Happily ever after is a great ending for Disney but in real life marriage takes work and commitment. It isn’t just Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt who argue (the only difference is that when they argue paparazzi peddle photos to celebrity magazines); every marriage has its ups and downs.In a healthy relationship, we make a choice to create peace instead of trying to always have the final word. If you value the self-esteem of your partner, you will be careful to avoid threats as a way to find contro