Love: it's a funny term , isn't it? While somebody seems to develop an acumen, others struggle, and struggle hard.
You see couples around you laughing, smiling, cuddling, holding hands, you sometimes laugh and wonder, what's wrong with you? Most of us do find the answer, but sometimes when you see the guys who have it all also struggling, it presents a dilemma situation.
Now, once you start to introspect, you develop some intriguing points.
Somebody like us simply lack what it takes to wow a woman. Let's be honest, me, you , as a good boy, always prefer to keep wishes of others before your own. You always prefer to be available for people whenever they are in need, or offer your shoulder for crying without hesitation. This ,not to earn any sympathy or any kind of favour, but you simply hate to see people struggle with emotions, with fights , henceforth beleive that if you can share his or her bad times, maybe they would get some strength in life, even it comes as a cost of piercing your heart, and staying strong at face, smiling and offering compassion to them, because that's your nature, that is how you have been brought up with beleif. You hate to see the person you love crying or staying sad, simply because you love them with all your heart , and hate to see a single teardrop from their eyes, even if it means letting them go. Maybe you find yourself as the mediator in their fight, or as a catalyst to strengthen their bonding, their relationship, because that's what makes his/her happy, and you love to see them smiling or giggling.
Because you believe love is sacred. Love is the purest form of human emotions. Love is something which binds the whole mankind together. Love knows no selfishness, love follows no mathemetics, no give and take. You being an ardent beleiver of such notion, prefer to let the person you love free. Because love is free, love is all about letting your partner do what they want and being a watchdog of the consequences , offering advise and guidance as they strive to be better. Love is feeling satisfied, feeling accomplished as you see your partner beaming with happiness, letting her wings out in the blue sky.
Because a great man once said
"Aaj ... aaj ek hasi aur baant lo ... aaj ek dua aur maang lo ... aaj ek ansoon aur pee lo ... aaj ek zindagi aur jee lo ... aaj ek sapna aur dekh lo ... aaj ... kya pata, kal ho naa ho''
In the end , once you see they are happy and mingled, silently go away, stretch your hands out and repeat this dialogue in mind, by that great man again
"Pyar toh bahut log karte hai ... lekin mere jaisa pyar koi nahi kar sakta kyun ki kisi ke paas tum joh nahi ho"
And smile , because you deserve it pal, you deserve it.
Chaahe jo tumhe poore dil se
Milta hai woh mushkil se