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I see people always try to yell at others for any kind of small or big reason.they dont admit that situation or luck sometimes are actual culprit to blame on .but these are abstact ideas,you cant physicaly touch them and yell at them so we choose living things.something on which or who we can make some impact , to unleash your anger or any other emotion on a real thing.you hope you get a response.but this behaviour is not at all right.I am sharing my experience.Kolkata roads are known for water logged and craters here and there.Think that you have to wear a nice white suit to attend a meeting and you are in hurry ,there is another man in same situation with different attire riding a bike and suddenly its tyre got into water logged crater and your suits gets dirty for that.what would be your first expression.Either you will use slang to him or give him an irritating look.if you verbally engage with him then he could also blame you for putting on white cloths in rainy weather.he doesn't know your condition nor you him.then what's the use of arguing like a fool.Both wants to win over each other but its no ones fault.the actual fault is that politician who didn't make that road with good material.and its our situation which we don't have any control ,he might take another road ,nothing could have happened.But in that moment no one will think in that way.because we need to make a sudden impact for what happened that's what our instinct tell us to do.people have a general tendency that he doesn't want to lose in any argument,no matter its wrong or right .Humans are making things happen in this world that does not mean we can control everything.luck is not any supernatural thing,its when your decision comes in a way with others,and makes a new situation then again we make decision based on new environment ,this cycle goes on and on .if that new situation is good to us we consider having good luck if its bad then we call bad luck.and we have no control over this because we don't know the future.So if you are wrong then accept that ,understand your fault and judge that ,its better to live with truth than arguing blindly and finally being frustrated for losing.we must speak and think wisely before hurting others or yourself.I know we can never be right everytime but at least TRY.