty ids. Our site serves as a most beneficial page which you present an acquisition for all variety of counterfeited page. Certain ids will be scannable ids and also that ids are really examined within the shield but some establishments couldn't make scannable ids. However the create scannable id cards exact novelty ids web pages also you can required order for just a scannable id additionally it really good.There's so many sites what person offer the top professional services designed for fake ids though anytime these organizations cheat with you. A majority of these companies’ television shows for best fake ids or sometimes scannable ids, properly present an investment about bat roosting web sites they did not inside the excellent fake ids and generate a ids with elevated value. Although the novel idea website is a professional web site instead of secrets done to you. There are a lot citizens of the site and even are pleased and in case you desire a data after that you can begin to see the review articles. This amazing site puts in the best novelty ids that can be generally a lot like ones authentic recognition and there's any issue once you did not take advantage of individuals name from operating illegally process. So if you prefer a bit more specifics of fake id, check out on their site.
This phrase is enough to strike fear and loathing into any woman’s heart. Because at some time or another, we have all been “one of the guys”. Invariably we are trying to be cool. We are trying to spend time with the object of our affection, get to know him, share interests, have fun. And somehow in the process, it backfires. And instead of being a woman, we become one of the guys.Most of the time this is a clear delineation. Something you see coming from a mile away. A battle you know you are losing even as you fight. However this time, it has snuck up on me from behind. I am surprised by being handed my guy card by The Friend.Related single men links:Yukon menItalian menTurkish menPuerto rican menAfrican menThere were no warning signs. He does not let me buy my own dinner when we’re out. He rubs my shoulders when he stands behind me in line. He picks up my tray when we’re at a place that requires us to bus our own tables. He holds the door for me always. If anything, I was starting to believe that we were moving farther away from the friendly territory.But instead we were moving closer. This week I was informed that I “had my guy card revoked” when I pouted at dinner the other night. That’s right, dinner he had paid for. And shortly after he had reached over to casually pat my back. I was joking, as I am not actually a pouter, for the record. But it made him tell me I am pretty, so I’m not entirely sorry for being such a girl in that moment. And if it made him take back my guy card, then good! I don’t want it! When was I issued that damn thing anyway?How many men does he constantly feel compelled to purchase meals for and hold doors for? I’ve never seen him do it for another. How many men does he hug hello every time they meet? How many men does he come up behind in line and gently rub their shoulders? How many? And how can I be “one of the guys” if he’s still doing these things?And yet…. it seems I am. Another battle lost here in the land of the One Date Wonder. I am not exactly batting a thousand these days.You know, it’s been getting a little serious around here lately. I’ve been sporting my melancholy suit and just bringing the whole atmosphere down. That won’t do. So today I’m going to tell you about the guy I picked up talking about zombies. That’s right folks, it’s dating for the undead here in One Date Wonderland!So here’s this redheaded guy with glasses on a dating site. And he’s tall. Already I swoon. But as I’m looking over his profile, I see he has taken all of these zombie survivalist tests…. and nothing else. Now my usual method of approaching that delicate first email situation is to pick out a detail (the sillier the better) and write up a goofy message based on that. In the past, I have used monkeys (more than once), paper clips, and now zombies. One of two things happens with this approach. Either the guy runs for cover, or he’s silly enough to date me. At least once, that is.My redheaded zombie is silly indeed. We have now started what is easily the funniest ongoing email exchange I’ve ever had. And there is more zombie talk in it than I have ever had for sure. He is aggressive enough to ask me out without me hinting around at it. In fact, that zombie boy is already making his move. And despite everything, I am ever optimistic.I simply can’t call this man the zombie. I will have to ponder a better name for him. In the meantime, maybe I should start writing a guide for dating the undead. I’m sure that’s a topic we haven’t seen covered before.
Know the khula procedure in Pakistan by trusted Lawyers
Wedding parties are the most auspicious occasion in anyone's existence, and everybody needs to be breathtaking in a manner that folks keep in mind it and touch upon it for a long time. Which begs the inquiry: getting a great look?Can I don those suit as my parent-relative marital life? Or shop for a completely new one? No one wants to take a look downwards your dresses using your sinuses. It might seem, "This agree with is worn downward Bachelor Party Ideas For GroomMy gown is just too tightly fitted ... I don't have coordinating heels or finishing touches ... My six pack abs are sloppy with wardrobe."Regardless what you use, a marriage has become the most critical and outstanding functions within a precious bride and groom's life. If a lady gets into completely new dwelling and comes along dwelling.Indian wedding is different from European matrimony in lots of procedures. It is actually a three or more-week procedure that comes with various sorts of celebrations along the lines of reception and church marital relationship, and furthermore Chirac, Sanghet, Haldi, Mehndi and Barat Shaadi (marital life) and reception. At the same time, each of these instances will be needing your wedding couple put on new fashion on every celebration.In men, women and India just simply choose to wear incredible meets and semi-formals, though gals, girls and aunts are crazy about what they really want to use. There are many various kinds of dress up codes for various activities, from elegant to semi-elegant.Wear kurta pajamas / dotas for weddings, although men prefer formal or semi-formal for almost all marriage opportunities. These are typically typical agrees with, also called shell varnishes. When Indian native performers screen Indian native heritage by the style of Casing Varnish, they pick up your focus and so you love its color selection and different works of art.India possesses a truly abundant Indian and culture customs and traditions tend to be very higher. Dressing up divides gentlemen from adult men, and Indian grooms dress yourself in different and unique versions to describe who they really are.If he is tall, a long coat with a forbidden collar with a button in front, dressed in a shell crocodile falls well under the knee, and Indian grooms look elegant, especially. Sikh grooms combine auspicious kalgi on to the turban, helping the sophistication and beauty of our routine. With a Punjabi marriage ceremony, Jutti contributes a cherry-like result for the food, accentuating the groom's dazzling area and defining it as differentiate themselves from other individuals.Woman requires a special bridal occasion and should style rather amazing and differentiate themselves from everyone else. Bride distinguishes him self from nearly everybody by dressing up in old school Indian native look. Her outfits relies upon the celebration.The new bride wears everything from embroidered racial Charlwar kameez to rehengachori, huge dresses, rehanga mixture outfits available as tightchori (blouseshell garment), and dupatta, with respect to the party.The leading Indian apparel, Sally (or Sally), wraps an embroidered, unstitched towel on a blouse and dons it with an elegant and attractive wedding ceremony, manufactured of the wedding ceremony. Sally is utilized providing that people try to remember, also, the customs remains to be continuing. Nowadays, designer label Sally through having an start backside blouse is trendy. The handiwork in this business venture specialist is different. Wedding sare may include 40,000 INR to 200,000. Creator sari peaks above 400,000 INR.In Christian marriage ceremonies, brides to be continually determine silk sari or garments, at the same time Muslim ladies sport burqas or comprehensive-total body cloaks. Some might also wear salwar and camme, a custom all over the religious variety. The garments incorporate matching gleaming makeup, special and jewelry hair styles.The design and ethical Indian culture are displayed on all kinds of bridal dresses and are very attractive because the culture, elegance and aura of India are clearly displayed. of India are obviously showcased, the look and honest Native indian heritage are shown on all kinds of wedding garments and consequently are genuinely charming due to the fact elegance. They possess undoubtedly one of their outstanding hours, as many Native indian single people tend to be such type of attractive period in the spot of Indian native matrimony.
Get the Khula in Pakistan with expert divorce lawyers
Court Marriage in Lahore Pakistan:Nikah Registrar in Lahore after court marriage in Lahore Pakistan has to demonstrate more sense of responsibility. Nikah Registrar in Lahore Pakistan to demonstrate more sense of responsibility before authenticating Nikah in Lahore Pakistanby making proper enquiries as to competency of parties to understand nature of their role, their ages and regarding their so acting of free will and without any duress. Wife's entitlement to maintenance in accordance with conditions contained in Nikahnama was strictly implemented. Wife's entitlement to maintenance in accordance with conditions contained in marriage certificate by the nikah registrar in Lahore Pakistan should be given to the wife.Procedure of Court Marriage in Pakistan:Most of the males and females not know the procedure of court marriage in Pakistan under Pakistani Law. But you don’t worry nazia law associate provide the services of court marriage in Lahore Pakistan since 2007. She Know the court marriage procedure in Pakistan according to the family laws.You Tube Video: you can see our YouTube video and the answer of your question available there.https://youtu.be/BtTTmWk549kLegal Way Of Court Marriage in Pakistan Under Laws:A court marriage in Pakistan under Law is a civil contract and husband has a right to divorce his wife whenever he desires without assigning any cause. Court marriage in Pakistan of a woman before completion of lddat period is irregular. Marriage of a woman before completion of her lddat, was irregular and not void. Irregular marriage could have its own consequences under personal law, but same could not be treated as void and could not be regarded as un-Islamic or against the Shariah. Court marriage in Pakistan contracted during the period of "lddat' is invalid and not even irregular. Accused lady after having been divorced by the complainant had contracted a valid, legitimate and perfectly legal marriage with her co-accused.Marriage is A Legal Construct:Marriage under Islamic Law is a civil contract and not a sacrament. Marriage is for comfort, love and compassion. One of the objects of matrimonial tie is procreation of human generation and it is the bounden duty of husband to keep his wife with love, affection, respect and provide her maintenance during subsistence of marriage. Islam has laid down the parameter for spouses to live within those bounds and if the parties transgress their parameters, they should relieve each other by breaking the matrimonial tie with kindness. Islam has never conferred power/right upon the husband to take law into his hands and to kill his so use for any wrong Committed by her however he can divorce in Pakistan.Court marriage in Pakistan even if performed through guardians stood repudiated on exercise of option of puberty. Moreover when marriage was not consummated and she never submitted herself for cohabitation. Very exercise of filing suit for dissolution of marriage, in a way is an exercise of option of puberty against the existence of marriage. Presumption regarding Muslim marriage in absence of direct proof can be raised and acted upon with prolonged and continuous cohabitation as husband and wife. Factors to be kept in view by the Court pointed out. Female solemnizing court marriage in Pakistan through lawyer is valid. All Islamic Schools of thought recognize Nikah of female performed through lawyer as valid. Defendants specifically did not deny the relationship of husband and wife in their written statement but took plea that lady was not legally wedded wife of the man. Held, in view of such a plea, it was incumbent on the defendant to establish that under what circumstances the lady was living with the man, if she was not legally wedded wife of the man. Plaintiff, no doubt was also to produce the lady in evidence, on the point of marriage between her and the man but that would not have the effect of brushing aside the evidence brought on record
An expressive style that uses fictional characters and events to describe some subject by suggestive resemblances; an extended metaphor
Legal Way to Get the Divorce in Pakistan:In Pronouncement of divorce in Pakistan according to Shia Law the trial court on basis of evidence led by parties reaching conclusion that pronouncement of divorce in Pakistan made by husband or wife did not conform to requirements of Shia Law in as much as it was not heard by two Adult males and, therefore, lady could not be said to have ceased to be his Wife. Finding of fact recorded by Trial Court and endorsed by Appellate Court not shown to have been arrived at as a result of misreading of evidence based on no evidence. Interference declined by High Court in Constitutional jurisdiction. Omission by husband to give notice of talaq to Chairman of concerned Union Council renders divorce in Pakistan ineffective in the case of dissolution of marriage in Pakistan by the way of khula in Pakistan.Procedure of Divorce in Pakistan:It is not with regard to proof of procedure of divorce in Pakistan that the Shia Law insists on two witnesses but to the very act of divorce and it cannot, therefore, be held that the matter related to proof and not to substantive law. Nazia law associate is the perfect platform to know the procedure of divorce in Pakistan and divorce process in Pakistan. You don’t take tension about how can wife get divorce in Pakistan. Meet advocate nazia and share all your problem. She give you better way and she made the short divorce process in Pakistan for the females. Because most of the females not know how can wife get divorce in Pakistan.Dissolution of Marriage by The Way of Divorce:In the suit for Dissolution of marriage in Pakistan husband pronouncing divorce in Pakistan but abstaining from giving a notice. Chairman, should be deemed to have revoked the pronouncement. Provisions of sub-section (G) of S. 7 of the Ordinance preclude a, divorce in Pakistan from being effective for a certain period and within that period. Consequently, it could not be said that marital status of the parties had in any way been changed; parties still in law continue to be husband and wife.Guidelines About Divorce Deed:Talaq in the manner categorical statement by husband before Family Court about having divorced his wife would by itself dissolve marriage between husband and wife.Where both man and woman accused had claimed themselves to be legally-wedded husband and wife in the statement, on the support of the written divorce deed by production of their Nikahnama and divorce deed by which complainant was alleged to have pronounced three Talaqs and said Talaqnanma was attested by a Magistrate and also a Notary Public and other witnesses, its verification being necessary, Trial is obliged to have verified the genuineness of said Talaqnama.Failure of the Court would render the conviction awarded as without any factual or legal basis. Onus to prove procedure of divorce in Pakistan would lie on the party alleging divorce to a wife. Onus to prove of procedure of divorce in Pakistan would lie on the party alleging divorce to a wife by her deceased husband. In absence of such proof, presumption could validly be raised that marriage between spouses remained intact till death of her husband. Facts considered in the light of the Talaqnama and notice issued by the Chairman, Arbitration Council supported by the oral testimony of witnesses proved divorce.About Nadra Divorce Certificate:Nadra divorce certificate in Pakistan issued by Chairman in absence of evidence on record to prove pronouncement of Talaq by husband would be ineffective qua inheritance rights of wife after death of husband. Decree for dissolution of marriage would not become ineffective merely because a copy thereof is not sent to the Chairman within the prescribed period of 7 days. Effectiveness of such decree after the procedure of divorce in Pakistan would be reckoned as from the date of due service and efflux of requisite period as be relevant in a given case. Divorce ipso facto would become effective on the expiry of ninety days from the date when notice is received by the Chairman. Divorce pronouncement by the husband upon the wife having not been revoked, becomes effective after the expiry of 90 days from the date of receipt of notice by the Nazim/Chairman, Arbitration Council. Family Court is under obligation to send by registered post Within 7 days of passing such decree, a certified copy of the same to appropriate Chairman whereupon Chairman would proceed as if he had received intimation of Talaq under this Ordinance.Onus to prove Nadra divorce certificate in Pakistan was on husband. Factum of marriage was admitted, onus to prove divorce, heavily lay on the party objecting the same. Non-service of notice is a mere irregularity. Provisions of S. 7(1) and Rule 3(b) are directory in nature as no penalty is provided for their non-compliance. Non- service of notice is a mere irregularity and does not affect validity of a divorce validly pronounced and communicated.
Procedure of Talaq in Pakistan:Wife was not entitled to maintenance amount after procedure of talaq in Pakistan. Plea raised by husband was that suit for maintenance of the plaintiff (wife) was decreed but she was not entitled to maintenance amount after lddat period and that husband did not avail any of the dowry articles, as he had passed most of his time abroad. Since the Talaq Procedure in Pakistan period of the plaintiff had elapsed, therefore, she was not entitled to the maintenance after lddat. Remittance receipts from abroad had established that husband had remitted greater amount than the decreed amount, thus, the plaintiff was not entitled to the recovery of dowry articles.About Nazia Law Associate:Nazia Law Associate is the best platform to know the legal Talaq Procedure in Lahore Pakistan. She know the procedure of Talaq in Pakistan According to the family Laws. If you want to get the Talaq in Pakistan according to the Pakistani Laws from her husband then you are in the perfect place.In Case Of Talaq Procedure:In case of procedure of talaq in Pakistan three menstrual courses has to wait for three menstrual courses and in event of wife not being subject to menstruation the period of lddat is three lunar months and iddat commences from the time the divorce is pronounced. 16. Provisions of S. 7 making all forms of Talaq to be revocable. Traditional Islamic Law making irrevocable pronouncement of one divorce to a wife whose marriage has not been consummated and prescribing on term of probation or a waiting period (lddat).Muslim Family Laws:Proceedings for recovery of past maintenance and that of the period of lddat were initiated under S. 9 of Muslim Family Laws Ordinance, 1961. Both the Courts below granted past maintenance along with period of lddat Grievance of petitioner was that the Courts below had wrongly assumed jurisdiction in the matter as the petitioner was not a Muslim Citizen of Pakistan and period of lddat was 39 days which was wrongly fixed as 90 days. She made effective procedure of talaq in Pakistan.Validity Petitioner did not raise point of jurisdiction in the contents of the revision petition filed below; therefore, he was not permitted to argue the same before High Court in exercise offer 90 days of Constitutional jurisdiction. Judgment of both the Tribunals below to the extent of period of lddat were not in accordance with the dictum laid down by Supreme Court in case titled Allah Dad v. Mukhtar reported as 1992 SCMR 1273.Husband had left for abroad soon after the marriage and did not avail any of the dowry articles which remained in the use of the plaintiff (wife). High Court while partly allowing the Constitutional petition set aside the judgment and decree to the extent of recovery of dowry articles and maintained the judgment and decree for articles maintenance allowance. lddat is a period at the expiry of which a divorced woman or a widow is entitled under the personal law, to contract another marriage. Children conceived and born during irregular or invalid marriage i.e., not vitiated and rendered illegal by radical defect, which makes the marriage void ab initio are legitimate, (ii) lddat becomes mandatory, and (I) dower becomes payable. Held; Legitimacy is traced to the date of copulation and not the date of marriage. Conjunction by way of temporary barrier automatically becomes regular the moment the bottleneck is removed i.e., the iddat period expires. This provision of S. 7 was clearly repugnant to Injunction of Holy Qur'an. Plea of lack of jurisdiction in Court raised. Such plea was not raised before Revision Court. Petitioner was a British national who had divorced the respondent.
Description:Vidalista Black 80mg(tadalafil) as one of a selective group of clinically proven PDE5 inhibitor treatments that works for most men with erectile dysfunction ED, the condition where a man cannot achieve or maintain a hard penis (erection) suitable for sexual activity.Vidalista Black 80 is a new-age anti-impotence treatment for men who are suffering from erectile dysfunction. Vidalista Black 80 is a most powerful drug that helps a man to accomplish and sustain a hard and long-lasting erection while being intimate with his partner.Vidalista Black 80 helps the men to get an appreciation for their sensual performance by their woman, as it not only helps them to fulfill their sensual thirst but also make them capable to satisfy the sensual thirst of their partner. How to take:Vidalista Black 80mg pill works best when taken one half hour before sexual activity. You will not get an erection until you are sexually stimulated. The erection will go away by itself after a sexual encounter. The effects of the medication can last up to 36 hours, so you can enjoy the effects of the medication for more than one day.No matter what kind of drug it is that you will use, whether you’re already familiar with it or not – it always pays to be extra cautious by reading the patient information leaflet provided as you purchase. If you have queries that you need to clear out, do ask the pharmacist about it. Vidalista 10 Tadalafil Though, it is recommended to first seek the advise of a doctor before taking any drugs. Your doctor would know the best way for you to take Vidalista Black 80 mg.How Vidalista Black 80 Mg Works:Vidalista Black 80mg tablet(PDE-5 inhibitor) is an active salt in Vidalista Black 80 Mg tablet which is increases the blood flow to the penis by relaxing the muscles in penile blood vessels hence, treating Erectile Dysfunctioning. It also treats pulmonary hypertension by relaxing the blood vessels in the lungs to allow blood to flow more easily.Dosages:Direction to use should be always on the consultation of a physician. As preferred the erectile dysfunction pill black 80 vidalista should be taken half an hour before the time of sexual contact, the effect may last up to 6 hours. The best method of ingestion is to take it with water directly.The tablet should not be broken down chewed and consumed with other food items like fruit juices salad and vegetables..Warning:Vidalista Black 80mg pill is probably safe to use during pregnancy.Vidalista Black 80mg medicine may make you feel dizzy, sleepy, tired, or decrease alertness. If this happens, do not drive.Tadalafil can lower blood pressure, and combining it with alcohol may further raise this effect.Vidalista Black 80mg Tablet should be used with caution in patients with kidney illness. Dose adjustment of Vidalista Black 80mg drug may be needed. Please consult your doctor.Side Effects:NauseaHeadacheMuscle PainChest Pain, Back Pain or Weakness in limbsFlushed FaceRedness of the skinItching sensation in the skinBuzzing sound in the earsSudden vision loss or darkness of visionStorage:You should keep your Vidalista Black 80mg medicine in their blister pack until used and store in a cool, dry place where the temperature stays below 30°C. For More Visit Click Here : tabletvilla.comFildena 150mgFildena 120mgVidalista professionalVidalista ct 20mgVidalista Black 80mg
It does not matter if you are heading for your first Valentine’s Day or you have been together for several years, V-Day is the perfect date to really spoil the lady of your life and make her feel loved. When it comes to showing her how much you care, a special gift on Valentine’s Day is just the ticket. What to present your girl for Valentine’s Day sometimes becomes a tough going, so to help you let us play Cupid and provide amazing gift suggestions for your wife or girlfriend. The following Valentine day gift ideas for her will earn you praise and fill her heart with the stuff she really wants.BlueTooth HeadPhonesIf the special woman in your life is going to buy Bluetooth headphones or is about to replace those old wear out ones, then Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to look for this much intended Valentine’s gift. Let her enjoy while she works out at the gym, during traveling or doing some light work around the home. Although Bluetooth headphones are a bit expensive than regular wire headphones, they're more flexible to use and the sound quality is often better. Valentine's PerfumeGoing for perfume is always a good idea, especially if you know your lady's favorite fragrance. Every guy knows what type of scent his wife likes. Getting perfume is one of the most preferred Valentine gifts for wife. There are a variety of new fragrances up in the market around Valentine’s season. These perfumes have a beautiful packing, while some may come in red color with a ribbon while others have a sparkle in them. A Bouquet of FlowersFlowers are a timeless gift for special occasions. Gift her with a bouquet of roses or other flowers together with other gifts such as Valentine cake as an addition. Flowers are loved by everyone and the rose bouquet is a very special Valentine’s gift for your girlfriend or wife, as those red roses give a very classic touch. A stunning roses bouquet poses a very royal appeal and almost every couple gives roses to each other. It is a sign of love and cares towards each other. A Beautiful Valentine’s BraceletA nice piece of jewellery is by far one of the best way to show and express your love to the person. A bracelet is a wonderful gift and a perfect way to symbolize your bond. Make the queen of your heart day feel very special by gifting her the special Valentine’s bracelet and make your bond even stronger, as this elegant piece of jewellery will always remind her of you. Smartphone CaseA beautiful smartphone case is a reasonable present that will be appreciated by her for its practical value. For a woman who needs to attach to her smartphone, a classy smartphone case is perfect for reminding her how much you care for her. She would feel her heart-melting every time she holds the phone. Therefore, choose one that can double as a decoration for your sweetheart's home as well as office. When choosing the perfect V-Day gift for your lady, remember that the most important thing is to make her happy. Consider her taste and choose an item that will put a smile on her face! Let this Valentine Day be the beginning of a deeper and happier relationship!
Figurative writing or speaking; vivid descriptions presenting or suggesting images
Allow The Fear - In Gita Verse 6.38 O mighty-armed Kṛṣṇa, does not such a man, who is bewildered from the path of transcendence, fall away from both spiritual and material success and perish like a riven cloud, with no position in any sphere?In the fear and insecurity Arjuna wants to save his identity. He has fear of losing material world. He may say that both spiritual and material success. But right now for him material success is more important than spiritual.Fear Is a By-Product of Desire:What is fear? First: fear is always around some desire. You want to become a famous man, the most famous man in the world – then there is fear. What if you cannot make it? – fear comes. Now fear comes as a by-product of desire: you want to become the richest man in the world. What if you don’t succeed? You start trembling; fear comes. You possess a woman: you are afraid that tomorrow you may not be able to possess, she may go to somebody else. She is still alive, she can go. Only dead women won’t go; she is still alive. You can possess only a corpse – then there is no fear, the corpse will be there. You can possess furniture, then there is no fear.But when you try to possess a human being fear comes. Who knows, yesterday she was not yours, today she is yours…Who knows – tomorrow she will be somebody else’s. Fear arises. Fear is arising out of the desire to possess, it is a by-product; because you want to possess, hence fear. If you don’t want to possess, then there is no fear. If you don’t have a desire that you would like to be this and that in the future, then there is no fear. If you don’t want to go to heaven then there is no fear, then the priest cannot make you afraid. If you don’t want to go anywhere then nobody can make you afraid.If you start living in the moment, fear disappears. Fear comes through desire. So basically, desire creates fear.Don’t Resist the Fear Allow the Fear:Fear has a beauty of its own, a delicacy and a sensitivity of its own. In fact it is a very subtle aliveness. The word is negative, but the feeling itself is very positive. Only alive processes can be afraid; a dead thing has no fear. Fear is part of being alive, part of being delicate, part of being fragile.So allow the fear. Tremble with it, let it shake your foundations – and enjoy it as a deep experience of stirring. Don’t take any attitude about fear. In fact, don’t call it fear; the moment you have called it fear you have taken an attitude. You have already condemned it; you have already said that it is wrong, that it should not be there. You are already on guard, already escaping, running away. In a very subtle way you have broken yourself away from it. So don’t call it fear. This is one of the most essential things – to stop calling things names. Just watch the feeling of it, the way it is.Allow it, and don’t give it a label – remain ignorant. Ignorance is a tremendously meditative state. Insist on being ignorant, and don’t allow the mind to manipulate. Don’t allow the mind to use language and words, labels and categories, because it has a whole process. One thing is associated with another, and it goes on and on and on.Just simply look – don’t call it fear. Become afraid and tremble – that is beautiful. Hide in a corner, go under a blanket and tremble. Do what an animal will do if he is afraid. What will a small child do if he is afraid? He will cry. Or a primitive man – what will he do? He will kneel down and pray to a god out of fear.If you Allow the Fear then Fear Is One of the Doors from Where One Enters Into One’s Being:If you allow fear to take possession of you, your hair will stand on end. Then for the first time you will know what a beautiful phenomenon fear is. In that turmoil, in that cyclone, you will come to know that there is still a point somewhere within you which is absolutely untouched. And if fear cannot touch it, then death cannot touch it. There is darkness and fear all around, with just a small center absolutely transcendental to it. Not that you try to be transcendental – you simply allow the fear to totally take possession – but suddenly you become aware of the contrast.So if fear or anger or sadness, or anything whatsoever happens, allow it. Close the doors and be in it, relax in it. Just behave like a small child who has not been trained to label things, who simply lives feelings and has no thoughts about them.Fear is one of the doors from where one enters into one’s being. It is one of the most repressed things. The whole of humanity, all the world over, can be divided into two types: one is sex-repressive, the other is death-repressive. Either a society suppresses death or it suppresses sex. Whenever a society expresses sex, becomes unafraid of it, untabooed, uninhibited about it, it immediately starts to suppress death – immediately, because death is the polar opposite. So if you allow sex, death has to be repressed. If you repress sex then there is no fear of death, you can allow it.If you allow the fear to take possession of you instead of coming up with all the questions like Arjuna, fear itself will become door to enter into your being. That itself will become your path.
In India, jewellery is considered more than just a decorative accessory. It has been tied to traditional, rituals, customs and rich heritage of the Indians. We acquire our love for jewellery from our ancestors who have always fancied the enormous and weighted heirloom jewels. Think of your mom’s wedding necklace that was given to her by your grandmother. Yes, our love for giant piece comes from there but minimalism is taking over the jewellery scene in India.With Valentine’s Day approaching, you should look out for the bestValentine’s gifts for wife or girlfriend. We suggest you start with jewellery as Valentine’s day gift for her because no woman has ever said no to a piece of jewellery. But before you go shopping, find out what kind of jewellery she’s into. She could be a statement jewels lover or a fan of the minimalistic styles. Like us. If she’s head-over-heels in love with minimal jewellery, here are our top Valentine’s Day gifts for girlfriend or wife that will sweep her off her feet.Abstract front-open chokerWe love a unique choker style too much. The simple addition of a minimal front-open choker like this one can be styled with off-shoulder dresses, turtle neck sweaters and even button-down shirts. This silver-tone choker has the most aesthetically appealing design and look.Gold half moon earringsAccents of pearl are a great way to enhance your minimalist jewellery. This gold pair of half-moon earrings with heart embellishment makes for a fine minimalist accessory for everyday use.Butterfly charm chokerMinimal accessories do not have to be boring. You can very well make use of a bit fun elements like the butterflies, flowers and clouds to make your minimal jewellery all the more interesting. This gold-toned choker can be a great choice for your girl this Valentine’s Day.Starfish necklaceDelicate gold necklaces are a must-have for your minimalistic style lover girl. If not a beach holiday, surprise her with a stunning starfish pendant gold necklace for a fun-filled Valentine’s Night.Geometric shape ringsMinimal style is incomplete without some geometric shapes here and there. These beautiful minimal rings with unique shapes have to be our top favourites this season. We love the addition of stackable minimal rings to accessorize your beautiful hands.Turquoise Dot NecklaceGold necklaces can be great gifting options for Valentine’s Day. The turquoise pendant in round-shape makes for an interesting visual element amidst all that gold. This necklace has all the qualities to impress her this Valentine’s Day jewelry sale.Gold face outline earringsThe face outline earrings are a rage even today. They were first spotted on celebrities in early2018 but even today they continue to fascinate minimal style lovers. You can surprise her with a pair of face earrings like these made out of 18K gold. Moon-star rose gold ringThe silver open moon-star ring makes for a feisty addition to her your darling’s jewellery closet. Rose gold is the flavour of the season, she would enjoy wearing their celestial world around her finger.Amethyst stone drop earringsA pair of silver earrings embellished with amethyst stone is not only beautiful but also quite special. Gemstone jewellery is a great way to tell her that you remember tiny details like her Zodiac sign that matches with the stone.With Bollywood celebrities rocking these minimal baubles to the red carpets, movie premieres and casual date nights – These have caught the fancy of our regular crowd too. The fashion bloggers and who’s who of the fashion world swear by the minimal style jewellery that is here to stay. Besides, these accessories are never ‘too bold’ or ‘over-flashy’ for daily wear. This means you rock all the above-listed pieces to work and even a party. It is all about how you put together an effective look.
You have finally found your soulmate. Congratulations! Now it’s time to go shopping for the perfect wedding ring. Many couples prefer to head to the jewelry store together. But if you want to bring in an element of surprise, this article will help you a lot. You can go a step further and impress her. Gift her the most unique wedding ring she has ever worn. This will strengthen your bonding. A sleek, cleanly-designed band symbolized a simple ring but there are other striking combinations as well. So let’s go through some of the most glamorous, romantic ring pairings one by one.Unique Combinations of Wedding RingsMixed MetalsNobody likes to stick to one metal color nowadays. This trend is true for necklaces, bracelets, and even wedding rings. The modern bride loves a combination of yellow gold, silver or white gold, and rose gold on a special day. This means you’re not restricted to choosing an exact match. In the present day, most unique wedding rings have yellow and white gold, rose gold or titanium in their design. These rings are different from basic designs and convey a strong fashion statement. Moreover, this combination is completely customizable and works well on any white gold wedding ring. White gold’s purity is depicted in karats. One karat means 1/24th part of pure gold in an alloy. Thus, pure gold is denoted as 24 karats. 18 karat gold means 75 percent gold and the remaining 25 percent consists of other metals. If you’re looking for gold with high purity, 14 or 18-carat white gold is the best option. Keep certain things in mind while buying white gold rings. Most white gold is created using alloys of manganese, palladium, and nickel. You should avoid white gold that is created with nickel as it’s a common allergen. The other two alloys are great options for a hypoallergenic band.Antique and EngravedAntique or vintage-inspired engagement rings are both romantic and nostalgic. They complement an engraved wedding band very well. You can engrave the inside or outside of the band with something special. This message should be extremely special and touch her emotionally.Emerald with BaguettesAn elegant emerald cut engagement ring deserves a striking wedding band. Baguettes suit the emerald cuts perfectly as they look identical but are narrower and more elongated. Once they are paired together, the bride gets a modern and sophisticated look along with a unique sense of style. Tapered baguettes are a hot choice amongst modern couples. To experience a statement look, you can get the baguettes arranged horizontally in the band rather than vertically.Solitaire with an Asymmetric ClusterWhat do you think is a timeless classic amongst wedding rings? It should be a diamond solitaire ring without any doubt. Most people pair it with a classic band but you can try something more unique? Instead of a row of diamonds lying below the solitaire, experiment with the style by placing a band of a cluster of smaller diamonds on one side. This pairing is best for a woman who isn’t afraid to tweak her personal styleTextured Metal Hammered metals are one of the most sought-after options in both costume and luxury jewelry, and their contrast with a smooth metal engagement ring is appealing. If you don’t believe us, try pairing a hammered white gold band with a simple engagement ring. It will enhance the look and feel multi-fold. Brushed or matte metal finishes also make for a beautiful pair. Triple StacksCountless brides love the idea of double wedding bands. One lies below their engagement ring, and the other is present on top of it. This suits well with band-style engagement rings and solitaire styles. You can also give pavé diamonds a shot for an exceptionally striking look. This will surely delight a woman who loves the luxurious look of diamonds.Interlocking The interlocking engagement ring and wedding band combination is one of the most innovative designs. Designing and purchasing this combination together ensures a perfect fit. Encrusting the band in pavé diamonds complements the sparkle-factor of the engagement ring. You can also pick a simple platinum or gold band that diminishes the effect of the other diamonds.Heirloom Ring with BirthstonesIf you want to gift her one of the most sentimental pieces of jewelry she’ll ever wear, a family heirloom ring is the ultimate option. You can take it to the next level by adding significant stones to the wedding band. Creativity knows no limits. You may even add your birthstones to the band to get a look that’s extra special for the woman who wears it. Final ThoughtsWeddings are special and rings make them all the more special. You have to put your heart and soul into buying the perfect ring for your partner. We have elaborated on most of the possible ring combinations in this blog. You can further experiment with them and create something better. We wish you both a bright future ahead!
Pregnancy time is the most blissful and amazing duration of the two people. Though, a mother has to go through with the series of tests and medication. An obstetrician is specialists who take care of all the pregnancy-related things. Some pregnant women assist by one obstetrician for the entire pregnancy duration. In the case of complication, the health checkup by an obstetrician becomes essential. One should not make any delay to go through with all the follow checkups during the pregnancy phase. Mostly women prefer to visit female Obstetrician or female pregnancy doctor as they feel more comfortable and relax.One can easily search the reliable and experienced pregnancy doctor in their location. Popular medical websites help to perform the search for a qualified doctor. If someone is looking for a pregnancy doctor in Kolkata, then they should select the city as Kolkata next moment the entire pregnancy doctor in Kolkata will come up. One can check the complete details by visiting the profile of the doctors which consist of, "years of experience", "rating", "fee", "contact details", and "patient's feedback". Let's understand more about the role and necessity of an Obstetrician during the time of pregnancy.Role of Obstetrician:Obstetricians are the trained doctors who specialized in taking care of women's health during the pregnancy and after the pregnancy. Also, they perform all the required diagnoses and prescribe medicine. Obstetricians are also trained to resolve many complex issues that arise during the examination of different cases. There are some specialized pregnancy doctors or Obstetricians who look after all the reproductive functions of the women and performs relevant treatment to resolve the medical issue.Process to Select an Obstetrician: One process to select an authorized and reliable obstetrician has mentioned above, where one can visit the medical website and explores the profile of pregnancy doctors. There are some more effective ways; let's discuss each of them below:Pregnancy is a significant phase and full of ups and downs. A person needs to be very careful about all the medical requirements, and only a pregnancy doctor can ensure the wellbeing of everything.When you are choosing a government hospital for the pregnancy examination, then government usually provide a common Obstetrician for the checkups. Also, some general practitioner takes care of the pregnant woman when there is no complication in the pregnancy.People with private health insurance and maternity cover grab the opportunity to have their Obstetrician. Also, several additional benefits will be given to ensure the best possible delivery experience or hospitality.
You know what, everyone wants to look great and gorgeous right? well, jewellery is the best way to look so. but have you ever explored the options in the realm of jewellery? There are so many options out there that you can consider and pick one.The point is you should check out Kundan jewellery too. these kundan jewellery items are trending and are absolutely popular. To have Kundan jewellery is a dream and desire for people who loves to wear conventional and ethnic dresses. But you have to know which of the jewellery items or pieces can be paired with which sort of costumes and outfits. You must also be mindful of the fact that the kundan jewellery demands lot of care and it has to be stored in a safe and secured zone.kundan necklaceThe biggest and apparent perk of having a kundan Necklace is that you can wear any sort of other jewelleries with this. yes, for example, you can easily team up a costume jewellery earring with a kundan jewellery type of necklace or a simulated jewellery bracelet with a gorgeous necklace of kundan jewellery. The kundan jewellery can be teamed up with nearly any type of other jewellery so it is essential to have a necklace that can be worn with any sort of fashion jewellery too. you can find extensive range of options in the realm of necklaces in kundan and you would not be disappointed for sure. these jewellery items are surely going to make your day.Kundan EarringsEarrings are surely the best pals for all women who adore to wear different kinds of jewellery. Not only they enjoy and adore to wear jewellery but they also love to flaunt the style and fashion statement to others. Earrings might be worn in the absence of any kind of jewellery and mainly of it’s the kundan earrings. You know what, you would see that most of the kundan jewellery is actually heavy and so it is not required to wear any sort of jewelleries like necklace or bangles with it. Every woman should definitely have a heavy pair of kundan jewellery in their treasured wardrobe. After all, it goes gracious and graceful with any type of woman, having any tastes.Amazing Kundan Bridal SetKundan is also loved and adored by many of the new age bride. These brides do love to have a look that is more sophisticated and modern and that is mixed with the conventions of their background or religion. Kundan can be the ideal example of this combination. You must purchase a bridal set of kundan to have a spectacular, graceful, sophisticated and exceptional look on the day of your wedding. you surely would love to have the jewellery that you adored and embrace closest to your heart. Your wedding day would turn out to be glamorous for you.Conclusion So, apparently, kundan is the first choice of trendy and sophisticated women in the present time. if you haven’t tried it out yet, you are surely missing out on something wow.
Realtors don't get enough kudos for the work they put into their customers. There is a great deal of potential obligation in the land vocation, and genuine progress takes continued difficult work. Many attempt, and few endure. A decent roomrents Realtor ought to turn into your confided in counsel. By comprehension and acknowledging what the Realtor accomplishes for you as the customer, you can ensure a magnificent working association with your Realtor and guarantee all out progress all through your home purchasing process.Continuously, when I state "realtor" I need you to think Realtor, and to think about just a Realtor to speak to you in your home buy. "Real estate agent" is an expert assignment for a realtor who has made an open promise to an elevated level of responsibility and demonstrable skill. A realtor simply signs a permit; a Realtor clings to a code of morals.With a Realtor, you can expect somebody who has contributed time, cash, and vitality into the land calling, rather than somebody who paid a few hundred dollars, took a few classes and breezed through an assessment. Truly, a permit permits one to rehearse in land in the condition of issuance, yet it avoids anything related to the operator's notoriety. Most first-time homebuyers don't know to ask, "Are you a Realtor?" or far and away superior, to look at the operator's business card to check their title. A Realtor can likewise take extra instruction to increase uncommon assignments, additional evidence of exertion towards demonstrable skill and capability. Generally, the more assignments the better: few would invest the energy and cash on these assignments without an enthusiasm for this business and the customers they serve.Finding the correct Realtor is not really an accurate science, however a little research can go far. In such huge numbers of cases, the best specialists are not the ones you see and find out about; actually, the best operators are the ones who are so acceptable at their exchange and calling they don't have to burn through cash on publicizing. These are the specialists who work essentially by referral or informal exchange and have qualified individuals coming to them consistently. This wonder just happens to extraordinary operators who know their exchange and have fabricated their business over enough years for new customers to search them out.Referrals RuleNumerous purchasers start by taking a gander at specialists they have known about. This could be the nearby Century 21 branch by the coffeehouse down the road, or it may be the case that pleasant old woman who strolls down the square every Thursday with her astounding flyers. That old woman operator is urgently trusting that her difficult work pays off and that following quite a while of conveying her crazy flyer to you, one day you will get the telephone and call her. Thus, the nearby Century 21 branch is trusting that next time you get espresso, you will stroll in and become their next lead (and potential customer). All things considered, they pay great cash for the perceivability that has been building their image mindfulness each time you passed by and saw their give up the years.These are a portion of the numerous instances of how operators attempt to get your business, however you ought not worry about them. You ought to effectively search out a Realtor. Basically, the best specialists are regularly the ones who don't have to invest energy cold pitching or entryway thumping to get their business. Business comes to them by means of referrals from past customers who are happy with their polished skill, trustworthiness, and results. Step up to the plate and give yourself the best chance to win: pick your specialist cautiously.How about we pause for a minute to explain this issue about star operators and how they continue on ahead. Incredible specialists didn't arrive in such a state by lounging around trusting that business will come to them. Or maybe, their prosperity is the consequence of long stretches of difficult work fabricating their organizations and ranges of prominence so as to find a workable pace where they never again need substantial promoting. Kindly don't confuse a specialist's forcefulness with an awful thing. A proactive operator is a generally excellent sign! The individual is simply attempting to see where you are as far as the purchasing procedure. A specialist has to know whether you are hoping to move one month from now, or are hoping to begin looking one month from now - there is an immense distinction! Now and again specialists who don't have to publicize do so in any case so as to keep up a personality in the network. Similarly as picking the best specialist isn't a careful science, nor is the manner in which that incredible operators showcase and publicize themselves.Recognizing what I know, on the off chance that I needed to locate the best realtor for my first-time buy, I would follow two essential plans: I would ask a few people I knew and trusted for Realtor suggestions, and I would check the online network purchaser web journals for enthusiastically prescribed Realtors.As I referenced previously, the best operators are the ones who get steady referrals. You ought to be one of those referrals! You ought to get some information about their latest involvement with land. Ideally, you need to ask individuals who purchased their homes inside the previous year or thereabouts, however a referral to a specialist somebody has worked with various occasions is a decent sign. Continuously keep an open demeanor for what individuals are letting you know. All in all, we people have an inborn need to share great encounters, so you should take any suggestions with great enthusiasm and afterward qualify them with inqui